Husband Wish
By Lovebirds90
@Lovebirds90 (207)
United States
August 28, 2012 2:06am CST
If you married someone like me, who wishes in first night to you that to begin our new married life, I am gifting you myself under your feet. You're my mistress, Please treat me as your pet dog from now on. What will be your reaction? Will you agree with happily or agree just because I(mean your husband) want this?
2 responses
@chrystalia (1208)
• Tucson, Arizona
28 Aug 12
If he is being figurative and romantic, pull him up, kiss him and say I love you. If he's being serious-- you should have spotted his submissive tendencies before you got married LOL. If he's serious and it doesn't freak you out, but him a collar, a leash and a dog dish (and a doggie bed). At least you will have a dog that can carry on a decent conversation, clean the house and do the dishes.
There is nothing abnormal about being a submissive, if that's what he really is. You don't have to turn into a leather wearing cat woman with a whip or anything, but if it makes him happy, and you don't object, then there's not a problem. Be sure to write up some rules of conduct for him, and whatever you do, don't list any punishment other than making him invisible-- otherwise he might deliberately get in trouble to get punished, and I am betting that would make you very uncomfortable. Since he is putting you in charge, you can do as much-- or as little-- as you please. But remember, if he really is a submissive, he needs to serve for emotional health-- we won't be happy if he can't serve you. You might be able to break him of wanting to be a dog, in particular-- there are lots of ways to do it-- but you can't beak him of his internal feelings.
@Lovebirds90 (207)
• United States
5 Sep 12
I asked a girl to be my mistress and I'm her pet dog and I expressed all my feelings to her but she refused just because she can't even see a man at any women's feet. She asked me, "why are you doing all this to yourself? Don't even think about this type of crap to yourself". I was so sad after some conversation with her. She than said to me that she can't raise her hand on my cheeks and can't even think about that. Women does'nt want to see a man as their pet dog, they want love from her husband. I was not agree with her. If a man do whatever his wife say, than wife should do whatever her husband wants. what's wrong with that if a women punishes her husband, treat him as her pet dog?
@chrystalia (1208)
• Tucson, Arizona
5 Sep 12
Well, even in America Mistresses are not nearly as common as Masters-- and in a lot of countries, women are raised to be submissive, and have almost no rights or freedoms anyway. In middle eastern countries, a woman found to be a Mistress would probably be thrown in jail or worse--sharia law is very hard on women.
Of course, if a married man ORDERS his wife to treat him as he wishes, and threatens divorce or punishment if she doesn't then she probably would-- but she wouldn't be happy. Also, a lot of women are afraid to do things like you wish because they are afraid they will like it too much and want to do more, and worse, things. Women often have a lot of repressed anger towards men, you know. It can take a long time to find the right person, especially if you live somewhere where intimate activities are mostly illegal. There aren't any easy answers, especially when open communication about lifestyles and organizations that provide a social means of bringing people who like alternative lifestyles together aren't available. If you lived in most of Europe, or Holland it would be easy. Even in the USA it would be easy. For women, even today many are raised to do what a man wants without question, and they don't have the freedom to do as they want. Women raised that way don't expect a man to do as they wish, but they know they MUST do as their husband wishes, or they can lose their home, their children and everything else.
@Lovebirds90 (207)
• United States
10 Sep 12
We say that we are free to do whatever we want, but how is this freedom? If a man & a women, both are agreed, than there should be no laws and regulations involve from government sectors. you said that, those women who involve in such activities are thrown in jail...can we call freedom in this cases?
I was reading your comment and feeling so excited and my finger nails were in my mouth. I can't tell you, how I was controlling myself while reading this, "a lot of women are afraid to do things like you wish because they are afraid they will like it too much and want to do more, and worse, things. Women often have a lot of repressed anger towards men". Really...?? I will love to bear all anger from women. It will be so much pleasure while any women will be whatever applying to me to express his anger for men. Wow!! I'm telling you that it will be the luckiest day for me :-)

@venkataraman_vc (5293)
• Chennai, India
28 Aug 12
I guess, most probable reaction would be "Is this guy nuts?" kind of look. Nothing to offend, but women are extremely good in judging one by their action. Most of the time their judgement go right.
@venkataraman_vc (5293)
• Chennai, India
28 Aug 12
To more exactly mean, they are practical. If you gift anything that's practically anyone would do, they will accept gladly.

