Pls. Come within 10 minutes now or never.....(really?)

By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
Philippines
July 26, 2012 12:55am CST
Last night around 10pm I arrived home from an emergency meeting. Then my son told me that my friend (also a mylotter) called and my son advised her to wait for a text message when I am home. So,I ask my son to message her so she can make a phone call. ringggggggggggg..... I answered my phone and ask "why?" She said...come over within 10mins...now or never Huh?...are you kidding me ? Then she said...No- I am not kidding and I know you can reach here in less than 10minutes - (no traffic and drive 100kph) lols GREAT! I reached her house in just 7 minutes NO- She's not demanding. She just want me to join her and other two dear friends. She cooked an Indian recipe (chicken biryani) but she she don't want me to eat. (she cooked it too spicy that I only manage two scoop/spoon- can't bear the spices) I had a good time with them, laugh trip as always. Unplanned meeting with friends is always exciting and more successful Do you have same situation like this. Or do you have a demanding friend like her -hehehe OR- Can you tell your friend direct message like she did? (^_*) (peace) Have a great day everyone jaiho®- drained- writer's block (`_`) 7-26-2012 1:57pm Thursday
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19 responses
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
26 Jul 12
Oh! I never had such a desparate situation! But, I think I may have such an occastion soon, and the call may be from a friend from Phillipines, and the person can be you also! I am just imagining, a call from you and if it works out, how long it will take me to drive with a 100 km. I am sure that it is not a 10 mts. job. Anyway, hope you enjoyed the spicy dinner and was an excellent surprise too! Any way, this chicken biriyani is a daily food at home as I order a 25 kg of biriyani rice in the last month and I really want a change of the rice as it made me fed up for a continuous use. However, we got options of the 'shaped' chappatis and today I got special chappaties called 'aloo-methi chappati', ie chappatis made with wheat powder, boiled and messssshed potatos added with green leafs of methi, there is 45 mts. more for lunch, ready for a company? I am inviting you. But it will take more than 10 mts. to reach... hahahahh
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
hey, don't dare me :p I can reach there not 10minutes but 12 hours just send me my round trip ticket coz' the flying carpet I ordered from India hasn't arrived yet :p Anyway, the foods you mentioned sounds familiar but I can't figure out which among those foods that I've tasted has its name (heheeh) Please order naan and mango lassi for me while I am on my way to have lunch with you
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
guys....please educate with me those foods...what do they looks like for all I know is I am eating Indian foods and they're all have same name
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
hi thanks, Wow it seems tempting I want to join you but I am too busy today I love tikki aloo never tried this aloo-methi chapatti I think we need to make a request once Madam (our Indian friend) got home here. have a nice day!
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• Philippines
26 Jul 12
hi jai, Wow! really glad you got to her place in one piece I think your friend is like the biryani she cooked to hot and spicy I think she is not that demanding after all she just gave you 10 minutes and you reached her place in 7 minutes see she still considerate and sweet one love yah hugs
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
oh yeah, you are very considerate...and sweet?....we'll see anyways, "ate" is asking where's the pasalubong
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
let me ask Pearl if you are really sweet ate -is asking when she can see 4th?
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
nyahahah!tell ate she can check Emo's stomach I am sweet really
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
27 Jul 12
i don't know or i am not sure if i have a friend or friends who is too demanding like bhabycatch.
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
30 Jul 12
uh oh, there is another one, Zayzay's mom.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
30 Jul 12
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
I am sure you have one... And who is more demanding than the little zayzay Miss that little boy and I guess he's not small anymore
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
how i wish i have friends like that who will call me and tell me to come over.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
Just inform us when will you come here jazel and we will give you the best treat from mylotters Philippines
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• India
26 Jul 12
Hi Jazel, some friends are lik this - it's just beyond the friendship, and there is nothing better than a loving-understanding-caring .... frienship.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
oh how i wish i could, hopefully by november or december!
