Me and my fiance was watching tv and he asked me

@kylanie (1205)
United States
August 8, 2012 11:26am CST
We was watching tv the other day and he asked me if I would stay with him if he got very sick as some of you know he has cirosis of the liver he got turned down from one hospital saying that he lied to them so we go see a different one now and we found out that if he has to have a transplant have to stay there for a month so alot has been on my mind recently he had some test done at the local hospital and found out some bad news so it got him to thinking what if he got sicker would I stay with him and I told him that no matter what I would be there til the end that the only time I would go anywhere is just to the store.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
10 Aug 12
This is a very important part of a relationship and I believe that if the answer to that question was no then there really wouldn't be a lot of future for that relationship. You know my husband is a cancer survivor and though I won't lie to you and tell you that it was easy to be with him through it all, it was well worth it to me because of the fact that I love him. I would even lie right there in the bed with him as he draws in his last breath if his life was coming to an end before mine was.
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@MandaLee (3756)
• United States
9 Aug 12
Hi, There are people who could learn so much from your devotion to your fiancee. That is so wonderful! You both are in my prayers.
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@Loverbear (4918)
• United States
8 Aug 12
It never ceases to amaze me how shallow some people can be, they say that they love a person and when things get tough they leave. I've had Bill ask the same question. There is no way I would leave his side if he got extremely ill. Shoot when he is suffering from a minor ailment I am by his side day and night. I was there through all of his kidney stone mess (including 5 trips to the ER when he couldn't stand the pain any further). You're the same kind of person I am, when you love a person it is unconditionally and totally. You carry the badge of honor that states that even if your loved one is seriously ill you will be there for them. You are such a beautiful person, and it is beauty that comes from the inside out. Unfortunately the guys we love can't get their heads around the fact that we won't leave, Bill asks the question often. I think it is from the insecurity of losing his first wife to another man. She dumped him for a guy that lived down the street. When Bill loves it is totally and completely. So she really ripped his heart out when she decided that the guy down the street was a better catch than Bill. I don't think a day goes by that Bill doesn't worry that I may find someone better. He is also terrified that if he gets really sick I'll dump him. All we can do is keep reassuring them that we love them and will be there for them. Hug your guy extra for me, and tell him again that no matter what you won't leave his side. That is what loving someone is all about! I wish you both the best and that everything will eventually turn out well. Take care!
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
8 Aug 12
That is devotion! It sounds to me as if he's feeling down and very worried. Knowing you'll be there for him when he's at his sickest will reassure him. I hope they can find a transplant though and that he'll be on the mend soon.
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@hcp_nj (108)
• India
9 Aug 12
Ya it is true. No matter, it can be happened to any one.
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@natliegleb (5175)
• India
8 Aug 12
this is a pure example of test of compatibility since people find it easier to ask tough questions related to emotional quotient at happier times rather than at weak times.so if has asked you ,you can say that i will and i have the responsibility to stay with you .its all about caring at the end of the day mutually
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@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
8 Aug 12
It must have been hard in his situation. Maybe he just need someone who can be with his side knowing that his weak and stress because of his sickness and that`s you. He feels safe and secure with you. What you answered is really touching and know that he feels lucky to have you. I hope and pray that he will be healed and be healthy with you in the future.
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