Running from the reality
By Daisy_22
@Daisy_22 (1229)
Philippines
July 23, 2012 4:46am CST
After we know our feelings. He choose to stay away from me because he is committed.He chooses to cut our communications abruptly.It is very painful in my part but i'm giving him what he wants,i give him time and space to think it over.I did not ask him to love me but only friendship..I don't ask for more but I'm so sad to notice that he is really avoiding me.why are you avoiding me if you are so sure with your decision?Be a sport...Don't run from the reality.I hope you will find peace and true happiness.I hope that in the near future if we will see each other I can be strong enough to say Hi,how are you?I'm strongly face the truth and reality and i hope you also do...You can never run and hide from the reality especially your real feelings.Don't worry about me,,no matter what,i will be always your friend....So sad.Share your opinions to both sides....thanks
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4 responses
@Raine38 (12387)
• United States
23 Jul 12
If he is already committed before you guys even meet, then he's just doing the right thing in avoiding you. If you were in the position of his gf/wife, would you like the idea that a female "friend" who's got "more than friends" designs on him be still around him? I know I wouldn't. Every little bit of spark can blaze into a good fire once kindled and fanned.
I know it is depressing and painful, but we don't know what the future holds nor what will our feelings be in the future. If, let's say you guys still decided to be "normal" friends despite it. And you said that is enough for you. We don't know for sure that along the way, you might not be satisfied with just being friends. You might want something more. The same goes for him. And that's when things are gonna get ugly.
Be strong for yourself. This too shall pass and the sadness will also end.
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@BethelSophia (538)
• Philippines
23 Jul 12
if that guy is committed then he has his reason of staying away from you, not because he's hiding his true feelings or he's trying to run away from reality but perhaps he's just doing the right thing and the best thing for both of you.
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@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
25 Jul 12
in my opinion, it's unfair on your part that he avoided you just because he's inlove with you.What about your friendship?will it just end?..he's guilty because he knows that if he didn't cut his communication to you his feelings for you won't fade and the fact that he has girlfriend.Or maybe he thought that,that was the right thing to do.
@Mashnn (4501)
•
23 Jul 12
The truth with most guys who are "committed" is that they are usually not looking for a long time friendship. They just need a friend for sometimes or to accomplish some goal then that all. I think the best thing is to try and move on with your life. I also do not think that you want someone in your life who will only be there for you when he need something from you.
