Have you noticed?

United States
August 26, 2012 9:56am CST
The average of people who are for gay marriage is 30. And the average of people opposed is 55? Am I just a dreamer or do you think that the next generation will legalize gay marriage. Or Am I correct when I say , by trying to narrow the definition of what marriage is many young Straight And gay will not marry and soon only the ultra religious will marry. Maybe that is what they want? I don't know. what I do know is that gay people are not going anywhere And they are raising kids. those kids will see how unfair all of this is and a change will be made. Your thoughts.
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
26 Aug 12
I like to hope so, but sometimes it seems as if things are going backwards.
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• United States
26 Aug 12
Btween Obama' comments and Chick Fil A we are on our way. There is no way to go back. There are too many people who are out and proud And are parents. Their children will Really change things!
@inertia4 (27978)
• United States
27 Aug 12
I personally think that marriage is on a decline in this country. Who wants to get married and be locked into an institution? Not me anymore. I have been there and done that. What a horror. Believe me. I feel bad for anyone, straight or gay getting married. I think all marriages should be legal. If thats what you want to do. I would advise against it though. LOL. Nice!!! Hey Now!!!
• United States
27 Aug 12
What I say is that gays should be able to marry. they should have the right to lose half their sh1t like everyone else.They arw not special. I agree marriage is in decline!
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• United States
17 Sep 12
I can see why some may need to marry. So they can visit each other in the hospital. Or to protect the kids they are raising.
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@inertia4 (27978)
• United States
16 Sep 12
Although I am in favor of gay marriage, it does make you wonder why they would want to be in a situation where they are forced to give up half of everything in a divorce. If I were gay I would not bother pushing this issue. I like it the way it is right now for me. If I could do it all again, I would never marry, well that is if there never was a T in my life.
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@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
29 Aug 12
I am well past 55 and I approve of gay marriage. It should be no body's business but the happy couple, so why is it? I think its great that a gay couple can adopt or get medical help to have children. There is always one thought that stays with me. No matter what, gay couples will never outnumber Heterosexuals because its so difficult for them to spread their genes!
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• United States
29 Aug 12
Forgive me. I didn't mean all over 50. My mom was 78 and ahe was straight but nit narrow. She was for gay rights . I take after her! Yes gay people will only be 10% of the population but does not mean they give up their rights. And if it weren't for a straight couple , there wouldn't be Any gay babies. So as long as there are babies being born, there will be gay people.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
29 Aug 12
Only in Canada, you say!
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
People will always have their own thoughts on things. There will always be debate on the things that we want and ideas that we support. Regardless the decision, at the end of the day, each one of us has the right to voice out our choices/ideas - even if one does or doesn't agree to it. I think the topic is not about gay marriage, I thought your topic was about the statistics of those who agree and those who don't. I think the main reason for such a statistic is the fact that most people who are older don't see the point because during those times there weren't a lot of gay people or if there were, they didn't come out aggressively as today. Further, perhaps the people who were in their 30's at open to it because they grew knowing it. It doesn't make either any of the group right anyhow. It's just a bunch of opinions. Remember that we are borne with the right to expression and the right to thinking. It doesn't mean that a person doesn't agree that person is suppressing the other person's rights. You cannot do anything if the person is against the idea. You may burn the person or turn him/her inside-out, but the idea will always be there. So, I guess it's a debate that will join that of the debates on religion and government. Something that shouldn't be discussed if neither would like to listen. Have a great mylot experience ahead!
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• United States
29 Aug 12
People who are against gay marriage and equal rights for gays can and Do things to stop it. That is what the Chick Fil A Hoop La was all about! A rich bigot thinks giving money to groups in Washington will stop this but it won't. What he doesn't understand is there are many gay , out , and proud couples who are raising their children.Now what he can do is narrow what marriage means so much that there will be less of them but that does not mean people are going live the way he wants. They will just not marry.And I think many straight people too. So yes everybody has a right to their opinions but they do not have the right to suppress other's rights and that is what I love about America. We know what is fair.Once more see this as a civil rights issue and not a religious one , it will become legal Just like interracial marriages! 45 years ago they were illegal in many states but now , even if a person does nt like it, they happen , they are legal.
