losing a child
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
Philippines
August 14, 2012 6:01am CST
Four years ago, I had a miscarriage. It was so painful. I did my best to save my baby but I still lost it. Having a miscarriage is far more painful than giving a birth. I endured it for ten days. I don't want to have another miscarriage. How about you, did you experienced miscarriage before? How did you feel? You can post your comments here. Thank you and happy myLotting!
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@Raine38 (12387)
• United States
14 Aug 12
I am sorry to hear that, I really am. I have yet to carry a child because my husband and I are still trying to conceive. It's been two years and each month that my period comes, I can't help but feel so sad. But we always try again, we never lose hope. I somehow can relate to the feeling of your loss, I know I have never really gave birth but the longing is there.
I hope you will never have to suffer the same predicament ever again.
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@patgalca (18481)
• Orangeville, Ontario
14 Aug 12
I hope you are successful soon. I spent the whole six years of my first marriage trying to conceive and some months became angry at God when my period arrived. But looking back now, it was a bad marriage and having a child together would have been the worst thing to happen to us. I would have been connected to that abusive, addicted, sorry human being forever. I am definitely not saying that is your case (see my response below). God provides us with many tests and trials. I pray you will overcome and become the mother you yearn to be.
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
Thanks raine38. Aren't you stressed at work? I guess if you travel to and from work every day then you have the tendency not to conceive a child. It's stressful to be at work and to travel daily. I am not saying that you should quit okay? I'll pray for you that you'll have a baby soon. While waiting for a baby, make yourself healthy. Eat fruits and vegetables and drink some milk and take your vitamins. It's better to be health conscious. You should prepare yourself for the pregnancy. Happy mylotting. :)
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
Yeah, I wish no women will experience miscarriage too. It's so painful. Thanks a lot for the prayer and for posting. I hope you'll have a safe pregnancy too if you'll have one. Stay healthy and keep safe always. Happy mylotting.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
14 Aug 12
Hi friend, sad to hear about this, my wife gave birth to our first kid within 9 months after our marriage, now we have two sons, she don't had any miscarriage, really it is very painful to lose our unseen baby.
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
Sorry fort the late reply. Yeah, it's really painful to have amiscarriage. Emotionally and physically painful. I don't want to have another one. It would be better to have an unplanned pregnancy than to have a planned pregnancy but will result to a miscarriage. I'm glad that my son was so healthy when he was still inside me. Oh, good to hear that your wife didn't experience a miscarriage. Take care of her very well. Thanks for posting and happy mylotting.
@Juliyan23 (600)
• Indonesia
14 Aug 12
I'm so sorry for your losing :(
Actually I haven't been married neither had a child yet. But My mom ever had a miscarriage too at her 4th child. I saw how her struggling for the pain .
My mom was too active while she was having pregnancy. So that's why my mom had a miscarriage. After having a miscarriage, my mom never wanted to have any child anymore. But it was okay since I have had 2 young sisters and I even couldn't handle both of them well :)
Hope you could have a baby safely ! I wish you the best :)
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
Oh, your mom experienced what I've experienced too. Yeah, it was really painful that's why your mom didn't like to get pregnant again. It's better to get pregnant and deliver a baby than to get pregnant then having a miscarriage. That's extremely painful. It's good that you already have your two little sisters. The three of you complete your family already. Thanks for posting and happy mylotting.
