Is he the right guy for me?
By smileyy
@smileyy (28)
Philippines
August 20, 2012 5:54am CST
I have this friend of mine.This friend of mine is searching for the right guy she said for her. She almost loose hope of searching. She is afraid to take the risk of trusting. This girl loves adventure,easy going and very optimistic.
Theres this guy who is her long time crush. Without her knowing the guy likes her too. Isn't it exiting? The big issue here is she is holding back her emotions and feeling. Because of what she heard that this guy is a playboy and other negative things..
I was trying to tell her that if she wont try she will never know. If this guy is for real or not.She is way beyond to reality of what she is thinking sometimes.Just telling,so what can you say about it guys?
4 responses
@eynjel78 (44)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
Like they always say, loving someone is giving that someone the power to hurt you but trusting that he wouldn't. there are always risks involve when one decides to love. tell your friend that not to be bothered by the playboy image of the guy, she should get to know him first. for all you know, it's just an image he portrays and he is totally different as a person.
@smileyy (28)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
Exactly,thats what I have been trying to tell her too. But still she is hesitant.Loving someone doesn't only count for the good things that will come but also some struggles.Accept the worst then you will deserve the best of things.
Thanks eynjel78,have a good day!
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
20 Aug 12
If she will not risk then she will not achieve anything. She's a coward. She needs to risk in order to be happy. She has to give it a try. She just needs to take care of her emotions or feelings not to hold back. Happy myLotting.
@yuekim123 (161)
• Philippines
20 Aug 12
Love, a very sweet word, but as for me, your friend should not search for it, for it will come perfectly in time just when you don't expect it to. And about her crush, it's okay that she's hesitant, for if the guy really likes your friend, he would really find a way to be near her. Good day!
@blinjk (617)
• United States
25 Aug 12
In my opinion,if the guy is really serious to her and he do his best to prove that he loves your friend then he is the right guy for him.You say that he is playboy and I personally believe that some guys who are like that can change when he truly love the girl but some can't.She will be hurt if she tries to be in a relationship with a playboy guy.I also have been in a situation like that because he is my crush. I tried to be in a relationship with him but it was the biggest mistake that I did because he is not really serious. When we meet again,he is asking me to be his girlfriend again but I don't want to believe him again because he is not that serious and there is no effort. You will feel it when a guy is serious or not.Your friend must be sure if she feels that guy is really serious to her.Don't let her go in a relationship that would just hurt her.
