What kind of girl/guy do you find unattractive?

Philippines
July 31, 2012 1:58am CST
I have a friend who's been pursuing me for years but even though he is a nice guy, I really don't feel anything for him. What's more, he smokes and I don't like the idea of a person who wants to be with me would smell bad. Do you have anything that you find unattractive in a guy or girl?
7 responses
@boyuancy (1708)
• India
31 Jul 12
I find an "Attractive" girl, unattractive. What this means is, I hate girls who use way too much make-up, speak in a made-up tone, TRY to be attractive, etc. My friends find them attractive but I find them downright irritating!!!
@boyuancy (1708)
• India
1 Aug 12
Thanks, and yes, I find myself being attracted to a simple girl next door. It is weird though... Did I tell you that I once got attracted to a girl because she drank way too much water (I associate drinking water with a sign of good health and natural beauty)! I am out-of-this-world weird!
• Philippines
1 Aug 12
is too much make-up unattractive? or maybe you would just prefer a girl's natural beauty? i think it's good that you appreciate simple things in a girl. have a good day!
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
31 Jul 12
I don't like smokers too, moreover a drunkard. I like my man smart and gorgeous. Of course everyone has their own preferences when it comes to physical looks and attitudes. I like a simple man, humble and sweet
• Philippines
1 Aug 12
and with a lot of cash? lol just joking.. but it might be a plus if the guy is willing to spend a lot of money for you...
@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
31 Jul 12
There are so many traits that I find unattractive. Being selfish and disrespectful are some of them. I also don't like guys who smoke, I find it hard to breath everytime there is someone smoking near me and it is not healthy as well. I also don't like guys who likes to badmouth and make fun of you just for a laugh. Another one I don't like is those who seem to hate brushing their teeth. Well, there are so many traits that I can think of I can't just list them all here. But I believe that if you love a person, having a bad breath is not a mere reason to fall out of love :D
• Philippines
1 Aug 12
Yes, having bad breath would definitely not be a reason to fall out of love but I would probably take some time to remind that person that he/she has to take measures in order to be rid of that.. It's not a good thing to be talking to a person with halitosis..
@samson1 (738)
• Jamaica
31 Jul 12
I cannot make an individual, hence, I can appreciate anyone with any physical features. However, I am not attracted to a woman with poor peronal higiene, and/or abrasive behavior. Smoking is a no no!
• Philippines
1 Aug 12
I guess a lot of people really agree on the same thing - Smoking is unattractive.
@nyssa102 (748)
• United States
6 Aug 12
I love artistic men, geeks, etc. I do not find men that wear uniforms or macho men, attractive, they actually gross me out. It's part of the personality as well. It's odd, but for years men can call women a 1 or a 10, they rate us, call us princess or tramp. However, women are usually called 'picky' if they have preferences. I can't help it. I like artistic men and geeks. I like their temperment and enjoy hanging around them. I cannot stand macho men, as stated. I do have some advice for you, and as an older lady please consider it. Never let anyone make a choice for you, you will come to regret it. If a man is chasing you and you do not like him, get rid of him. I don't care how many stories you hear that say the opposite, it's usually from women who are trapped and can't get out and refuse to admit they have been stupid in choosing a man. Please stick to your beliefs and only be with a man of your choosing. I cannot stress this enough. Make sure you both love each other mutually, do not lose your live because others like peer pressure, pushed you into another direction. Just advice from someone older who had an awful lot of coffee breaks with very unhappy women. Believe me, if you take a guy because he is pressuring you, you will be miserable. You want to feel joy, not regret.
@ridzzz0 (131)
31 Jul 12
dull,dump,bimbo these three things i will consider as unattractive.
• Philippines
31 Jul 12
how would you categorize a bimbo?
@MissPiggy (1748)
• Indonesia
31 Jul 12
To me, a smart guy is on top of my list. Smart means having the intelligence, comfortable to have a conversation with, have a sense of humor that won't change to be embarrassing, know the timing to speak up, and know what to say. Well, it seems to be very impossible, but I have met this kinda guy, so I know it's possible. And there are still more actually, but those are the things that come across my mind right now as I'm thinking about him when I'm writing this. So that's why I think that the other version of this guy is annoying. And I have met some of them too.