Do you insult people???!!!

@svjomboy (873)
Philippines
August 10, 2012 10:53pm CST
One day i read other page sharing their problems and more peoples sharing their thoughts and advices, some of them also are a judgemental and some of them are sharing their idea with some insults. On your part if you share some problems how would you react if some persons insulted you? Do you feel hurt of what they say??? Happy mylotting!!!
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16 responses
• Valdosta, Georgia
11 Aug 12
I think at one time or another we have all felt insulted here. The only difference is how we have handled it. For me I completely ignore the response if they have been rude to me. I do not feel they deserve attention or any kind of response for being rude. I try not to let it hurt me or affect me which is also why I ignore it.
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
11 Aug 12
Correct egnoring them and dont give any attention is good for them, but sometimes we are a human can't escape of being hurt of people say to you..
• Valdosta, Georgia
11 Aug 12
Oh yes I have been hurt as well but it is just a little easier to deal with the pain if we ignore the response...
• India
11 Aug 12
Hi friend, i am not interested in insulting others, if they create a topic with their issues, we must try our maximum to give solution and suggestions for their problem instead of insults, surely this kind of insulting activity will hurt anyone. If some one insulted or hurt me, i will use the report option to report the person and this kind of replies will be deleted by admin. If you find an insulting reply, you can report them without hesitation
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
11 Aug 12
You are correct and you have a good heart, if the person need an idea or advice why they never give a good advice than to insult, if they don't have any idea why they never stay quiet than to insult persons...Better to give a good idea or advice than to hurt people.
@ally12 (1202)
• Philippines
6 Mar 13
Be hurt from insult is already a given fact, but absolutely Ill get mad too. Maybe Ill return her/ him the favor or maybe Ill let them know to be so lucky they are more intelligent than the others so maybe they too should learn the word respect, if they would have at least a few drops of those (intelligent and respect) then I would say it is near possible to have a perfect person.
• United States
11 Aug 12
First of all, I don't believe in insulting others or launching a personal attack on anyone. Sometimes I am direct or painfully honest but I think we all need to express ourselves. Secondly, if someone wants to insult me they might be wasting their time. I believe that no one has the power to offend me unless I allow myself to be insulted or offended. I usually won't allow that. Also, I have NO control over whether or not others are insulted or offended by something I say or write. I know I have good intentions and I also recognize that other people are constantly making choices about how they feel.
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
11 Aug 12
Wow you are sraight to the point, that's good and you never hide something if ever you upset or what ever you feel to that person...way to go.
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
11 Aug 12
As much as I can, I treat people the way I wanna be treated. But in the case of a certain page like you said, where everyone can hide behind usernames without revealing their identity, a lot of people take advantage of this and just spread hate and throw insults. Whenever I encounter pages like this, I just don't visit it anymore and move along. Clearly, that page is nothing but a place for trashy people who don't mind that behind every username is a real, feeling person. I used to jump into the discussion and remind those who hurl insults about their manners, but I gave up early on. It's just not worth the time and trouble. Those people clearly have their minds closed about anything and no amount of decent talk will make them see otherwise.
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
11 Aug 12
Yes i do agree with you, some other persons they spread their hates and anger by their comments like insulting or whatever, but they never determine that they are showing their bad charactheristic through comments...
@Shavkat (137212)
• Philippines
11 Aug 12
It depends on the situation, but my personality is not to insult other people. Instead, I give them advise in a professional way. If it doesn't work and started to misinterpret the advise,then I leave it that way.
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
11 Aug 12
Yes you are a very professional the way you responds that's my compliments from you and thanks for being fair.
• China
12 Aug 12
hi,no,I can't insult people.
@jugsjugs (12967)
12 Aug 12
I will say that now that I am older, I tend to let things go over my head rather than taking things to heart. I mean if we were to take everything that people write or say to us to heart, then these people that are nasty have won, so I never even let it get to me any more.Life is far to short to let other people hurt us all the time.
