Use of polite language.

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Malaysia
July 27, 2012 1:00am CST
The language good or bad is acquired from what one hears in the surrounding. If you use noble words in your speech you will be rewarded with respect. By not speaking polite words you will be rejected by others and will lose cooperation of others in your work place.When you speak polite words, others too will speak politely.Use of impolite words will cause anger and displeasure. Hence you should try to inculcate the habit of using polite words always in order to become a successful citizen.
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• China
27 Jul 12
I always use polite language cause I respect everybody around me,even I hate that guy I still polite to him/her outwardly,I always try to make my relationship with people around me harmony,this not just respect others and acquire their respect,but also it is a way to make myself feel more happy.
• Hong Kong
28 Jul 12
If I hate someone, I might not talk to him/her so much, as I really don't know how to interact with them, and don't know what to talk with them. Although I hate them, I might just say hi/hello to them politely.
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
29 Jul 12
It simply explain the saying respect begets respect.If you know how to respect then people will also respect unto but if you don't then they don't also.Polite words are really needed to be taught nowadays seriously to children since as to experience they are lacking with it.Values education needs to be improve and given high priority for our educators.
• Mexico
28 Jul 12
Hi vasu: That'ps so right and people should take care more of their words than they use to do. Sometimes people can hurt someone else feelings because they just don't measure the consequences of their words. Sometimes we should control our temper and not say what it's on our minds when we are angry because this could have bad consequences on a relationship. ALVARO
• India
28 Jul 12
We should be very careful in what we speak because our words reflect our thinking. Being polite in our words and being humble in our actions would not only give good shape to our personality but would also make us respectful in the eyes of other people. I read somewhere that, "A person who speaks sweetly can even sell chilies, but a person who speaks rudely cannot even sell honey".
• Philippines
28 Jul 12
I agree with you friend. Being polite leads to a peaceful environment. It might be at home, at work, at the mall or to any place where communication is present. People should be sensitive enough with their words in order not to hurt others. If we throw nice words to them, in return we will get polite words from them too. Thus, it's a give and take process as well. Have a great weekend friend! :)
• India
28 Jul 12
Each of us people love to use polite language and polite manners to every one but the situations makes us to turn bad. Anyway it is our duty to control those situations and move in a polite way. The way of speaking really signifies your culture and your family. So it is very important to use good polite language at others.
@ankit_620 (496)
• India
27 Jul 12
Yes my friend, These the rules of life: You get what you give. Treat others how you would like to be treated. What goes around comes around. So everyone should be respectful,kind and generous to others. But i think sometimes life takes its toll on us and some days are harder than the other that is when we lose control, so how do we cope up with that?
@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
27 Jul 12
Family education and moral education should be taught from childhood to adolescence. Begins at home.
@pogi253 (1586)
• Philippines
28 Jul 12
Learning a polite language can deliver personal gratification and business prospects. It can be pleasant and help one's mind stay sharp and vigorous.
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
It's where you grow determines what kind of language you speak. You should speak with polite and respectful language so that you will be respected in return.
@else22 (4317)
• India
27 Jul 12
Absolutely right.Politeness is always rewarding.I learned it from my mother and a teacher who taught us Hindi in high school.My mother was extremely polite and therefore she was very popular.My teacher could rebuke and punish me whenever I committed a mistake,but he never did so.Instead,he would sit by me and said,'I am happy that you have tried to write it,but let us see how we can write it in a different way.'This was his way of teaching.He knew that everybody has a self respect and nobody likes it to be hurt.
@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
Yes, indeed. Respect begets respect. If we are nice to others, they tend to be nice also. I believe we deserve that. Also, we should be nice to all creatures, animals and plants. Thank you
• India
27 Jul 12
Being polite is always good and we will get more benefits with our politeness. Every one likes the person who is kind and using polite terms in conversation. Being polite is not a great thing. If we are kind with helping tendency, all the people like us and try their best to make friendship with us, as well as they will help us when we need it from them. An arrogant person don't have the ability to achieve anything in his life due to his arrogance, on the other hand a polite person will achieve a lot of things and make a lot of friends in the society and gain more benefits with it. No one like the person who is arrogant and keep distance from them. Politeness have the ability to change the mood of a person, if our friend or boss is in tension and need our help, at that time we politely give our suggestion and help to them, they will follow our suggestion and never forget our help in their life. Being humble is a great virtue and we must possess it in our life. The person who is polite after his success will get more fame and success with his polite nature. Always be polite and achieve a lot in your life.
• China
27 Jul 12
Yeah.Use of polite language is a good habitat.That means being friendly to others.If you talk to others politely people will be polite to you as well.So the surroundings around you have important influence on you so everyone should inform the habitat of being polite.
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
It is generally the correct impression. However, being polite should not reflect submissiveness or passiveness. Of course, we should show respect in our words but it doesn’t mean that we should succumb to be polite to a person who really is not worth respecting. We may choose the most polite words but there is always something that reeks of contempt. Parents taught their children to be polite in their daily interaction. However, not everybody should be the recipient of polite words, especially if the other party isn’t really respectable. Being polite also makes the person on higher ground but it might not be a get share of respect at all. Being polite for the sake of it can certainly diffuse some situations but the impression of people who use them.
• China
27 Jul 12
Hi vasu90k,I agree with your opinions.I remembered Audrey Hepburn said ,for beautiful eyes,look for the good in others; for beautiful lips,speak only words of kindness,and for poise,walk with knowledge that you are never alone.We should show our best face to the people around us and everyone should make a contribution to building the harmonious environment.Polite words can be regarded as the rose,present rose to others with remaining fragrance at hand. May you happy everyday! Thanks