Im still inlove with him
By imAbigael
@imAbigael (475)
Philippines
August 11, 2012 8:40am CST
Maybe its false hope or maybe we really not meant for each other, but I'm still inlove with him. Every time he talk to me like that, I know deep inside that I want him back (ex-boyfriend). Were good friends now but I'm very upset for whatever happened to us that he gave up to me just like that. We tried to have a normal conversation like ordinary friends do, but in some point we ended up talking to the past and the sweet moments we had. And I cant stop to feel happy when I see him smiling. But for sure he will forget me soon because I'm leaving the country and I don't want regrets because my heart still beating. Any good advise?
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7 responses
@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
11 Aug 12
You know, if he is the one for you, you will be together no matter happens. even though you fly far far away from him, if love sets you back, there's nothing you can do but believe. You will be leaving the country but I'm sure your communication with him will still go on. Just wait for the right time. Anyways, when he is not the one, you can feel it too. You may have other feelings for someone else. Maybe in the new place you will live in. Goodluck!
@imAbigael (475)
• Philippines
11 Aug 12
That's right and he just said that if I don't have a boyfriend after soon as a came back, he's still waiting for me but I don't have his word, the word of assurance that he didn't said it that "I'm the one" or maybe his not looking for other girls but just me (and but then for sure he will). I don't understand him, he is just giving me false hope.
@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
12 Aug 12
For now, just do what your heart desires.
If ever you fell in love to someone before he comes back, and then he came back and still looked for you, it's time for you to choose. Or you take a risk in waiting for him.
Best of luck my friend!
It would be a tough decision.
@smiling_ja (261)
• Philippines
28 Sep 12
You're leaving the country is an advantage because your attention will be diverted to other more pressing matters like coping up with the new environment so on and so forth. You feel that way because you're not still over him and you both talking about your past is not really helpful. I believe that once you have called it quits and talked about the reason of your split (so to speak), there is no use of going through your past because it just opens up wounds that should by now be healing.
@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
11 Aug 12
Maintain good relations continued. Mate does not run where.
@imAbigael (475)
• Philippines
11 Aug 12
Yes of course I will maintain our good relationship even it takes complications, I'm thinking to run but I should fix it first. thanks.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
Let time tell if you and your ex are meant for each other.
Since you are leaving the country, have some peace of mind.
If you and your ex are meant to be, distance is not a hindrance, not even the time of separation.
If you are not meant for each other, maybe your destiny is waiting for you across the sea.
@imAbigael (475)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
Thank you, I understand and I will keep that in my mind.. I just need a little more time to think if he is the one that I want to spend my life with.
@mrswhitfield (2044)
• Indonesia
13 Sep 12
If he easily forget you then you also have to try to forget him. You have to keep going, do not let your life stuck in the past. If you're still curious you may need to talk to him about your feelings still felt for him for the last time before you leave, just to make it real clear for you.
@imAbigael (475)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
thats what im thinking right now and I read your post, yes your right I need to talk to him..
@majuuyaitai22 (93)
• Philippines
23 Aug 12
I think, talk to him before you go, so that you can let out what you really want to express. Aside from that, if ever, you get hurt because he does not like anymore, that only a proof that maybe you deserve someone better. Atleast you fight even for the last time.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
I have loved a person more than anybody else. I gave him my all up to the point of turning my back from my own family. I just loved him that much. The only thing was, we couldn't keep our relationship, he was married and with kids. I thought I would e happy and can live with it, but a lot of things happened that I had to give him up. I thought I would die when I left him. It took me a long time before I got used to not seeing him or talking to him- days to weeks to months to years. I had to control my feelings so that we all will have a quiet life. I still do remember him and cry everytime I remember how we were together, but we were just not meant to be.
I would advice you to teach yourself to be a little distant from him. This will help you heal your heart.
