Who would you believe? your boyfriend or a friend from high school?

August 12, 2012 11:14pm CST
Until now, i still find it really confusing. Who should i believe my boyfriend or a friend from high school?. My story goes like this. Last year my boyfriend and i had a fight. He wouldn't allow me to drink and to have fun with my co-workers ( i worked at the hospital at that time ). It was fiesta in our province and i was arguing with him through phone ( he's an OFW and we haven't met until now ). I was so angry at that time and i decided to end our relationship. i didn't answer his texts or his phone calls and i enjoy my night. Two days after, i answered his call he told me that he loves me so much and he didn't want to end our relationship and i agree with him. As days have passed our relationship was back to normal. One day, he told me that he and my friend from high school is exchanging messages from Facebook that's fine with me cause he told me they're childhood friends and he even told me that they exchange phone numbers. If he calls me, he wouldn't forget to mention he was texting with my friend and he calls her often and wakes her up every morning. As we were talking other things, he mentioned he wants to visit my friend and her sister (my bf works in Saudi and my friend is in Dubai). He also mentioned that they will visit our province together. Its was fine with me but deep in my heart i feel jealous. One day my friend message me on Facebook she told me that my boyfriend is courting her and he told her that if we broke up she will be his girlfriend, i was so shocked and tears started to fall from my eyes. I confronted my Boyfriend and he told me my friend was just telling lies and he even told me that my friend has an advantage because were friends while he and i haven't met in person yet. After that i tried to forget what had just happen but still i can't forget it.:(
1 response
• Philippines
14 Aug 12
Hi rodivina, sometimes it's hard to trust someone we love (hard not because they can't be trusted; but because jealousy breaks in) I don't exactly know what's happening between your friend and your bf and I think you too :) in that kind of situation we can't directly judge who's telling the truth, the bf or the friend. Bf sometimes lie to us and so do friends. If your friend likes your bf and then your friend wanted to ruin your relationship so your friend can easily make a story that would hurt you and touch your ego. In other way, your bf also might court your friend because he likes your friend and when your friend jilted him then he can say it's not true. Base of what's happening your bf treated your friend special because they're exchanging message and even wakes her up in the morning.But, that special treatment could be friendship or more than that; to solve that issue you have to talk to them both in skype just do the group call. :) hope it help.