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
26 Jul 12
That was really nice. I never had such experience before. No demanding friend like her but if I need to say such direct message then I will. Like asking your boyfriend to come over now or it's over~ Anyway, you can't eat spicy foods, sis???
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
hello sis Like asking your boyfriend to come over now or it's over~ I will try to ask my boyfriend this question and let's see if he can travel- or maybe fly miles for 10 minutes yes, i can't eat spicy and chilly foods :(
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
bhaby...actually it's not even two spoons... I only eat the chicken and potatoes
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
hahaha!I tried this one before it happened he really go to my place but no luck for him it was Dad who opened the door so he end up scratching his head and making up some stories why he is there @ CThanum, She said she can't eat spicy food but she can taste some maybe a 2 spoons of it
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@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
hello jaiho... well, that is one of the best thing having your own vehicle so to drive yourself to a place where you want to go rather if you need to commute with utility vehicles. okay, that girl acted like that because she knew that whether you like it or not you will really come along -haha. before when my friends wanted to meet me and if i know that i don't a chance to see them (because having my own date - haha) i will really refuse. i know they are upset with it but they cannot force me to come along. but when it occurred next time around, that is the time i am going to see them to get repay from refusing at first. it happened to me lots of times. :)
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
30 Jul 12
If you read the whole topic- I really want to go there because two of our friends are also there. And those friends live a bit far from us and we don't have a chance of meeting them everyday- so, I don't want to miss this chance of having some fun with them. It's not about the caller is she is demanding or not...we're always together almost everyday and with no specific time as well. You see, we go out late night or early in the morning- as long as we have time and we want to eat something- we go out anytime of the day....as early as 4am
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
hellp missjahn, She's not that far anyway and driving by that time with less traffic is fine. Well, she won't insist if I have a date -lols... Besides, even with my dates she's always with me... Thanks for the response and have a great day
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
29 Jul 12
haha.. dating with chaperon? what is that, threesome date? oh well, she is not insisting hard just making demands. admit it jaiho you like the idea that she invited you to come to her house. ehehe... and besides no use of complaining, you push yourself to get there and not anyone else hehe
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
28 Jul 12
I don't have friends that demand that I do something right away because they know that I am ill and I can't just rush out of the house to do something. Usually, everything is planned.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
29 Jul 12
hello rose, Our friends knows our situation, and I am sure your friends knows about yours. It's good to have considerate friends who thinks about your situation and plan everything. But friend, especially this one is not demanding, she only has this habit of informing me of any of our other friends is visiting or with her- and ask if I can come to join. Or sometimes, she will call and ask they're coming in my house with other friends... thanks and have a great day
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
It's good that you live not too far to her and you did not missed even just only two scoop of Biryani rice. That's true unplanned meeting with friend are more successful one, like what she did to me when she surprise me.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
Hope to be there next time... I really missed that unexpected visit she did....
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
27 Jul 12
I am very glad you had a great time with your friend. Sometimes my friends make food that I find WAYY to spicey but I try to eat it because it's still sooo good.. I just have to have a big glass of milk beside me. It was an impromptu get together but great fun I'm sure! My friends all live 30 minutes to an hour away :(
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
hello SC, We had a great time and the food is too spicy :xx We have friends who lives that far. Actually the two other friends who are with us that time lives from far city. The other one lives 1hour away and the other lives 2 hours away. That is why I never want to miss that chance of bonding because it doesn't happen everyday have a great day
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
27 Jul 12
Hi Jai sis, so far i felt lucky that i don't that type of demanding friend like yours. Although she is demanding type but at least you are having great fun with her and the other friends. Of course, unplanned meeting with friends is always the greatest memories that need to be treasured. Hope you do enjoyed yourself a lot at that moment. By the way, i prefer to give my friend a direct message rather than making her feeling panic all the time...
