I ADD THEM SO NO MORE ISSUES DUH! :_x
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
Philippines
August 5, 2012 5:02am CST
hi mylotters,
I am very active in facebook and that's true some of my relatives abroad from my mother side sent me a friend request I am not close to them actually I don't like them cause they only remember Mom when they don't have place to stay while in Manila or if they needed money. Cousin 1, 2 and 3 sent friend request I don't accept it then they talk to my closest cousin that they sent me a friend request but I am not accepting it they also commented that " maybe she don't like to be connected with us, so what if she don't that will be fine" so this closest cousin of mine told me this knowing cousins 1,2 and 3 I know they are mad at me for not accepting it I don't want to be connected with them cause they will just gossip about us in the province besides I don't want to meet them again for sure if they will go back here in our country they won't remember my Mom again unless they need something from her.
Besides they are so malicious gossipers like they will comment on my closest cousin wall if they saw a man greeting her or saying sweet thoughts with her for me it's not their business so what if this closest cousin of mine is having a relationship with someone else why they need to put not so good comment on it.
Even they are my relatives I don't like them really 
because of their attitude. I just add them so there will be no issues for them but I restrict them to see all my activity on my facebook account.
hope everyone had a great weekend
happy mylotting
because of their attitude. I just add them so there will be no issues for them but I restrict them to see all my activity on my facebook account.
hope everyone had a great weekend
happy mylotting
8 responses
@corinai28 (32)
• Philippines
5 Aug 12
your funny.! ^_^. you should accept them because whether you like it or not, they are your relatives.. ^_^ be good to them..
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
5 Aug 12
hi corinai,
I was good to them I was not now cause they are abusive relatives besides I don't want them to interfere on my facebook account.
Welcome to Mylot
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
@kenshin2143 (1880)
• Philippines
5 Aug 12
It cannot be helped to have someone who are related to us by blood having such personalities and attitudes. Try talking to them heart to heart, probably you will know the reason behind those action of them. If that remedy would not do the trick then just ignore them and continue living your life. haha
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
6 Aug 12
@ kenshin,
Exactly that's why I want to continue my life without them cause it's useless talking to them of what I feel about them.
happy mylotting
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
5 Aug 12
I agree with you on that Bhaby I have some family issue to with my father's relative and I can't blame my parents to stay away from them too. Sometimes it is better to have a good relation with non relative people than the relative one that only want is to destroy other life because of jealousy. Just restrict them on what's happening on you in FB.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
5 Aug 12
hi lyn,
That's what I did I restrict them it doesn't matter if they found it out being on my list is too much for them.
happy mylotting
@wilsongoddard (7291)
• United States
5 Aug 12
It's good that you restricted what they can see.
I limit who I connect to on Facebook. Thankfully, none of my relatives are on FB that I know of; I wouldn't want to be connected to them if they were. We don't share the same political and religious views, and I'm certain that they would not appreciate my sense of humor. I haven't seen most of my relatives in several years anyways. When I finally introduce my boyfriend to them, that should be interesting...
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
6 Aug 12
hi wilsong,
I don't want them to be updated on what's happening to us cause the last time they found out something about us they even gossip in on our town one thing I hate about them.
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
@rainbow913 (33)
• United States
5 Aug 12
Good thing that you accept them cause after all they are your cousins. If something bothers you about them then let them know it. In that sense, some issues will be resolved.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
5 Aug 12
hi rainbow,
Yes I can't deny or take that we are bloody related but I can't stand their attitude specially how they treat my mom, I think they already know what I really feels for them
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
@mrswhitfield (2044)
• Indonesia
6 Aug 12
Hah,,they are annoying people. I will not never approve that kind of people if they add me, i do not care if the will gosipping me with other cousin. I will tell them that my FB is only for my online business. It is good that you restricted them to see your activity, better to stay not too close with that kind of people eventhought they are relatves.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
6 Aug 12
hi mrswhitfield,
Good thing there are restrictions in facebook they just want me to add them so it's still my right not to show all my activity there to them.
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
5 Aug 12
Hi, nice post. Well, it is hard dealing with relatives on social media. Facebook being popular, has attracted many people and has also created a virtual meeting between distant people. However, the problem comes in when you don't wanna get associated with a certain person, of coarse the victim will be able to tell if you have ignored the invitation.
It may be good to have close relatives by your side, but it is also a disadvantage because if they don't sit on what they see on social media, then that is a problem. Personally, I choose who to tell my real Id or just shut-up and be just as other friends. Mostly, I don't use my real names, just to remain anonymous for my own reasons.
Glad to know that you have adapted another way of dealing with relative menace, I hope they won't realize you have censured them.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
5 Aug 12
hi waflay,
Well if they will find out about the restriction I hope they were able to understand the message of my acion.
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
5 Aug 12
Sheesh, it's just Facebook, it's not an indication on whether a person likes you are not. Why would they make a big deal out of it? Seriously, if they would really want to connect with you, they can call and talk to you properly. And why would they even include another person into the whole friend request thing?
I'm with you in adding them just because they're still family, but yeah, it's also okay to restrict their access on your wall, it's your right. Especially if you already know that they will just be visiting your wall to pick on gossips and possibly talk about you in a bad light behind your back.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
5 Aug 12
hi Raine,
Exactly before facebook there are other ways to communicate with family right?
Besides I know what they intentions are for adding me up
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