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• United States
29 Aug 12
That first friend is scared that if 10% of the population get their rights that the 90% will be tarnished somehow? There will always be moms and dads raising kids. Straight couples don't lose anything if gay marriage becomes legal. Unless by this he/she means the ability to judge a gay couple for what? Being in a loving relationship? I wonder if it is something else? Do you think it is that if these people see that there is love between two gay people they have to change their view of gay people? Just thinking aloud! To your second friend? They can dream. It is so hard to get the many to agree on some things. There will always be conflict. But in America we in time do what is fair in time.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
As I said earlier, people will always have an idea or opinion about the matter. Even if everyone does things - it will never mean it's right. Even if nobody does it - it will never mean it's wrong either. It's called the civil rights because people have come to an agreement on things on fair ground and not because it's "common" or "majority of people do it". One friend of mine said, "if gay people would like their rights, how about the rights of those who are straight? - the right of the straight to raise their children in an environment where the mother and father will be man and woman." Another friend of mine said, "straight or gay, why can't we just live in harmony?" I replied them both, "If it's possible for things to be harmonious, that should have happened for the last centuries. The main reason why things will always be in conflict is the fact that human beings are given the right to think - what you believe is yours, what others believe is theirs - it's not easy to create a 'common ground', that's why there are wars."
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Aug 12
Each generation does seem to be moving towards more open minds. I think that it is very dependent on what they have been exposed to as youths and who they are used to being around. That is not to say that people can not later chose their ground, but for a while, I think it does matter how they are taught and how far they are willing to move away from or closer to what they have been taught. I think that marriage itself is becoming more of a thing of the past.
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• United States
30 Aug 12
I think what has helped is gay people are out. Everyone liked Ellen before and many Still once she came out. There are more out and proud gay people in normal walks of life. Most of us know someone who is gay and... they are just people!That really helps.
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
29 Aug 12
I believe some time in my children generation or the upcoming one that is about to pretty much take over the the US in the next 10 years that will be seeing more and more things coming possible for gay rights. I do believe that one day it will be legalize. I don't see any reason's why not to make it legal and it might because my generation was kind of raise in to see that it's okay.
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• United States
30 Aug 12
Yes your generation is what is giving me hope. You don't care who is gay and who isn't! And it is wonderful!
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
30 Aug 12
I'm sure there are a few people of my generation that doesn't like gays or gay rights for that matter. A big majority of my generation has very accepting of how things are and wanting people to be themselves and be happy with who they are with.
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@jillhill (37353)
• United States
26 Aug 12
I don't know. I know that the younger generation is not as prejudice....I see where someday we all might be the same color..there won't be any difference...but about gay marriage I don't know at all.
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• United States
26 Aug 12
I think it wil be like interracial marriage. It is accepted by most. There will always be some who see it as a sin.
• Australia
27 Aug 12
I heard a philosophy Professor from Princteton, I think, Ivy League anyway, who said that studies show that among evangelical Christian groups, 97% of over 55s are violently opposed to gay marriage, but that somewhere between 25% and 33% of under 30s are open to the idea, As for the right wing agenda, here in Australia they are talking about removing no fault divorce, are absolutely opposed to gay marriage, want to cap university places, raise fees, and get women back into their traditional roles. Oddly enough, lol, our nominally socialist Prime Minister is a woman, and her opposing leader a former priest who clearly has great difficulty in accepting orders from women. It's all part of a whole pattern. Lash
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• United States
27 Aug 12
This is one issue that will be solved by people not government. Like I said It will be the children of gay parents who will change it. The over 55's will have to get used to it , like they had to get used to interracial marriages. about 45 years ago interracial marriages were illegal in most states. Now ever hue mates with every other hue. The kids these days may not even marry! And it is no problem. It will happen. Gay marriage will be like interracial marriage, most wil accept it.