Do you think woman is more valiant than man
By homeshoppers
@homeshoppers (6166)
Philippines
July 21, 2012 8:04pm CST
last night i was watching a movie and here's what i noticed.
(correct me if I'm wrong or you can add some good or bad points in both if you want)
Most of the time it was women who bare a lot of pain, specially during pregnancy, giving birth, taking care of the household even need to takes care and look after their husband and kids, even if they are a working mother they still do the same household things and never been tired taking care of her kids.
Most of the time woman tend to understand more even if they've been hurt even if sometimes shes not appreciated and neglected, though we just cried but it doesn't mean we are weak.
Man on the other hand they only think of how they can do better income for his family, its just more about financial way(though woman can do it also
) and yet easy for the man to turned to another woman and just hit nor hurt their wife if they have problem while some go out and drink a lot. Why do you think.
) and yet easy for the man to turned to another woman and just hit nor hurt their wife if they have problem while some go out and drink a lot. Why do you think.1 person likes this
2 responses
@bloodmask (590)
• India
22 Jul 12
The most common thing that I could say is that women are most lenient and soft hear ted than men. Most women know what they are doing and for what purpose. The tradition has set forth that women should be homemaker and men should be bread maker. What you see on TV is just on director and script writer mind and that what makes up the current society. If you consider all men to be harsh and pub going then that would be too harsh on men. Well most men do go social too much. They just stick with their family. Its just their environment from which they have developed. While the script writers assume that audience are intelligent, but most of them are not like children who watch such shows and assume that this is the way of life, and living. This sense makes them feel different and this changes the future generation. If all shows were too violent then all humans would go violent as TV has become a part of human life as an entertainer, show stopper, emotion gatherer. Assuming a child male on seeing his father beating his wife and children will assume that this is the way of life and so when he grow adult he assume it as so. Don't you know The IceMan, one of the most hardcore criminal whose life was more than worse. If you have children and you give care for them they will care you more than what you desire.
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
22 Jul 12
Yes your right probably due to the tradition that its the women who do the household thing and takes care of the kids and even their husband though even if they have work its still them who prepare for food unless they have maid nor they can afford to buy outside but in our country some of them used to be like that and funny isn't it. Some movies are also based on the real world like whats happening to the society though some we might can relate and some part might not but still then i can still think that as a woman i am still more valiant coz managed to do things even just a single mother while the father of my daughter just left after of responsibility, that's what im referring too for the other sentences in my post coz somehow i can relate to the movie about the guy hurt the girl and tend to just go out and leave if there's a huge problem that facing it with the wife.
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@MoonGypsy (4605)
• United States
22 Jul 12
it's hard to say no a days. the roles in the home have changed so much. what you are talking about could actually work the other way around. i do know what you are trying to say, though. society does put certain pressures on women that they don't do on men. this goes vice versa, though.
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
22 Jul 12
Thanks MoonGypsy though your right,my brother whose currently unemployed coz his waiting for his job abroad is actually the one whose taking care of his kids and sent to school, do the laundry every Sunday and do the cooking since his wife have work, On the other hand i also have my sister whose both working with her husband still the one do the house chores and still able to take care of his husband and kids. While my neighbor who used to hit his wife whenever his drunk while the girl do all of the works. With the movie i've seen some part of it reflects the reality of life on the dark side of the world.
