Do you feel irritated? while you are sleeping others are talking loudly there

India
July 26, 2012 12:13am CST
Two days before my all cousin family members (like deverani, jethani, elder mother in law)are gathered in my house because our festival is coming that is called kajal ti and all were doing some sweet preparation. There my dever was sleeping on Deewan. All bhabhi are talking to each other some funny way and laughing loudly. But my dever was sleeping in easy way no annoying why you are speaking loudly. But if there were my husband they told us why you all are speaking loudly keep quite because my husband not like more talking. But where two or more ladies are meeting together impossible to keep quite. So we all are doing enjoy with work. Do you face this situation you are sleeping and others are talking loudly.
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
26 Jul 12
surekha: it depends on the tiredness we have. if we are damn tired then whatever sound is there--that will not affect us. Surekha- I checked up the meaning of hindi word 'devar" -- brother in law. your devar may be sleeping well because he is tired after a day's hard work. I use to be annoyed when others talk while I sleep. good day.
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• India
26 Jul 12
Uncle tell me in English for word 'Sasural' my one friend asking me again and again. Yes you are right this is depend upon tiredness if more tired then person to sleepy.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
26 Jul 12
Surekha: The word 'sasural" (noun) means "In-laws' Home" Sasuralwale -In-laws ( Brother-in-law, sister-in-law, father-in-law, mother-in-law) source:http://dict.hinkhoj.com/words/meaning-of-%E0%A4%B8%E0%A4%B8%E0%A5%81%E0%A4%B0%E0%A4%BE%E0%A4%B2-in-english.html
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
26 Jul 12
http://dict.hinkhoj.com/words/meaning-of-%E0%A4%B8%E0%A4%B8%E0%A5%81%E0%A4%B0%E0%A4%BE%E0%A4%B2-in-english.html
• India
26 Jul 12
Wow i wish my husband was like your dever. My hubby is a very light sleeper who will wake up even with a sound of a needle dropping. I tell my hubby we are lucky we do not need any buglar alarms home becoz he will wake from his sleep with the slightest noise. Your dever must have really been very tired that day thats why he dozed off despite so much chattering happening around him oherwise it is humanly not possbile to get sound sleep if 2 people are talking next to you.
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• India
26 Jul 12
Haha... I also wish the same thing for my husband because his sleeping habit is changed than dever. He also wake up even with a sound of a needle dropping.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
26 Jul 12
Depends on my mood sis. Sometimes I will feel a bit irritated so I will asked them to slow down a bit or just go to somewhere else to sleep. Most of the time I just continue sleep and ignore the noise as I know I will be the same like them too if I meet with other people and begin to talk and laugh.(^^)
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
26 Jul 12
Yes, it is must to check my mood whenever you want me o join your group. Talking loudly is okay actually but not fighting or arguing like kids fighting, they all yell and scream. I hate that~ I still can remember I asked someone to slow down a bit of their voice as that time I am doing my work but they refused to slow down instead they got angry to me.hmm...they really made me feel something!
• India
26 Jul 12
Hmmmm then before talking loudly I should check your mood. Nice you also ready to talk and laugh with our company.
@fantabulus (4000)
• India
26 Jul 12
Hahha...talkative women if once I sleep then God will also not daring to wake up me. My sleep is like Kumbkaran (Ravan's brother). No disturbance even lots of people are shouting near me. I sleepy too much but night time not in afternoon because my husband is with me at night time hehehe....
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
26 Jul 12
that means you are a gifted person. good. we find people sleeping on a rickshaw nicely whereas a rich man may not get sleep even if AC is put nicely. I get sleep on days i work hard. if i sleep say more than 2 hours during day time--that day night i may not sleep well. i usually see that i sleep only for an hour during day time so that i get good sleep during nights.
• United States
26 Jul 12
this always happen to me in my house. my family is a loud family they would be up all night laughing real loud, talking real loud it was so annoying i would never be able to sleep i always had to yell at them but they would never listen. but i finally moved my room up in the attic where its quite and i don't hear any noise at all.
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• India
26 Jul 12
Hahah...the same thing is with me but in my mother's home because my all family members voice are loud but in my mother in law house only some ladies gathered then talking loudly otherwise all are silent men. I cant sleep in the afternoon in my mother's house and till night 12 O'clock even small child also wake up till late night.
