will you ever love a girl whom you never seen , what if she betrays you ,

India
July 28, 2012 10:56am CST
well i heard many had tried having love or friendship to unknown on line with those chatting sites and messenger thing , what will happen if she says that have secrets to hide which you never thought of , and how often you have got betrayed by that , is it correct to go ahead to have such an affair or friendship ,i believe one in 5 get betrayed in some or other way , share some of your stories of myloters. sometimes even myself tend to go into such relationship but later i could realise the cause of it. however i feel what is so wrong in going ahead sometimes. or is there any tips to have such an legit friendship. how to identify any one is true to you or not online.
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@joevanosa (303)
• Philippines
29 Jul 12
me too. i have someone so inlove within over the net. i like him that i really want to be with him for the rest of my life but the sad news is that we are far with each other but the good thing is that we met already but sadly ONCE. I hope that i could earn some money so that i could him so soon again!
29 Jul 12
For me love has no boundaries, distance, and culture that could separate the two people who are really in love with each other. The problem is how to determine if it's real especially if you are dating online, where so many people are untrue and just trying to pretend to fool you and get your money. Having a careful thought before you enter in an online relationship is always in our control, we can use our brain for that and not just our heart. It needs enough time to know the person, if he/she is really having a real feeling for you. Take on the safety side and it's better not to tell everything on your first date/chatting including your personal information. It takes time to build trust. Once you know the person well, you have to visit her or him personally. That is costly but only by doing this you will know if both of you are really in love with each other even in personal. You must see the girl in person and from there you have to decide if you will continue your relationship or not. Having online relationship requires so much trust for both of you. It's very risky but if you become careful that will work for you.
@narnia007 (1050)
• India
29 Jul 12
To find someone to love online is something very risky,but it is one place where you could get the guy/girl you desire easily as there are plenty of choices.I have seen my own friends got their lovers from Facebook and other social networking sites.My own personal experience is that,my girlfriend dumped me for a cinema photographer she found on Facebook.That experience is out of this discussion.To answer your point,my girlfriend went on with that guy for 2 years.Now I guess,she broke up with him.After all,I heard from her friends that,that guy had many things hidden from her.To my opinion,it is very risky,but might be fruitful if found the right partner.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
29 Jul 12
Well, love can come from online through chatting..but if you detect that girl just betrays you, just leave her and don't need to hear any explain more. Online or offline in love we need to be honest also, and for sure...both should meet in person one day....love online can't maintain for long..because all we need in person, in real life.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
29 Jul 12
I think that it is possible to trust or love someone you met online - but you have to be cautious as there are a lot of foolish and liar people. They can pretend as much as they want. Actually we meet people like that not only on line, the people we met personally can be as pretentious as those people in chat rooms and messenger. Sometimes we'll just be lucky if we met a genuine one.
• United States
29 Jul 12
Romance on line can be dangerous, you can look at the person watch their eyes and try to determine if they are sincere or not. many people on line are there to scam you and convience you how poor they are just so you will send them money. that's all they are after any way, just by looking at a person on the web cam you can't determine their sincerity. My tip is don't send money to any one until you have met them in person.[em]rofl[/em They all have a sad story to tell. YT he other thing is don't be afraid to say no. and stick to it. I HAVE BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT!
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
28 Jul 12
I fell in love with my bf online and we are now together , we met while in high school and we in college together . To love some one is to accept their pass also , because that what make them in the person you love today . Betrayal can come to anyone , even if you never met online . You have liars everywhere and people who just say what you want to hear. If your doing something that always have the same ending maybe its time to change the scene and meet and mingle with another crowd ( or check yourself ). You cannot know if anyone is really sincere even offline , good relationship have good foundation . I think some people see a person and instantly sending them love text that is just wrong in my opinion (experience .
@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
28 Jul 12
I never thought for a relationship through on line. At least I have met and come face to face with her. I have been betrayed by a girl. But then I'm grateful, have been freed from an unfaithful girl.
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
28 Jul 12
I do not think it is impossible.... just quite unlikely. I realize the consequence and the odds of ever finding someone that is going to be true to you especially through a computer. The thing is that you don't just trust what they're saying here but you will have to find ways to talk on the phone or perhaps meet but certainly not alone and not right away - probably waiting aroudn a year or two I would have to if I ever wanted to meet them because it is just to risky otherwise. I would have to talk to them on the phone to hear their voice and find a way to do video chat. I would not just trust their words.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
28 Jul 12
When it comes to finding a partner online, I am not for it because lots of incidences I know that has happened and people has suffered. First when internet came, I know my neighbor who found her partner online and the fellow came to FIJI from America and got married to my neighbor. He went back and 4 years passed he did not come back to take her. The girl waited and was lucky that he came back and gave her a surprise. they are happy today. This was happy moment and I was so happy for her. I have seen another girl who I met when i was in Mumbai. this lady or girl she was Indian based in Kenya. she had met a boy online and this fellow was already married with kids. promised her married and he ate all her money and she did not know he was married. When In india she waited for this guys but he will never go to her because he is happy with his life. She lady is become like mad women and is saying that he will come, she is become old now and still waiting. She was a pharmacist and now mad. so I would not suggest anyone this. I have more stories like this which i will share later. going to cook now. have a great day ahead.