@ally12 (1202)
• Philippines
12 Aug 12
Im an onion skinned person I easily get hurt and offended by insulting people but I think even those tough people would feel bad if be insulted specially when they are enduring some problems in life. I had been insulted in other social site where I posted a discussion pertaining to marital problems.. And yes i entertained her rudeness but i throw my words on her with taste.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
11 Aug 12
well at times if i am really nervous and excited i thrash my loved ones and later feel worried and repent very much about it .but at that time i am unbounded and uncontrolled to scold them
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
12 Aug 12
Of course I would get insulted. I insult people but not people who are vulnerable or those who have a big problem at that moment. When i insult it's usually said in a joking manner but most of the people just say i'm frank. I don't like lying, I'd rather tell you in the face that talk behind your back.
• Philippines
12 Aug 12
Yes, I was insulted just this month by my ex boyfriend! I can't even say a thing. He texted me that I am a wh*re! Who would love to be called as such? Specially me? I was a very loyal girlfriend to him, I did not hang out with my friends because he told me so. I was always there we he needs me, but all ive got was that word? I defended myself but he continued on texting me with insulting words which I know is not true. I just texted him that I didn't know what's on his mind why he sent me that message. Maybe he wanted to show her girlfriend that he does not care about me anymore, but he's not man enough to say those word to a girl who used to love him! So i told him that He knew me all along and he knew I'm not that kind of girl and it's up to him. Only God knows the truth and I believe in Karma. After that we never texted, I was hurt because of that word but what should I do? get drunk? No way! a waste of time :)
@paulli3 (312)
• China
11 Aug 12
no, i never insult people, i don't want to hurt anyone, and i hate people who insult others, we all should be friendly to others, right? so i will feel hurt when someone say hurt me, it is terrible, i hope all people can be friendly to others. good luck!
• United States
12 Aug 12
When someone insults me I have learned to just go on about my life and not worry about it. I used to get upset, but I now realize that life's too short.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
11 Aug 12
It depends on the people you know. If you are sensitive and emotional then you must avoid sharing and seeking advices via net. People have different ways on interpretation and speaking out of mind. It is safer to open up with your friends and family. At least they know you. They know if you are sensitive and they know the right words that you can handle. I insult others too when i give advice but not in the bad way. Maybe more like being frank but i know my limitations. Oh, maybe insult is not the right word for it after all. I am frank but i say it without judging. Sometimes being frank when it comes to giving or voicing out advice is important especially when that person needs to wake up in reality. If people would do the same to me. I will definitely thank them. I did seek advice though so i am expecting them to be true despite the fact it sometimes hurts. I am more like realistic, open minded and i have respect when it comes to their words when we talk about advices
@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
11 Aug 12
Every individual is unique. They have different personalities and perspectives. We are raised by different parents and by different techniques which make us see things differently. If someone has a problem and you need advice and opinions of others, definitely, you won't talk to someone you do not know. You will ask your parents, a friend or someone you know could help. You won't just the first person you saw crossing the street for advice or answers to your problems. But if you are going to post in a forum about your problem, many people could read it. And since technically, you are asking every users advice or opinion about your problem, they would post their replies even though they do not know you personally. They would post their answers according to their own knowledge and experiences. We cannot expect that all of them would be considerate enough about our feelings. Some may just want to take part in the posting but do not really care much about us. They can have different motives in sharing their inputs about our problems. There are also people who would just post a reply just to make fun of us or laugh at our problems. If this kind of people happen to post a reply to my discussion, I would definitely wouldn't mind because first of all, they have their rights to say what they feel about it and they have the right to post a response. If you get many response to your discussion, you read them all but definitely, you won't follow everything you have read. That is why there is what we call as best answer. If someone insulted me here or at some other sites, I don't think I would be affected that much but if it is in real life, somebody I know insulted me despite me having so much problems, I don't know if I would ask for his or her advice again.