• India
26 Jul 12
sureka, some times i too face this kind of situation in my house, while it is a function or festival, we will go to my parents home, or they will come here and all ladies gathered in one place and have deep discussion about various things. At that time me and my kids are in deep sleep and this conversation don't allow us to continue our sleep, we don't have the ability to tell anything against them, as they are gathered once in a while during function, so we are tolerating this kind of situation for our relations
• India
12 Sep 12
Big bro means you are also faced this danger situation like me. Really we all women voice is so loud and they not think about surrounding persons. They enjoy only from talking loudly. Where is your old account. I miss old friends and their conversation.
• India
12 Sep 12
I lost my old account, now it is my second account with mylot. sad to hear that you are missing your old friends, once fanta created a topic stated the she made a call to you and your phone is switched off, we all are missing your for a while, when you are not active in this site
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
27 Jul 12
I am a person who just HATES noise. I'd rather it be as quiet as it possibly can be. I prefer the quiet to anything else. So If I get awoken by noise? I am not a happy camper. I try to find the quietest place to sleep if I am tired and no one else is when visiting somewhere else...
• India
12 Sep 12
Nice you like quite place dont worry I will not disturbed you while you sleeps. My voice is loud but I will not talk with anybody hhaha..just kidding.
• Southend-On-Sea, England
9 Aug 12
I live alone but sometimes if I'm trying to sleep, and the weather (like in the daytime) is warm, my neighbours will be out in their garden making a lot of noise. It totally interferes with me getting to sleep. I don't like loud talking anyway, whether I'm trying to get to sleep or not.
• India
12 Sep 12
Thats nice habit not like loud speaking means your voice is polite and calm. Thanks to share your view.
@albto_568 (1268)
• Costa Rica
26 Jul 12
I think that, to rest well, and wake up feeling well and relieved, we need to sleep without disturbance. If people are talking loud, or tv or stereo is on, we may sleep, if we are really tired, but, the rest, will certainly not be the same.
• India
26 Jul 12
Yes if the person tired then no effect of voice but if they are just sleeping then it is difficult to sleep in noisy place.
@GemmaR (8517)
26 Jul 12
I hate it when I am trying to get to sleep when there are people talking loudly as though they don't know that there is anybody else in the room at all. I have to be in bed a lot earlier than the rest of my family because of the fact that I work and this means that I have to get up early in the morning. Yet my brother always makes a lot of noise when he comes to bed which means that I always have to wake up for half an hour or so before he goes to bed again. He should try to think a little more about other people before he comes upstairs making so much noise.
• India
12 Sep 12
Means you are also feel annoying if someone is talking loudly and you are going for sleep. I also hate so much noise.
@arvintot (401)
• Philippines
1 Aug 12
Sometimes I do get irritated when others are talking loudly specially when I already want to sleep at night. It happened when it was summer when there were no classes at school, my female cousin oftens sleep late talking her friends at the phone and her cellphone. I'm fine with the fact that she sleep late because there are no classes, but I get annoyed when she laughs and her loud voice. I really gets into my nerves when I'm tired and want to sleep, while she is talking and laughing to loud. I always do when she is like that are knock or punch her wall and tell her lessen the volume of your voice or when Im getting to irritatd I will go to her room, get her pillow and I will hit it her and tell her "your voice is to loud, if you don't lessen the volume of your voice, I will hit you again with your pillow much stronger than before". BUt I really don't do that to her LOL.
• India
12 Sep 12
Haha...nice through the pillow you are right some people loud talk on phone also and the person who is standing besides heard all conversation this is not good habit.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
28 Jul 12
Once I am asleep, there is nothing that is going to wake me up, short of a tornado tearing the roof off of my house. Seriously, I am able to sleep through almost anything. However, when I am trying to fall asleep, I really like for it to be very quiet in the house. I certainly don't complain about the people that are being noisy though because I know that I'm not always a quiet person either.
