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Indonesia
August 10, 2012 11:24am CST
what make the single one cry/
2 responses
• United States
10 Aug 12
Personally I believe those who cry because they are single have a imagery built up in their head that they need or have to have another person there to comfort them. But the reality of the situation is that we DO NOT need another person there for us. It is really more of a want that a need. Sure it is nice, and the way we have lived our lives over the past few generations it's literally become a tradition. But in the grand spectrum of things, those who are not content with themselves, cannot possibly, or atleast "truly" be content with others. They will always find themselves jumping around or even finding their way into abusive, or self destructive relationships. I know it sounds corny, and over used, but you really have to begin to love yourself before you can even begin to love others. Heck most people are married off, and don't have the slightest clue what love actually is. Hence why in America 51% of marriages end in divorce. The reality of it all, is that love is a way of life. Not something that can be summed up to an "on off " emotion, or even a mere bond between two people. It is a demeanor, a presence, an absolute mind set. It truly is, a way of life.
• United States
10 Aug 12
^I realize I have a few typos, wrote it rather fast sorry
• Indonesia
10 Aug 12
no problem thanks for the advice
@vaericke (162)
• Philippines
10 Aug 12
What? Can you please clarify your question. ^_^
• Indonesia
10 Aug 12
what makes someone cry? especially single