How to Deal with Mouthy Children

@Jshean20 (14347)
Canada
July 28, 2012 1:53am CST
A lot of kids I've come across these days use bad language all the time and they are extremely mouthy. As a parent or guardian how would you choose to deal with this? What do you think causes a kid to act like that?
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@riyauro (6421)
• India
28 Jul 12
I don't really know what causes this but it is certainly not good. Kids must respect and not have big mouth. Many kids today are behaving in this manner, it is hurting. I wish something comes up to change them. I think parents must be friendly to them and not very very strict. They must not feel like they are in jail sort. I think with frustration they start to have hatred for something which makes them have big mouth. There must be something that they are not happy about. So one must be friendly with them so that they can share their heart out and feel good from inside. have a good day
@Jshean20 (14347)
• Canada
28 Jul 12
I think a lot of the language might just come with the every day frustrations kids have plus influences at school. We might think that kids have it easy, but in reality they have to face tough situations that we may have forgotten what it's really like to deal with ( peer pressure, bullying, etc).
@Jshean20 (14347)
• Canada
28 Jul 12
Exactly. I don't think they use that language just for fun and I don't think they are trying to be disrespectful either, it stems from somewhere.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
28 Jul 12
yeah kids might be having tough time at school. We must try to understand where is the frustration that is resulting in big mouth.
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
28 Jul 12
We taught my son what language was appropriate in certain situations vs stopping him altogether. We know that he will curse and we can't completely stop t, but if he uses it at home we are okay. By doing that he rarely curses or mouths off. The only person who does have an issue with him is his Dad, but his Dad has a different set of rules.
@Jshean20 (14347)
• Canada
28 Jul 12
Sometimes I find swearing to be a stress relief, so maybe it's not such a bad thing if it's used in an appropriate situation.
@ARIES1973 (11944)
• Legaspi, Philippines
28 Jul 12
Children learn from what they see and hear to the elders. So I would suggest lead by example. The learning they get inside the home can have more influence than what they learned outside. I never heard my children using bad language because they never heard me or my husband using those words. Most likely, we would not practice something if we did not grow up with it.