Do you still think about your past love?

ex lovers - poster made by a group for a seminar before committing to marriage
@jenny1015 (13366)
Philippines
August 20, 2012 6:36am CST
After a storm, we try to move one....look for the person that will truly make us happy. Years pass by, you came across your ex-love. How would you feel?
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12 responses
21 Aug 12
Talking from my own personal life, looking back at past love makes me feel guilty. I should not have fallen in love with the wrong person and then I should have gotten out without wasting further time. When a relationship is based on unrealistic future, it should not be sought for. I am happy that I am not part of it anymore.
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@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
20 Aug 12
We are just a normal human being and anything that happens to us in the past could occasionally be remembered no matter what we do,because there are some scenarios in our surroundings that definitely reminds us what was happening years ago in our lives.This is actually true to our former lovers,especially how they act,how they dress,their perfumes,their favorite foods,their favorite restaurant,then our favorite place,etc.Why have you ask this question?You have just open my previous wounds.
• Philippines
20 Aug 12
That is all right anyway we have different kinds of love story in our hearts to bury. I just felt the aches I have experienced before.She marries another guy whom she just meet and our love was destroyed.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
Don't worry, Berting600. A much better person awaits you.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
20 Aug 12
Oh! I am sorry if my question made you remember something in the past.
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• United States
22 Aug 12
I would feel surprised. I wouldn't feel any love for him anymore. That was then , this is now. I am lucky. I have a new guy who is my soulmate! My ex was just a stepping stone on my way to Real happiness. My answer would be completely different if I were still alone!Then I think I would want to try again or at least a part of me.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
20 Aug 12
Since i was married, i never get to think about my past boyfriends. In fact, when i saw them accidentally, i cannot help but feel lucky that my husband didn't have a big tummy and have grown fat and bald.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
20 Aug 12
Hahaha!that surely proved you chose the right person
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
20 Aug 12
Correct, my friend.
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
Sometimes, I can't help but think about them, but not in a romantic way. I see them in Facebook, and other social networks, so I can't get away with having them in my mind even just for a few minutes. There's one ex-boyfriend, though, whom I'm so concerned about. And, I keep wondering how he's been. I think I felt guilty about what happened to us before. I caused him some trouble back in college when I broke up with him, and since then, I heard he's not been in a real relationship and has been messing himself up. I get to chat with him once in awhile on FB, as a friend and we talk about each other's life, work, etc.
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
It's still normal for us to sometimes wonder on how those past lovers/ex's are doing right now. Though they were able to hurt us from the relationship we once have, there would really come a time that we can think about them lets say maybe accidentally. I have already come accross seeing an ex boyfriend of mine before and he was with his girlfriend at that time. I was happy upon seeing him having found another girl after our break-up, knowing I have already moved on I haven't even felt any hatred or bitterness anymore and after that instance, we become friends again. If we came accross one another in facebook, we would never fail to ask one another on how we are doing. You just have to move on and forget everything that has happened for us to obtain peace within ourselves, though it will take alot of time, lets just let time heal all the wounds that our past relationship has brought us and learn to forgive.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
21 Aug 12
Honestly i do and i think probably most people does. As time passes by and we may encounter amounts of people. Just moving forward and that's the new gift that given to us. LOL,sometimes feel sad and that's the motivation for us to be better person. Have great day.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
20 Aug 12
I am happily married for almost 7 years and I never think about my past love anymore because it makes me sad when I think of it. I ever there's a chance to see him in the future, I just want to thank him for the pain he caused in to my life and because of the pain I found my real love in life.
@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
20 Aug 12
You will happy of course. Besides, the exs are part of our life. We should not be feel bitter to avoid them, we need to be professional and be ourselves.
20 Aug 12
I wouldn't say I have loved many of my ex's as some of them didnt get that serious but there is a number of times when I think to the past and wonder how certain things happened, how people didnt seem like I thought they were, seems where I live girls are out to screw over dudes and just f**k us about, although I am sure theres dudes who do the same. Im talking to someone on facebook I used to go with right now and I have little desire to talk to them :/
• Philippines
20 Aug 12
It depende if you really love the person you're with. In my case, I always see my ex-loves every week because we belong in the same organization but I never feel anything because I really love my boyfriend now. Aside from that, yes it's possible you might think about them, who are their girlfriends right now, or what's new to them but it's just nothing to you. Anyway, that's why they are called ex, meaning it's already expired. LMAO
@alkemyst (26)
• Canada
21 Aug 12
I feel the way I did before we were together. I've moved on.