What cheaters might get...
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
Philippines
5 responses
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
I hope he won't do it again. He'll lose everything. It's up to him though. It that what he wants then he can get his freedom. :(
@zoey7879 (3092)
• United States
13 Aug 12
Mine did... Rather recently in fact.
I learned that it had been going on anywhere from 4-7 months... to be honest, I'm not really sure and neither he nor she could confirm when it began for me.
Yes.. I forgave him. I cannot blame the other woman as she was not aware that he and I were in a relationship... and vice versa. He takes the fault for this alone.
I love my guy, with all of my heart, and I know the circumstances of abuse in his home life (we live separately right now) that pushed him to this other woman. I have forgiven him, but it will take a while before he earns my trust back to where I am comfortable. It really, truly hurts that I have lost trust in him, but he brought that upon himself and I cannot continually beat myself up inside over it.
A second time? Maybe...
A third time... Well... he'd probably have to go.
Even though he cheated on me in an emotional relationship with this woman (there was no physical contact), he was still always very attentive to me... He paid enough attention to me that I never had a clue of what was going on... so, I don't know. I just know that I would want to try to work things out.. Figure out what, if anything, that I am doing wrong or lacking to make him seek this attention from someone else.
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
Oh, that's good. No physical contact. I guess that's more painful if they had one. But emotional relationship? I guess that will still leadto something if they won't stop it. They might fall in love with each other. I guess that happened to my husband too. He was seeking attention from others too and I caught him having a conversation with a woman in Facebook. We fought about her. He said he didn't do anything. I am his husband and why should he still look for a friend. I am just a chat away. I am always waiting for him to send me messages but he was busy with another woman. That really hurt me but I forgave him too. I can relate to your feelings. Sorry for the late reply.
@amey_dev143 (483)
• India
13 Aug 12
It is better to not hurry and make any decision.
You need to understand the situation first, what exactly happenned and why.
If the spouse is the only one responsible for the trait then he deserves a punishment.
But honestly speaking, everyone deserves a second chance.
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
Yes, everyone deserves a second chance. I hope that the situation isn't that complicated yet so that a second chance can still be possible. Yeah, we have to know why did they cheat. I guess that's so painful though.
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
Oh. I guess you're right. We still have to make it a try but when we already did our best then it's time to let go. We can't afford to be hurt any longer. You're so brave. I guess you deserve a better partner.
and cut his **** .. I don't really know I I will react to it. I pray that that day never comes. good day 
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
Oh. You're so scary. LOL. But I guess I'd also do that if I'll catch my spouse having an affair or if he's cheating me. LOL. Yeah, you're right. I hope that day won't come. We don't know what can we do in that situation.
