If someone is a poor these days, he cannot find any relation.
By dilrajj57
@dilrajj57 (1757)
Pakistan
July 24, 2012 12:07pm CST
may be so, if someone is poor then he will not able to get relation? perhaps every one like rich life, but the poor also like rich life but as poor not able to get relation?
7 responses
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
22 Oct 12
hi,
i could say that is true a little beat as of now,because most of the people this days seek rich people or stable in life because they know they can live,i have some known people who are poor and they are really hard to find a partner in his life because he dont have such money and no stable work for him.
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
11 Oct 12
yeh you right if no money then no friend if lot of money then lot of friends.
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
Not exactly, though some girls are into money for them to make sure that they will going to have a good life with them nor will going to get gifts from them though it might not be real love but just for convenience.
On the other hand poor guy will have pure love as only woman who really love the guy will stay with him and willing to sacrifice things for him though its not because the guy is poor it means that they will be poor the whole life, as a matter of fact the girl will inspire him to do better, i know someone who left by wife coz he doesn't have good job and the wife always blaming him until she went to someone thinking he will give her good life, then the husband meet another girl whose very supportive and even inspire him and also help him financially until the time comes that they were able to save money for small business then years goes by the business is now a huge business as they are both helping each other managing the business and they have big house and a lot of cars now, then his ex wife was separated to the guy coz the guy ended was a gambler so he lost all his money and he always hurt her. So now shes living alone without someone who love him.
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@Olleenz (3398)
• Indonesia
24 Jul 12
These on perspective of men or girls ..... ??
If these on perspective of men than 90 % true.
In many countries, men still see as person who support his family. If they, how he can support his family when he almost can not support himself. The only chance for him is to find relation with same level or lower. But problem is the other genders had same feeling about this and they looking for upper level than they are.
If these on perspective of girls than only 65% true.
They still had chances to find relationship. They can use their beauty to attract opposite gender, a lot of men fall on these strategy.
But these just my opinion, can be right or wrong .... 
@sayo13 (414)
• India
2 Nov 12
Well I agree with you to some extent since I believe that a poor have more struggle in his life compared to a rich man. The struggle time tend to very tough with all sorts of humiliation, adverse circumstances and constant challenges and fighting with life. That phase is not liked by us , by we all love the phase where we have everything with us what we want or desire for.This feeling of being deprived make a poor more poorer and a rich more richer and people by natural tendency prefer people with money , fame and power rather than people who do not have a single penny in his pocket. People have natural thinking that "rich people are of more help and use than a deprived one". Naturally poor are therefore left off and their struggle for life becomes more hard.
@Kashidanga1971 (1354)
• Bangladesh
24 Jul 12
Poverty is a curse. We are to lose everything, everydream. Even God will leave us alone. Wish everyone get rid of the curse.
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
Its not a curse, its people choice and not GOD. In my case we are not rich, in fact my parents don't even have the capacity to bring us to college as there's 8 of us also. But my siblings and I were able to work and at the same time study until we finished our college and have our degree and now have a good life, my other siblings are now living with their own house and even cars and able to buy things they want in life, and me even if im a single mother at least im able to give my baby what she want and live good life without living as a poor because i have good job.
People's mistake is only because their poor they only think they cant be rich and that they cant study coz hey don't have any money and their parents cant help them, then they're just contented with their job as long as they can eat 3 times a day and they are already contented thinking its the only thing they can do with their job. Though its your own dreams, you can do what you want, spread your wings and try to reached up high by starting of finding a job and save some for studies then by the end of it once you have you college degree then you will find good job and do more better so you will get promoted and if given a change that you will have savings in due time then you can have your own business.
@Danniella1110 (106)
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24 Jul 12
Yes this is true. It does get on pretty extreme terms, like even in terms of work relationships, it is very hard for that kick-start. How will we go to work if there is no emergency money. And when you are poor, you are lucky and smart if you at least have some money. We have been in a financial roughpatch for a while now and my mom tried doing the 9 to 5 job, and one day she just stopped because there was money for petrol and she did not have money to pay the parking fee. She let the officer give her a ticket because she had money at hand let alone in the account. It is tough. We stuck through by her working from home. Times get tough but I doubt she will want to work a 9-5 job.
Also, dating would be tough.LOL.
Fundamentally, money does not define who you are. Your actions do. I am just saying that money issues will get to you and from there relations will vanish.
