your big love is getting married...will u stop the wedding?^^
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
Portugal
July 29, 2012 12:04pm CST
hi guys 
imagine that you and the person you love broke up. some time later, you meet him again and he tells you he is getting married and you go to his bachelor party. that day he tells you he loves you and asks you if you still love him and if you think he should get married but his fiancee appears and you cant answer him. next day is his wedding. will you stop the wedding?^^ about me i would. cause if he loves me he shouldnt get married. i know maybe im selfish but if he loves me he shouldnt get married to someone else. im just wondering would you fight for your love? cause the way he asks things seem to me that he is marrying cause he isnt sure if the girl loves him or not right? its silly sure but i was just wondering what would you guys do 
please share your opinions 
imagine that you and the person you love broke up. some time later, you meet him again and he tells you he is getting married and you go to his bachelor party. that day he tells you he loves you and asks you if you still love him and if you think he should get married but his fiancee appears and you cant answer him. next day is his wedding. will you stop the wedding?^^ about me i would. cause if he loves me he shouldnt get married. i know maybe im selfish but if he loves me he shouldnt get married to someone else. im just wondering would you fight for your love? cause the way he asks things seem to me that he is marrying cause he isnt sure if the girl loves him or not right? its silly sure but i was just wondering what would you guys do
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13 responses
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
4 Aug 12
yes ^^ its bad that he would marry other girl. but in this case he was separated from me and fell for someone else. but when he saw me again he realised his feelings for me. but was afraid i didnt love him so he would get married. so if i stopped him to get married maybe he would be sure of my feelings. but i guess maybe i wouldnt have enough courage to break the wedding. cause poor girl the one who would marry him. she would be chocked for life.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
29 Jul 12
Hi sweetloveforever, I would not stop him because saying I love you is not enough. actions speak louder. If he loved me then he would have done anything to be with me. And now that he is getting married, and just before that he is saying that. What if I try to stop him in front of so many people and he hurts me. I think he is playing with me. I will never stop him, let him get married to that girl. Though I love him but it doesn't happen that way. i want somebody who will love me foe who I am.
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@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
4 Aug 12
yes i understand what you mean^^ i just watched something similar with what i asked here in a tv show. the girl stopped the wedding cause she was sure the guy loved her. so i was just curious to know if that could happen in real life too. i guess those things are more in series and movies than in real life. but i think we should fight for our love. but if the guy really loved me wouldnt get married with someone else. even though people make mistakes sometimes.
@churchill1980 (764)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
oh, i think i won't stop the wedding. he should be the one who'll decide whether or not he will pursue the wedding, this is to protect you. because saying i love is never enough, he should do something to show it and it is not only your duty to fight for the love, but his too. it was him who decide for the marriage with someone else, it should also be him to decide to stop it.
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
26 Aug 12
If she professed her love to me and was being honest, yes I would stop the wedding. Its not fair for someone to marry someone who they don't truly love. And its not fair to the other girl either. And if me and her were meant to be it would be no matter what.
@sanjay91422 (2725)
• India
1 Aug 12
I think you should let it go. If the boy said that he still loves you that doesn't stop him from loving others.
If it was not a commitment then you should move on. I was told by someone that love is not about taking but about giving. If the person is matured enough and if it is his own decision to marry someone else then you should let him do.
I am sure you will find someone better. Have a nice day.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
1 Aug 12
hi sweet,
If love is still true why need to have a bachelor party if he is man enough to stand for his love he will not go to church and walk into the aisle instead he will be honest enough to what he really feels.
If I am on this kind of situation I will think twice don't he think it's too late
I will not stop someone's wedding because if he really loves me he will think first before going down the aisle.
happy mylotting
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
29 Jul 12
hello cat,
I won't.
If he loves me he shouldn't have get himself involved with any other girls.
And I found it funny, he is marrying another girl and saying he loves me- I will surely laugh at this confession....and such kind of guy is not worth trusting ever-lols.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
30 Jul 12
Hi sweet love forever: It's a nice story but it seems like the plot of a film. On this situation I think I would call her on her mobile and tell her that I love her too or at leas I would be on her wedding but she is the one that is going to get married so she has to give the step and decided if she wants to ruin her life or give me a chance 
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@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
1 Aug 12
hey there,
i wouldn't stop the wedding. if i love him, i would tell him that. but if he also loves me, he wouldn't marry another girl. it only shows, action speaks louder than words.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Jul 12
Hm..just let him go with his life, his marriage...Talking only means nothing with me, i need actions to improve that talk.
if a man just say love only and nothing to improve that love, i don't care about that talk also...
Many men just say blah blah...to make women feel guilty and regret when lose them...
@Olleenz (3398)
• Indonesia
30 Jul 12
Happened to me before ....
I still love her till now but both us understand that we had big barrier between us and impossible to continue our relationship without hurting each other. Even she invite me to her wedding, I wouldn't come because I know my presence can cause a lot trouble for her.
I only hope she was happy with her new life
I still love her till now but both us understand that we had big barrier between us and impossible to continue our relationship without hurting each other. Even she invite me to her wedding, I wouldn't come because I know my presence can cause a lot trouble for her.
I only hope she was happy with her new life
@mrswhitfield (2044)
• Indonesia
30 Jul 12
I will not stop the wedding. If he really loves me he will tell her viance that he can not marry her and that he still love his ex GF (should be me) I need a profe if he really still loves me. What if he just lie? May be he only want to make me look bad on her wedding day :D
@sofiafaith (84)
• Philippines
30 Jul 12
for me i will be happy to my bf if i know it will hurt me but life has to go on. and i hoping that i will find also like him again. and i will hope he will be happy in his married life. if the married life will not be ok and he filed a divorce. and when he is free and i is free also then maybe we can be togther. i will wish him the best. and i will also wish the luck girl. that he love.
