You are born in the right place?
By didi13
@didi13 (2926)
Romania
July 21, 2012 11:27am CST
I was not born in the right place - so often hear this response, a response time of life itself, the fact that things go as we imagine it should go as we expect and is a replica that I used it myself, to me, many times.
We were not born at the right time, right place and from there we draw everything. Because take that burden should not be ours. Because someone threw us into a world where we feel that we fit, that steps are not in our rhythm that we live thing and not what we want, things were certainly different , better if ... I was another.
I think, basically, all we have to do is to get around as well with what we have here now. Because we have not the right than to attempt. But as we'll get it implanted in my mind clear and rational explanation and how we will operate and provide the mechanism to give some results?
You've had you, when you feel that you are not in place, right time, it's not your life that you live? And how you fight against the waves, you struggle or accept them simply?
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@polaris77 (2039)
• Bacau, Romania
23 Jul 12
I think most people,at some points in their lives,reach this conclusion that they were not born in the right place and sometimes even in the right time because the hardships they have to face in life are overwhelming and there's a huge gap between their illusions and the harsh reality they have to deal with every day.How do we deal with such feelings?Well,I guess a good therapy is to imagine what it would be like to live in a place where things are much worse than the place where we live,and that would probably help us realize that after all we're not that unlucky.As for the right time,no matter how romantic some of the periods in the past were presented in cinema or literature,we must realize that the real life in those times was generally was generally much worse than it is now,and a lot of things which make our lives more interesting now(such as the internet)simply didn't exist.These are arguments I try to think of whenever I have this weir feeling that I could have been born in a better place or time,and they help me leave those feelings behind and get on with my life.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
23 Jul 12
In my case it was needed to read hundreds of pages from books in psychology to reach your conclusion. Many times, I have think I had found the right place, and not live the life I want, but what I still do, is to get along better with what I have, here, now . And indeed, a historical period more "comfortable" with the same features ... it is not, and I can not imagine a time when not all hygiene facilities known today, and at a time without internet.
Thanks for response.
