mending a broken heart!... easy or not?
By BethelSophia
@BethelSophia (538)
Philippines
July 23, 2012 6:31am CST
Have you ever broke someone's heart? with intention or without any intentions? if so how were you able to mend the broken heart? or should I ask you this; is your heart been broken? if so, was it mended by someone who broke it? how would you like your heart to be mended?
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8 responses
@shaoolovesyou (11)
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19 Sep 12
We cannot deny the fact that it is really not easy to mend a broken heart. I had never been able to mend someone's broken heart. I wish I had done that before, the time I had broke his heart. He's stronger than me now, and when I got my heart broken, he is one of the persons who help me stand up again. But only you, yourself who can mend your heart. Don't give your heart to other person if it's broken, be the one to fix it, you might hurt them too.
@BethelSophia (538)
• Philippines
19 Sep 12
I think you're experiences a feeling of loving someone because you want your heart to be mended. What you're experiencing is not easy and I believe that you don't want to broken the heart of other people as well as breaking your own hear. I hope that time will let your heart to be mended again. You're exactly right don't let other people mend your heart, mend it by yourself so you will not end up hurting others.
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
24 Jul 12
Well, I don't think I have broken someone's heart. I always nice to others and I never cheated on my girlfriend. It would seems to me that I am the one who got hurt most of the time. My dad's girlfriend for instance. She always talks something that will definitely hurt my feelings. The worst thing is she never cared if she hurt others. So she never really apologize to me so that I feel better.
@BethelSophia (538)
• Philippines
19 Sep 12
oh, I'm sorry to hear that squallming that your heart is being broken. I think you are a good person so it's not hard for you to forgive and understand your father's girlfriend and other people hurting you. Hope they will realize your goodness. I believe that you are touching a lot of lives. Always remain being good.
@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
24 Jul 12
I may not be easy to mend a broken heart but it is definitely possible. The healing period would really depend on the person's perspectives in life. I had my heart broken a few times and the healing period took me like a few months. I really do not want to take it that long so I do everything to redirect my thoughts to other things that would make me happy. So it is really up to the person. They can broke my heart but they can't really put me down. I don't really look back to passed relationships. Once it ends, it stopped there. I always make sure that there is no turning back.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
29 Sep 12
Hi,
I never broke someone's heart or someone never broke my heart. but it is said that it is not easy to mend someone's heart. It's true that time is the medicine for curing or healing the wounds of our hearts. We have to spend our life happily. We have to forget our past.
@BethelSophia (538)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
you are right nia, it's not easy to mend a broken heart, yet time will heal the wounds. When the wound is already healed it's hard to be wounded again for the scars will protect it.
@BethelSophia (538)
• Philippines
24 Jul 12
:), somehow you're right kiking, though it takes time yet the result will be good and you'll realize that there is better puzzle than this..........
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
23 Jul 12
Mending a broken is one of the most difficult trials in life that we need to overcome inorder to survive.It has never been easy.However the best cure for fixing it is only Time.No matter how painful it is, life must still go on....As the saying goes "With time my child all your pains and worries will be vanish and wiped away"..
