who of these two would you forgive

Uganda
August 15, 2012 8:50am CST
A person who cheats on you and shows no signs or a person who cheats on you and shows all signs that their cheating. i would forgive a person who cheats and shows all signs at least you see that coming and you can protect your self from the out come but if a person cheats and stays perfect i think that such people are dangerous because they can bring home AIDS and you can never know because you think that you are the only one in the picture.
6 responses
16 Aug 12
It is immoral to cheat on anybody in any way. However, it depends on the person who is forgiving about who to forgive between the two persons in the scenario. It might be possible to forgive both or forgive none of the two. But considering the general context of the view, the person who is showing signs of cheating on you might be considered far fairer than the one who is concealing cheating on you. The person who is concealing signs by large pose bigger threats.
@namiya (1713)
• Philippines
15 Aug 12
None of them. If someone whom I trusted so much have destroyed that trust and hurt me terribly i find it hard to restore the same quality of trust i have on him before. May be we could be friends after sometime but that's it. I could no longer trust him like the way I did before.
• Philippines
15 Aug 12
with your question i don't think they deserve forgiveness... forgiveness is to be asked not given... it should be earned and not forced. if that person cheats and he didn't as for forgiveness then i think you should not forgive them.
@zhihao12 (363)
• Singapore
15 Aug 12
Seriously, how can you be able to forgive someone who cheats on you that easily? But if i were really have to choose one of these two, then it would be the one who show no sign at all. The reason is that as compared to one who showed all sign without restrain, this person who show no sign can be said to have some guilt which force him to hide the sign. As for the other guy, the fact that he show all sign of him cheating can be seen as he does not care anymore and is not afraid of you knowing it. As such there is no point in forgiving him. At least the one who hides his cheating still care about you that is why he is afraid to show, when things get worse, there is still a chance for him to turnover a new leaf should you forgive him.
• Philippines
15 Aug 12
who of these two would you forgive? i been forgive may half brother for what happen to us. its ok now but now i can't forgive my husband at this time bec. of what he did to me 2 years ago. i can't forget it and i still did like him. am still anger with him. i cant forgive him yet as for now. i and i hope one day i will forgive him.
@dechinta (77)
• Indonesia
15 Aug 12
Perhaps I would forgive who cheats on me and shows all signs because at least I prepared my self with it so I would not get hurt a lot. Basically I really do not want to forgive people who cheats but why I should do that while god always forgive me when I do wrong, so well I should forgive them.