what are the deference between infatuation and in love??? / myLot

Philippines

August 23, 2012 6:59am CST

I'm kind a having trouble understanding my feelings... I met a guy 9 months ago and we've been dating for almost 4 months like were just having a Mutual Understanding and after that something happened.. suddenly he disappeared and lost our communication. I missed him so much and I'm always thinking bout him all the time until now.. my heart is aching that I could almost cry everytime I remember him or the things we did ..I wanted to see him again and I'm longing for his hug and kisses. It's only 4 months I bet its just an infatuation. But my friends told me that I'm in love.. what do you think? what are the deference between the two?

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tickles23

@tickles23 (45)

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23 Aug 12

I think that's already LOVE. Infatuation is just like a mere admiration for the person. It's not a deep feeling towards a person compared to LOVE. But in your case since you've been missing him already and you even kept on thinking about the beautiful moments that you've had with him, I think you really have fallen for that person. Do you still think of him even there are some who courts you? If yes, well that's LOVE.

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@joicerey (46)

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24 Aug 12

yeah!! can't get him out of my mind, even I tried to kept my self busy all the time just to forget him, but there he goes...always hunting my dreams and make me stare at the wide blue sky while his smile and wonderful eyes are shinning in my mind...Everytime I remembered him there was this mix feelings I always felt ,, like,, kind a bit happiness, loneliness and hurt...

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