I am afraid that they will not accept me and what I am going to tell.

Real friends can understand you no matter what you are or who you are. If you can't reveal your secrets, then keep them. It's scary if they will tell others your secrets. Don't trust anyone. Happy myLotting!

If the impact on others, you must tell the secret. That way, you will know, if he accepts you as is.

I think you need to analyze the situation first before going to reveal secrets, it really hard to reveal secrets to anybody especially if it's very personal. But based on my experienced, I had a big secret in life and I revealed it to my husband before we get into a relationship, i thought he will going to judge me or stay away from me, but instead he stay with me, accepted and understand me. If your secret can affect, damage or hurt to somebody better to keep it with you but if this secret need to reveal to set your self free and become happy then you need to gain come courage and dont be afraid to reveal it. Good luck

If you are not confident enough with regards to your friends judgement on you, I think you just have to keep it to yourself. You should be able to trust them with your secrets and they should respect you for who you are. I believe trust and respect is earned so you have to work hard for it in order to spill out what's on your mind. You wouldn't want to regret the day that you tell your secret to a blabbermouth friend whom you don't really trust at all.

It happened to me too. I don't know why but whenever I tried to tell them how I felt - they just seemed couldn't understand . And even worst they were playing God by judging and making some rumors - they were trying to let me fall. I don't have a skill to make other agree with me , especially when I told them what was on my mind. And I insensibly become the one who always feel as a coward person.

I have always believed that somethings do not need to be said by us that may not actually concern others who are going to be told to. If we really need to tell something that is not pleasant and telling that might affect our reputation as a human being, we should assess the damage that might happen and then act accordingly.

I can understand about it. It's matter of self confidence and love. If you think the people around you doesn't love you that much- that hinders you for expressing yourself. but if you are confident enough that everyone around you loves you no matter what- then you will never hesitate to express whatever you want. In my family, we are always open to each other. No matter how it hurts the other- we need to express it than keeping it inside. That is a must to avoid hatred and distance to put walls in between.

You will never know it they will accept you when you are afraid to tell what is inside you. Sometimes, having a strong mind and determination will be your best tool in telling what is inside you. If they will not understand you, be thankful since they gave you time to listen and be morethankful is they will understand and accept you.

I can relate here. Sometimes, I think it first for so many times before blurting it out. I will try to look at deeper if this can be harmful or can be beneficial to all parties. If that could destroy the relationship, I might as well, keep it inside. But if it will do good , I will take courage to tell me it, share it. But if, we are unsure if it will lead to either good or bad, I might ask for an expert opinion from independent ones, not related to the parties. Through that, we may gauge it, if this is harmful or beneficial. They say that there's no harm in trying. So there, we may see it if it is worth trying. Thanks