Strangers who are gentlemen

Well, i must say, there are still a lot of gentlemen nowadays. They were those who were brought up well by their parents. They are humble as well as God fearing. I take notice of their being gentlemen specially at the church.

This is like so cool to meet such gentlemen like this and i feel quite lucky nowadays, i know there are good and bad guys while to find someone who is really inspiring is not easy. I would really love to let my kid to be such gentlemen.

So true! I guess a lot of men now thinks of themselves more than by actually be courteous. It happens, too inside the Metro Rail Transit. Obviously, it has been a popular means of getting to and from your destination and so it is always full of commuters. You would seldom see a man offer you a seat even though how much you let yourself look tired.

Out of 10 men , i guess only 2 0r 3 might be gentleman and the rest have no care , and you will just heard them say , we are just same human being , no woman woman here. One comment below says they are now the endangered specie , which is so very true. If only most men are tat gentlemen , maybe there would be less trouble in this world , less women who are maltreated or emotionally battered and more happy family around.

Society has not raised young gentlemen nor have parents cared enough to teach it to their children. It's sad but true. Only families who teach their children these values such as respect, kindness, truth, and chivalry raise proper children. Mainstream culture deems it "cool" to swear and be rude to others which I think is setting a bad example for children. However, I watched a documentary called "Mad Hot Ballroom." At the end, some young boys and girls who were on their way to becoming thugs and troublemakers had their lives turned around by ballroom dancing. The young children turned into young ladies and gentlemen. I think it's because the children had a role model to follow and learn from. The affirmation of support as well as appreciation for the children helps them feel great. I think you'll realize more of what I'm saying if you watch this.

The world are changing so fast that we even have no time to look critically at ourselves,have no time to learn how to love or be loved,have no time to care about other people.living or working in day-to-day static,we have lost our soul

I'm still fairly young but my parents always tell me how people these days just don't have any respect, they claim that "in their day" people were a lot more respectful than they are now. I wonder why this has changed so drastically with time? Seems so odd. I suppose it's all in how you're raised, people must be sending their kids the wrong message these days.

Gentlemen, literally gentlemen do still exist but certainly they belong to endangered species. Chivalry is still alive though but almost dying. There are very men who can give their seats to women. They'd mostly think of their own comfort rather than giving it up in favor of women.

I think there are still gentlemen for no but you can rarely find or encounter them. Sometimes, you will be surprised that those you think to be not gentleman based on their looks are those to act as gentleman.

that is so sweet of him and what a perfect gentleman he is ,he deserves to be appreciated.not all men are bad infact

There are many men who are like this, and there are many who aren't.:D I really hate it when men block my way. Some of them would even stare when you pass them. Whenever I spot this type of men, I would avoid them as much as possible. I think guys who act gentlemanly tend to attract more girls. I have a classmate who is very gentleman. Before we graduate, I found out that a lot of girls had a crush on him! LOL.

There are still a few gentlemen that i meet around, thank goodness for them. They would give up their seats for me on the metro during rush hours, they would let me get thru the elevator first and held the double doors to make sure I wouldn't be crushed, and there was this one guy who returned my umbrella when I left it on my seat. I still have faith in men, lol!

Most men aren't gentlemen these days because the simple things like manners are not taught any more. They are not taught at home or at school. Society as a whole has lost so much of it's social graces and it is only going to get worse. You only have to see the way that teenage boys treat their girlfriends and visa versa to see that respect in a relationship is now a rare thing. The only problem is that deep down we all still want to be treated with that old fashioned way but we don't know what it looks like or where to find someone who will treat us that way. It is up to parents to make sure that they teah their children at least the basic principles of how to treat a girl or boy otherwise the next generation will simply grow up worse than the last and the cycle will get worse over time.

speaking from a mans point of view, I think men should treat women that way too. Not just the ones they know but strangers too. When it comes to me I treat stranger politely, both men and women and give women the gentlemen courtesies too. You shouldn't treat strangers badly and disrespectfully just because you don't know them.

Seriously there are lots of men who are like that. I am also a gentleman if I see the lady as a lady not a jerk. Attitude matters and respect is important.