How to please him/her

Philippines
August 20, 2012 10:45am CST
Isn't hard to please a girl or boy with the things u wanted to do with your life but definitely your partner really don't like it, but the fact you love him or her you just let go of it cos we don't like an argument and even simple things you fought because Of the things you like but your partner don't like it, and all you have to do is to deprive yourself because you love him/her that much. Personally I hate it cause your being unfair to your partner.theres no freedom at all. Is there anyone out there experiencing this situation? Isn't good or bad? I highly appreciated if you will share some of it.
3 responses
ravisivan
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
13 Oct 12
nashria: I am reminded of a tv program -- wherein the girl said -- the boy showered all affection and love before marriage -- telling all good things about her. Four months after marriage the boy wanted divorce and immediately after marriage he has not been kind to her. Familiarity breeds contempt.
Quetzhal
@Quetzhal (82)
• Singapore
21 Aug 12
Er, I don't have this problem. If either one of us really wants to do something, we talk about it and reach some sort of compromise- If one of us really, really doesn't like it, then we talk about it some more and try to understand where the other person is coming from. Usually, the one of us that feels uncomfortable will try to adjust a bit and understand. We have arguments from time to time, but arguments can be easily avoided as long as communication is made the priority. In these situations, it's really important to understand where the other person is coming from.
snookms
@snookms (53)
• United States
20 Aug 12
It is not hard to please someone when you are in a good relationship. Relationships should be fifty fifty if you are willing to give up part of your dream for that person then they should be willing to give up too. And when you truly love someone you tend to support that person in the goals they have set for their life instead of discouraging them. I am lucky enough to have a man who supports me in all my endeavors and I support him in his too. We still get in small arguments about things but we try to work them out. And the making up after all is the best part. Good luck