To adopt a child
By didi13
@didi13 (2926)
Romania
August 20, 2012 8:38am CST
A dear woman with whom I talked recently explained to me why it does not want to have their own children. The reasons they gave me to think and I was touched. And I did find my theme for serious reflection these days. Or maybe for life.
My friend already in first process the adoption, he said it could be his own offspring, but there are countless children in the world who need parents. As the earth is full of young people who abandon their babies unconscious as soon as they born or the many needy families, at some point, find themselves in the situation of not being able to increase offspring. And he feels that, rather, the world is her mission to help those who can help.
I sure was impossible not entitle him with all my mind, with all logic and morality that I feel ill. But something in me gasp of protest, not to hide it.
I love children and they made ??me come true every day of my life, devoting my life other other to eternity. I myself often thinking that maybe it would not be wrong to think seriously to make another child or, if not even adopt one. But I admit that I had not given up the chance of giving birth to a baby myself, no matter how hard I would have shown their motherhood journey, however understanding I have become to the world's problems.
Perhaps I'm the one who's wrong. Probably deserves to be born into the world more generous and wise men such as women who have just told ...
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3 responses
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
20 Aug 12
I gather the woman did not want to have her own children was not because she had an extremely high risk of a genetic disease where any child she bore would die soon after birth or be severely medically or physically handicapped or the doctor told her that she would certainly die in childbirth or something like that.
I also think it is wrong for one is healthy and able to bear children and married to say that you do not want to put another child into the world because, there are so many children to adopt, often those who are of a different ethnic group then you and often of a darker skin. Believe me, that is a form of racism, and more likely self-hate. And those hard to place or handicapped or children of other ethnic group need parents who able to take care of them and had experience with those type of children who often grew up in horrific circumstances. I could not have children after marriage and my husband and I had twins that came from the same background that both of us had .
@maximax8 (31042)
• United Kingdom
23 Aug 12
I can fully understand why that lady that you chatted to didn't want to become pregnant and have her own children. There are many unwanted children in the world and they need a loving home. There might be one child that needs adopting or a sibling group of children. Some disabled children need to be adopted in a loving person too. Good luck to the lady and her adopting the child or children. I have three of my own biological children.
@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
20 Aug 12
Great. She thought the macro. Many mothers want to give birth. But, he chose to adopt an abandoned child. I pray that she gets a plentiful fortune, to care for adopted children better.




