"Good Relationships"

@prashu228 (37526)
India
August 12, 2012 1:34pm CST
hello everyone, Good relationships don't just happen.They take time,patience and two people who truly want to be together. friends what are your views? do we need any more?
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8 responses
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
13 Aug 12
hi prashu, you may be right it takes hours, days,weeks and months some time, but relationship will happen within seconds, we may continue some relationships and we may not continue some relationships, so every thing in our life is according to fate and luck only, i have observed several times in my life, have a nice day
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
13 Aug 12
hi prashu, thanks for the response, i respect friends and their desires also, i am having friend since my school days means more than 40 years, recently we people of 9 school mates of 1963 gather at one place ,that is one of my friends residence and exchange the school days, so mostly if friendship started that never ends ,that is good friendship,have a nice day
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
13 Aug 12
yes, i have seen people , who appear to be so much in love but , actually nothing is good between them , have so many differences among them,and vice versa..thanks for the response
@rubyroy (824)
• India
14 Aug 12
Relationship are based on give and take.Love means that you have to share without condition and stipulation.Relationship means to guide and help each other,and not to dictate your will on one another.If you are selfless,in any relationship,it will grow.Do not enter into any relationship with any preconceived notions.Give your best and you will get the best relationship.Forgive and forget,to maintain a relationship.Do for others what you want others to do for you.
@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
12 Aug 12
Understanding. Accept what was there (good or bad). Correcting each other (for better). Help each other.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
12 Aug 12
you have told it nicely. yes. after moving together for some time/days people expect more from the other and this causes problems. if one learns to give up without more expectations then it will be easy for them to carry on.
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
13 Aug 12
agreed, explained whole in one nice line, but expectations always arise, we cant change it
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
14 Aug 12
Good evening! I agree completely that a good relationship takes work,time and patience. If you arent willing to put that into the relationship that you want then it must not be very important to you. My hubby and I worked very hard to get to this point and it was well worth it!
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
14 Aug 12
yes we need to work , when we want to be with our loved ones, if this doesn't happen ,then its clear that, we are not giving our hundred percent. thanks for the response
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
12 Aug 12
Each one should understand the other. Accept the other person as he is. Not expect him to change more. He will be what he is and you will what you are. Learn to give up and expect less. then life will be interesting.
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
13 Aug 12
hello sir, if everything happens like this then problem will not occur at all, but the condition is like this in the present days, that's why so many divorce cases, which was once thought a sin in our country. thanks for the response
@victorkrish (1614)
• Malaysia
13 Aug 12
A real relationship needs a trust which comes after a times they being together and communicate and how they show their care. A love sure born if they keep understand and stay together even a misunderstand comes along the journey of love. Love, caring and trust the key in relationship.
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
13 Aug 12
yes,trust and understanding plays crucial role , to keep the relationship, if we dont find them them then nothing works.thanks for the response
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
14 Aug 12
Good relationship started with a good communication between two person. Accepting each other strength and weakness also a lead to a good relationship. Lastly, trust and love to each other makes two people help and understand each personality which leads to good relationship too.
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
14 Aug 12
agreed ,thanks for the response
@allknowing (130066)
• India
15 Aug 12
Accepting each other with all their 'moles'will guarantee a good and lasting relationship. Trust and understanding, and giving space to each other are the other elements that help keep the flames of relationship going
@drow1212 (169)
• United States
12 Aug 12
Yeah that is pretty much how it goes. you also need perseverance when things fall apart.