Jokes are Half Meant, so Never throw a joke at someone you don't know personally

Philippines
August 17, 2012 5:13am CST
I would always be careful with whom I joke with. Sometimes, my jokes could be insulting, especially if it's half meant. When I was a corporate trainer, sometimes, we have to crack jokes to break the ice. And, to make it more effective, I would sometimes joke about anybody in the room, and sometimes, about myself. However, I need to make sure that this person can take the joke, and not be offended, otherwise it would also be bad for my career. But, in my regular life, I don't easily crack a joke about someone to their face, if I don't know them personally. Similarly, I don't want any stranger or mere acquiantance to be kidding me, when they barely know me. What's your stand on this?
3 responses
@tetris15 (539)
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
I totally agree with you. I also don't want people who I barely know to put a joke on me. I find it too offensive even though if the intention is purely to make everyone laugh. I don't want to be laughed at especially if I don't know them personally. I also hate it when some people feel like we already have a connection or we are close enough to just joke around. I believe in order for me to be close to someone I just met, he/she must gain my confidence.
• Philippines
20 Aug 12
Yeah, I really hate that. Noone has the right to make a fool out of other people in front of a crowd.
@toniganzon (77288)
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
I am totally with you. I try to be sensitive when making a joke about someone. Even with friends, I don't easily make one when I know it would offend them. I just don't like when other people would try to pull a joke to someone they hardly knew and it usually end bad.
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
And, I've been a victim, myself, of these insensitive people who are trying to be funny by making a fool out of other people. But, I would give them a serious unforgiving look, and they would back down.
@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
17 Aug 12
Yes, I agree with you. I have many times "got rocks" it. Be careful to joke with people who are not familiar. Better to just respond to their jokes.