feeling alone

Hi ST, I've heard that before somewhere, so you're not the only one. Could this be related to your age? Some things to look at are whether you've always felt like this or if it started recently. Maybe, as others have said, you have a problem with something. It could be lurking in your subconscious and manifests itself in this way. I think there are many reasons why a person would feel like that. For each person it may be a different reason. If it bothers you a lot that's not good. If you're merely curious about it but not bothered, that's a good thing. Maybe if there is someone in your life that you could talk to about it you would feel better. I've been doing some research on it and can't find anything yet. And researching about stuff for your other discussion, too. You're keeping me very busy! Maybe it has something to do with friendship, or being insecure. Do you keep a journal? This might help. Writing in a journal has been helpful to a lot of people for all sorts of problems. Here's a link that might not solve your dilemma but will most likely make you laugh. I think you could use that today. And did I welcome you to mylot? I always forget to do that. Welcome to mylot! www.intjforum.com/showthread.php?t=28793

Your problem could stem from fear of feeling vulnerable. Some people feel insecure and develop a relationship only to a certain extent while not completely opening themselves to other people. In other words, some people have trouble trusting other people because they don't know how to deal with possible rejection. We want to express ourselves more; however, we might be too worried about how the people around us might react when we finally show our true selves. I hope my analysis is not too confusing or completely wrong.

i SURE HAVE FELT THAT WAY. i THINK ESPECIALLY WHEN U ARE ALONE LIKE I HAVE BEEN FOR SO LONG & U GO AROUND cOUPLES that u have a tendency to feel that way.

Maybe you are troubled by a personal problem my friend. We sometimes feel that. Despite being surrounded by our office mates or friends, it seems that our mind are somewhere else. When i feel like that, i try to concentrate in solving my problem first or maybe sharing it with someone who can give me a better advise about it.

Yes,i do feel also alone working in such indifferent city. Sometimes i do not have friends accompany me and we can not share together or even shopping together. But i feel much better after going home recently. That's the reason why i leave that city. Hope you will find other ways to make yourself feel better.

Maybe because you are having some problems that you just can't enjoy being with your friends unless and until you have solved it. It does happen to me a couple of times, sort of like I am. It just in the mood to have fun.