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
hello sis She knows I can't say no because two of our dear friends are there. Those two friends lives a bit far- the other one lives1 hour away and the other one lives 2 hours away. So, I took the chance to see and met them as well. It's always nice to have bonding moments with friends...and those other two friends are also an online friends and become real friends in life...
@shibham (16977)
• India
26 Jul 12
Didi... Is it so called clever bhaby? I think so as she made spicy so that she can digest all. She knew that you will not be able to take, still invited... hahaha. Nope, i have not such an experience and again i will not go within 10 minutes for sure. have a nice time.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
for sure you can't make it for 10mins unless you can fly with the rocket ship
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
26 Jul 12
Wow! sis very funny experience really unplanned party or meeting is excited and enjoyable also. I remember my college days after reading your discussions. Some friends organised party because one friend marriage was fixed but they not told to us 5 girls they said one of our friend is health is not good and we all are going there for seeing him. We all 5 girls are also ready for this and when we reached there suddenly all are jumping and tell us how foolish all of you dear I am joking now join the party because my marriage is fixed.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
Oh that's really fun I guess and bit of annoying experience. Imagine you are thinking of visiting a sick friend-and ended up having a party But I am sure that was fun and a great experience right sister?
• India
26 Jul 12
Yes sis my experience was very funny because we all are 11 friends 5 girls and 6 boys. Two boy was making meal because they are very good cook and others are doing some other thing.
@gracie923 (162)
• Philippines
29 Jul 12
Sometimes things gets better when it is unplanned. Because the excitement and the thrill of what will happen is there. It's like you are not expecting good things to happen but it did. Expect the unexpected as they say!
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
29 Jul 12
hello gracie, Exactly..it's more fun and yes the thrill Actually,most unplanned become more successful than a well-planned occasion. :P thanks and have a great day
@Shavkat (137212)
• Philippines
28 Jul 12
It was a very rush gig. That's nice.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
29 Jul 12
hello Shavkat, That was really fun and unplanned gig is more exciting thanks and have a great day
@atleya (946)
• Indonesia
26 Jul 12
it is a nice experience., a sweet surprise from a good friend. I hope one day I can have such experience, from my good friend, (maybe?) Have a nice day, friend
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
hello atleya, I wish you will experience the same thing. It's really fun and having good friends are treasure in our lives. thanks and have a great day
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
I haven't had any experience like that actually but that was really nice. :) maybe in the future I'll try it with my own hubby! --- I hope it works the same way!!! lol
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
hello thersdae, Oh yeah, I am sure that would be fun with your husband
@devijay78 (1573)
• India
26 Jul 12
We all have responsibilities which we cannot drop and run the minute someone calls us. Especially me. But I would love to be free that way. At least once in a while. I do have friends who will do it if I am in an emergency, but not to have fun. They would beat the crap out of me if I call them when they are doing something important to just have fun.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
hello devijay, Well, this mylot friend (she's a mylotter) knows when to strike. We always like unplanned things- emergency/urgency meet-ups and it is more exciting as well
• India
26 Jul 12
This discussion reminded me of my college days. How we friends used to have lunch and tea parties. In a way we all were demanding towards each other, but never thought we were demanding. It always seemed as if it was our right to ask for anything. Now we all are in different states of India, yet we are connected and whenever they come over to my state we do meet and have lots of fun as before.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
hello Inderjeetkaur, Exactly...we never feel demanding when it comes to close friends. It's like we have all the rights to ask them whatever we want/like. It's the bonding and closeness that give us the feeling of security. thanks and have a great day
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
26 Jul 12
Well, I don't think any of my friend that made such a request. Most of the time, I would be given more than enough time to prepare myself if it is my friend who is going to hang out with me. The only person that I can think of which made similar last minute demand is my dad's girlfriend. She gave me five minutes to prepare and go out to have dinner. In the end we still waited for some time before she called my dad to ask if he will be driving us.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
hello squallming, Your dad's girlfriend - and you go out with your dad's girlfriend? well- just a bit confused. anyway, thanks and have a great day