• India
12 Sep 12
Nice means you sleeps are deepest and the person is lucky because you not complaint about them even they are talking loudly. My sleeps are break even small voice so no chance to sleep in crowd.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
26 Jul 12
Hi, Most of the days, I am the person sleep at last at home. I used to sit on computer or anything else, till late night and by them time all other family members must have slept. Also, I don't have the habit of sleeping at day time and I will take care that if anyone sleeping, I will not disturbe in any manner. The fact that we should be always alert what is happenig around and need to act accordingly. If this is the case, we need not make a mention about it. Mostly children were make noice as they are children and we should alert them. But if the elder and ladies are doing the same, it is because of the lack of knowledge, and what we will tell about it. They are the people to control everything and if they themself are not cared, how can we blame chldren, if they make noices?
• India
26 Jul 12
Hi, Let them enjoy their discussions... As long as they met after a period of time and as you said, if they meet in a group and got some topic for discusion, they are in their own wold and let them enjoy. Also, as long as he is sleeping, and once in a sound sleep, he will not bother for what is happening around. Only one thing can be done, either your h/b can got to a different room or the ladies can move to somewhere else, as he is sleeping. The second one is more appropriate and you also can take the ladies to somewhere else by using with some 'technique'.
• India
26 Jul 12
This is my husband habit they watch what happening around and not sleepy to deeply. Even a small voice they wake up. No friend not lack of knowledge but if more ladies get together they they start the talking and there voice is loud. If only two ladies meets then no loud voice.
@MissPiggy (1748)
• Indonesia
26 Jul 12
Well, my family is also a crowded one. We talk very loudly and we talk much. My mother id the kind of person who can't sleep when there is so much noise. But my father and I, fortunately, can sleep in any kind of situation. We would sleep anytime we want to sleep, though the people around are crowded.
• India
26 Jul 12
Hahah...means most of the family members voice is loud like my family members. Yes some member can sleep in any situation even the TV voice is loud they sleep easily no disturb.
@MissPiggy (1748)
• Indonesia
26 Jul 12
Yesss... We are really loud!
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
depends, if i am toooo sleepy then i would not mind the noise. lol i can sleep through it!
• India
26 Jul 12
Yes you are right if person to sleepy then they have no problem like my dever was deeply sleeping so they not heard our loudly voice. But my husband sleep is always weak so they annoyed on us.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
hi there surekharathi, with reference to your topic, well, it is really annoying when you are sleeping then someone out there is talking loudly. hence, for me this is a sign of being a disrespectful person. i just remember when i scolded my niece and nephew for what they have done last time when i was need to sleep due to a severe headache. but apparently they keep on talking with a loud voice that is why my headache really shoot up. so what i did, i scolded them for that wrong behavior.
• India
26 Jul 12
Hmmmm you are good person because you are my friend dont say disrespectful person. Okkk I will not speak loudly when you will sleeping.
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
I've had a roommate like that when he brought up his Kangaroo-faced GF in the same room we rent. It just feels so bad when they just can't even see that I can't have my sleep, What I did was I went outside so that they would be thinking like- "Hey, can we minimize our voice so that your roommate can get a goodnight sleep?". But when I came back inside to try to sleep again, it's just so exasperating to find out the same irritating situation. People oftentimes are just so inconsiderate, they just forget other people's feelings.
• India
12 Sep 12
You are right some time if this situation face by us then feel irritating. Voice should be polite and not loud.
• India
26 Jul 12
Many people complain that they cannot sleep if somebody is talking around them or the tv is on. In my case, I have experienced that whenever I am tired and feel drowsy no matter if the tv is on, somebody is talking over phone or even if the lights are on I fall asleep. But when I don't feel sleepy, even if there is peace around, I will not be able to sleep fast and keep tossing and turning in bed. I think it's more about peace of mind than peace and silence outside.
• India
26 Jul 12
Yes you are right most of the persons are habit to talk loudly they not pay attention on sleepy person.
@512771751 (1096)
• China
26 Jul 12
Yes, I have the same experience when I was at university. I was so sleepy and they talk too loudly and considered nothing about others. I was disappointed that I can't fall asleep. It is too bad.
• India
26 Jul 12
Ohhh your id is only numbers great. Really if some persons talking loudly then we cant sleep but two thing may be do. First change the place for sleeping or to say them please keep quite.