how i wish that my home is not boring place
By hotsummer
@hotsummer (13919)
Philippines
July 20, 2012 5:00pm CST
it is because that i don't make the decisions at home that i can't decide at home and who are the visitors i can have at home. and more than that it is because we don't have much good neighbors so we can't have good friends in the community. i think that the guys in the neighborhood are bit better than the women. as the women to be gossiping a lot of times and nosy most of the times.
so that is why i don't enjoy staying at home. as people in the neighborhood is pretty like observing your life and the faulths or failures in your life. so i wished i got nice neighborhood.
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5 responses
@riempie9 (1021)
• South Africa
21 Jul 12
If your house is boring, change your thinking and make your house more interesting. Flowers in the house can lift one's spirit as it is life. A cake baking in the oven has an aroma and creates a family feeling. Don't mope around. See what you can throw out and give away. One man's rubbish is another man's treasure. Listen to uplifting music or music you like. Read a book on how to change your mood and lift your spirit. Talking about it all the time and not doing something just adds to your problem.
@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
21 Jul 12
We can not control other people minds, some of our neighbors are nibblers in nature. They can pull you down until you were sunk into the mud. Making friends are too tough to find, I mean those whom we can considered true friends in life. It is also a stage where we try to find ways to be grown ups like matured individuals.
@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
we can't find a perfect place to live.we can't avoid gossips,observers or anything.even on my own place,i don't stay much and i don't have much friends here because of that.That's why a lot of times,i go somewhere like malls,meeting with my friends, or if i stayed at home i watched movies or facing my computer doing jobs online.
@wilsongoddard (7291)
• United States
20 Jul 12
Hopefully, you will be able to move to another place one day soon and enjoy a nice neighborhood.
I don't like my neighbors, either. However, it isn't because I find them boring. I find them obnoxious, rude and potentially criminal. This is a nice area overall, but I have the "privilege" of being in a building filled with vile creatures.
Of course, I have put my foot down, and I have told my boyfriend in no uncertain terms that we are relocating posthaste. He has taken that to heart, in part, because he doesn't want to have to deal with the police. Yes, it is that sort of building.
@Raine38 (12387)
• United States
21 Jul 12
That is just the downside when you are not living on your own. As much as you want to create a healthy environment right inside your home, you can't because you do not have the final say in the comings and goings of the whole household. While it's true that we have no hand in choosing who will be our neighbors most of the time, we can choose who to be friends with. It is true that gossips is the favorite past time in most neighborhoods, especially those who don't have anything to do the whole day but just stay home; especially if they do not have the mind to keep themselves to be busy and do something more productive. Sadly but there will be always a nosy neighbor or two anywhere.
Don't worry, someday you will have your own place, your rules, your way. With your experiences with your current home, I'm sure you will loads of ideas in your home someday.





