How do you say?

@meumeu25 (917)
United Arab Emirates
August 15, 2012 11:33am CST
You have a bad breath to someone close to you, your friend for example without offending them. Let's say someone you respect and is older than you?
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9 responses
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
16 Aug 12
That is such a hard thing!! There were often teachers that had bad breath when I was in high school and then people in my family. I have never told anyone at all that their breath is bad. There have been times that I have actually had some gum and offered it while I was getting a piece for myself. But in the event that the other person is your elder, I would not say anything because chances are that they know that their breath isnt the best. And when the breath is bad its often the teeth and their might be something wrong with their teeth and I am certain their dentist has talked with them about this.
@meumeu25 (917)
• United Arab Emirates
17 Aug 12
Hi :), I'm afraid they don't see a dentist or else they would have done something about it. Who would ever want to have a bad breath? I know it's really hard to tell someone, I'm not sure if I can actually blurt it out but I'll try :). Thank you:)
@elivna04 (51)
• Philippines
16 Aug 12
Offering a mint probably is the best idea. There's no way you can tell that person (even in your sincerest, most polite and caring tone) he/she has a bad breath WITHOUT offending him/her. If you're very close with his/her family, you can probably talk with them and relay your concern for your friend. He/she would feel less offended if it came from his/her family.
@meumeu25 (917)
• United Arab Emirates
17 Aug 12
Hi, I know, just thinking about it makes me feel sorry for him/her. Thank you :)
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
16 Aug 12
tough question I once wanted to say that to my friend , and I couldn't . I offer her a mint gum and she ask me if I am saying her breath is bad , I said oh no lol , I am just about to have one so checking if you would like one also . If the person was older than I am , It all depend on how much I value their friendship and If I do I would just sit them down and tell them because I would know at the end of the day they will be happy I did .
@meumeu25 (917)
• United Arab Emirates
17 Aug 12
Hi :), I am also hoping this person will not be mad at me when I finally get the guts to tell him/her. I think I'm not the only 1 who noticed, but no one has ever tried to tell him/her. Thank you for your response.
• United States
15 Aug 12
Just be honest with them. You being a true friend and letting them know that they have bad breath will not be as embarassing as some random stranger telling them and them knowing that you never said anything. Some times its just better to be honest with people it may hurt their feelings a little bit but its better than them having their feelings hurt by a complete stranger telling them rather than a friend.
@meumeu25 (917)
• United Arab Emirates
15 Aug 12
Hi, That's exactly what I am worried about. But I really find it hard to say it to this person. This person is close to me but he/she gets offended easily and I don't want to ruin our friendship because of this.
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
15 Aug 12
I think the operative word here is friend,,and you should be able to tell a friend anything..because you nor your friend wants others to be rude to them about their breath,,,I surely would hope that my friends would tell me...because that's just nasty and it can be corrected.. tell your friend and anyone else you shouldn't have a problem telling them or staying away from them.....I would much rather know than not know, it could become very embrassing.... Tell her/him, and let them know you are not being rude just their friend,,,,they should really understand and thank you....
@meumeu25 (917)
• United Arab Emirates
15 Aug 12
Hi, At some point I was really tempted to say it but his/her attitude of taking things when he/she doesn't like it is what's holding me back. Thank you.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
15 Aug 12
Well some of my friends before has a bad breath at first I asked her if she has stomach problems or if she has a broken tooth she can lead to bad breath. I think if you really care someone who is close to you better to be honest than pretending you don't smell anything.
@meumeu25 (917)
• United Arab Emirates
15 Aug 12
Hi, Yes, I know I should be honest to this person, I am really trying to, I just don't how to initiate or say it to his/her face. :P I'm also scared to see his/her reaction. Thank you.
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Aug 12
How about offering them a piece of gum or a peppermint? Saying that would be mean. I would just offer them something that would make their breath smell nicer. =)
@meumeu25 (917)
• United Arab Emirates
15 Aug 12
Actually I already did that but I think he/she forgets to brush his/her teeth sometimes thats why he/she has it. I noticed this because I spend some time w/ him/her mostly and I don't want him/her to be embarrased with someone else. Sorry I have to use two gender, I just feel awkward revealling his/her gender. Thanks for the reply :)
@Pegasus72 (1898)
16 Aug 12
pull out a mint or piece of gum stick one in your mouth and ask would you like a piece. You have to share right? Hopeful they will take one.
• United States
15 Aug 12
You could offer them a stick of gum or a breath mint. If they refuse, then you can tell them they need it in a tactful way. Even if they are a little bit offended; they'll get over it if they understand that you sincerely care about them.
@meumeu25 (917)
• United Arab Emirates
15 Aug 12
Hi, I've already tried that but I'm worried if somebody else who don't care will tell him/her that without a warning. I just wan't to know how exactly should I tell this person? Thank you for your respond :)