no wonder he's such a fat slob, he's a lazy sob...
By allen0187
@allen0187 (59827)
Philippines
July 27, 2012 3:18am CST
and i'm talking about an office mate of one of my running/walking buddies.
first off, let me tell you that i don't discriminate against anyone especially when it comes to physical appearance. i do however,take pride and feel proud about the turn-around that i did for myself. i've lose a considerable amount of weight and right now,i'm maintaining an ideal weight that i see fit for myself. i've also gone to great lengths to be more physically active, eat healthier, and over-all have a better lifestyle. with that being said,let me continue on with my discussion...
so you see, i' recently gone back to running and every other day for the past week, i've met up with my female running/walking buddy. we work in the same building but at different companies and we usually go for a run in a nearby runner's park after our shift is done. on the days that we can't run because of one reason or another, we walk a good five blocks from our office to the nearest terminal where we can get our respective rides home. now, mind you, we can also opt to ride public transportation to the terminal but we choose to walk since it is a good physical activity. it may not be as strenuous as running or jogging but at least its an attempt to more physically active.
anyway, so my friend introduced me to her office mate. the guy is a fat piece of
good for nothing slob the first time i met him. nothing against this guy but he just comes across as lazy in my eyes. seems both of them are part of the same department and working on an on-going project. additionally, they live in neighboring villages so they take the same route going home. everything's all fine with me except that during our walking trips, the guy just shows how lazy he is. he refuses to take the stairs and instead insists on taking an escalator. mind you, the walk from our office to the terminal is only five blocks. let me say that again,a measly five blocks. it is very convenient to walk as there are stairs and escalators plus since there are high rise buildings, there is enough shade for everyone. so its not like we're walking under the sun. me and my running/walking buddy are fine taking the stairs. broken escalator? no problem as we don't mind taking a few steps on the way home but this guy would rather cross the street or wait in line to take the escalator rather than take the stairs. i've mentioned this to my running/walking buddy and she seems to share my views. i do mind walking with this guy and if i had my way, i'd rather not walk with him. my running/walking buddy can't seem to shake off this guy. she has mentioned that the guy takes lunch breaks and coffee breaks with her and in more than one occasion, i've mentioned that the fat guy is trying to court her or something and my runnin/walking buddy has taken offense to this. lol! anyway, i'm trying my best to not lose my mind with this fat guy. i feel that every time he walks with us, i'd end up a fat slob like him as well.
i've gone a number of times walking to the terminal without my running/walking buddy and every time she mentioned that she felt bad that i went ahead without her. i don't want to tell her off nor do i want to tell her not to get the fat guy to walk with us. not really my style.
so my fellow mylotters, what would you do?
i've gone a number of times walking to the terminal without my running/walking buddy and every time she mentioned that she felt bad that i went ahead without her. i don't want to tell her off nor do i want to tell her not to get the fat guy to walk with us. not really my style.
so my fellow mylotters, what would you do?1 person likes this
2 responses
@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
31 Jul 12
Hmm, it seems that this guy definitely needs to take a leaf out of your book and follow your lead as you are doing great things for your health.
You cannot force anyone to follow your example though and your running/walking friend should do whatever they feel is right too. They need to take a stand with this person and say "look buddy, you are just not keeping up with us so we are going to go on our own as we want to walk it for fitness. You are welcome to join us and get fit too, but we will not wait for you".
That way the choice is then left to fatso! 
I feel that you have to just let her organise it as she is the "middle man". If she is not going to then you need to continue doing what you want regardless. Do not let anyone slow you down on your journey.

I feel that you have to just let her organise it as she is the "middle man". If she is not going to then you need to continue doing what you want regardless. Do not let anyone slow you down on your journey. @allen0187 (59827)
• Philippines
1 Aug 12
'... it seems thaat this guy definitely needs to take a leaf out of your book and follow your lead asyou are doing great things for your health.' - now i want to slap some sense to fatso to prove my physical dominance!!!
'you cannot force anyone to follow your example though...' - and i'm humbled once again
well, i'm taken stock of what was written here and i just told my running/walking friend that i consider my after-office walks part of my regimen so that i'll be walking and taking the stairs regardless of their (running/walking buddy and her fatso friend) preference to take the escalator.
seemed to work as the last two days that we all walked together, we all took the stairs.
physical fitness for the win!!!
'you cannot force anyone to follow your example though...' - and i'm humbled once again @allen0187 (59827)
• Philippines
6 Aug 12
bill... my apples ... are mine alone.
lol!
i think fatso has had his share of apples in the past hence his weight.
lol!
i think fatso has had his share of apples in the past hence his weight.
lol!
@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
2 Aug 12
Definitely do not slap some sense into fatso. Maybe you can shaare some of your apples with him when you get them. They will help him to get energised and to lose weight!
That is great that he is walking with you now! 
That is great that he is walking with you now! 

@sid556 (30953)
• United States
27 Jul 12
I wouldn't do anything. I've read this twice and not sure what exactly is bothering you about the guy but it seems to go deeper than his lack of desire for physical exercise. The fact that he does sometimes walk with you guys tells me that he is starting to take an interest in his physical health. Maybe just his crush on her is his inspiration for walking with you but it's a start. Now when he wants to take the esculator rather than the stairs, do you guys go along with him? If that is the case, then I would just let him take the esculator on his own and tell him that I prefer to walk for the exercise. I wouldn't let him ruin my routine.
@allen0187 (59827)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
hey sid.
you and bjc basically said the same thing. both of you raised very valid points. i over-reacted and let someone else ruin my own routine.
cheers!



@allen0187 (59827)
• Philippines
28 Jul 12
well deserved BR tag sid. it set my priorities and perspective straight.
lol at your comment about bj.

cheers and happy mylotting!!!


cheers and happy mylotting!!!

