People that seems to enjoy tragedy than love

United States
July 30, 2012 7:14pm CST
Do you ever notice sad movies with forbidden love are the ones people love most !. I think people rather to see you cry than happy . If you'r a happy couple people spend their time just to separate you , and if something bad should happen to one of you everyone would say " its so sad, they really love each other" , but when your together and committed they say "its not real", "they wont last" . Why would you believe more in love when something bad happen to one of the person than a walking, living proof of love in front of you . Some people will say love is just a fairy tale even when its right in front of them , they refuse to believe .
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@Axai2012 (371)
31 Jul 12
These types of stories seem to be more intriguing, it's not that i want to experience that, it's the anticipation of who ends up with who that is in movies. But in real life, those people who hate people IN love has a problem within themselves. Maybe they have unresolved issues involving love.
• United States
31 Jul 12
Yeah those movie are very interesting and it keep you hook because you cant predict the end . Im a sucker for love movies but I also believe in real love , Some one say to me today love doesn't exist and it just make me wonder if I am not proof enough lol. They just think we are wired to be in love and committed so young, When we get engage they ask if I was pregnant .
@Axai2012 (371)
31 Jul 12
What person would say that love doesn't exist, that person has issues to resolve, love. It's a shame people think that way. I am not in love right now but I know that love is everywhere.
• United States
1 Aug 12
Exactly my thoughts
@thatsmee (24)
• India
31 Jul 12
hmmm maybe those some people may nvr had xperienced true love....!!!!
• United States
1 Aug 12
I would say that's so sad for them but maybe they will have a different perspective when they do .
• India
1 Aug 12
Ya after xperience only they would understand ..!!
@rog0322 (2829)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
31 Jul 12
Hi, People tend to project their personal lives on the screen, seeing what they wanted to see from what they experience, or is it the other way around? There's no fun in the life of everyday commitment without the challenges, the trials, failures and the resolution afterwards. If filmmakers portray a story without a conflict, then its the end of their career. One reason I go for the hyper-drama of horror stories, wars and mutilation to satisfy my craving for the fantastic rather than the humdrum of daily existence.
• United States
1 Aug 12
I understand that how those film make money and I enjoy those show , I love movies where love concur all . Even when I watch anime I enjoy the journey love take but I also believe in love in real life . But my point is some will say love only exist on tv and it cant happen for them . Love in movies are based on real life love , no one in life have a lucky break we all face problem and confusion each day , a man that doesn't have problem is not alive .
@sanjay91422 (2725)
• India
31 Jul 12
I know such people are known as sadistic, because they like the sad part of the things. If it is not sad then they will try to make it sad. I think I have that part in me also but in recent times I tihnk I have got changed because I had love affairs and those with good results. I was in relation where we both agreed on our mutual codes and I have no regrets. Make sure you don't become one of those people who are sadistic.
• United States
1 Aug 12
I enjoy some sad show but I love happy ending lol and thats how I think about life , may be sad when bad stuff happen to you but have faith in a better tomorrow .
• India
1 Aug 12
I know we all are emotional creatures so people love all the sad happy and other moments. If there was no "sad" then there will not be any thing like "happy". It is good to have balance of the both and it makes us human.
@ridzzz0 (131)
31 Jul 12
i love to be loved always. but unfortunately it doesn't happen all the time. people refuse love due to influence. influence can be inner or can be outer, it depends.
• United States
1 Aug 12
Love can hurt but people should never forget the trill it also make you feel .
• India
31 Jul 12
Well if you like sad or tragic movies,then you should probably check out Bollywood movies,where in 99% of the love stories the families of the couple disagree of their relationship leading to intense melodrama and lot of crying(they probably use a bucketful of glycerin to make them cry so profusely!!).In the end the hero convinces both their families and both live happily ever after.In India this kind of movies garner a lot of audiences especially women who are the target audiences.You are right about sad movies being loved more but that is because such movies break the mould of "...and lived happily ever after" and people always like something different
• United States
1 Aug 12
Yeah difference audience, I watch them both . I love titanic its a great love movie with tragic ending but it just shows that when you find love do not take it for granted ,because you may not got tomorrow .
• Philippines
31 Jul 12
I love watching romantic movies and I hate tragic endings. =( But of course there are movies that really end up sad. That's why they're just movies (although some of it are based on true stories). Still most of the movies we watch exaggerate stories just for people to watch them. I think it's just expected knowing that film makers want more income from their movies rather than just happy remarks from viewers. Based on personal experience, there are times really when people tend to doubt relationships that seem near perfect. And it's true also that people get sad when they hear of broken relationships. But we can be optimistic about them and consider their true feelings as well. Maybe some people seem bad when they express doubts or when they tell negative premonitions to a happy couple but we really can't say their intentions are also bad. Some of them maybe, but not all. There are still more people who want happy endings, like us. =)
• United States
31 Jul 12
I love romance movie also and I also enjoy some with tragic ending like titanic . The difference is I also believe in real love not just on TV . Not all are bad when they sincerely trying to help but never take advise from a damage person , they will never have anything positive to say . Even though My fiance and I grow up together I hate seeing other young couple being treated like they are wrong to love . Whenever I say that people would say its different for you , you guys are perfect together know each other so long but they will still not believe threy can find true love .
• Philippines
31 Jul 12
That's maybe they just don't find it challengin to watch movies without conflicts. What's the point anyway of watching if you already know the endin.
• United States
31 Jul 12
But its the same in real life , If you give up on love what is the challenge . because you can never predict real life either so why just say something dont exist if you never try to experience it.