Why Women Forgive Easily and Men Don't

Philippines
September 1, 2012 12:55pm CST
They said cheaters will be always cheaters. But in terms of cheating in a relationship, when men cheated their partner sometimes it was just accepted and sometimes no big deal against it,but...when women do it's always a big deal. They said when in terms of cheating women usually forgive and give their partner another chance but in the other side men usually dropped their partner when they found out that their partner cheated them. Mylotters, What can you say in this issue? Do you believe that women can easily forgive that men? Share you views here. Happy mylotting!
8 responses
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
20 Sep 12
Ha ha.. this is indeed a true statement. Men hates it when women cheats because they always want to be the Boss. I am so happy when I hear that a woman cheated on a man. Because, I myself has been a victim of men who have cheated on me so many times and forgiven them. Men of nowadays should put it in their thick head that women will no longer be their puppets and that although we forgive them very easily it doesn't mean that we are going to become their puppets forever. Women of today have got more determination and courage. I believe does not forgive very easily most of the time because they feel more deeply hurt when something bad happens to them.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
3 Sep 12
We have a double-standard in regards with this kind of situation. We have always been aware that men tends to fool around even if they are committed. Some would say that it is just fine coz nothing bad will happen to the man and it sort of symbolizes their masculinity. When the women fool around, it is the opposite that happens coz it is not accepted by society. The reputation of the women becomes bad. A women is expected to remain faithful to her man and should always have a forgiving heart if her man fools around.
@clocks123 (1225)
• United States
2 Sep 12
i don't think all women can forgive easily. it depends on the person. this goes for men as well. i really hate it when a man thinks he can cheat but if she did it no, it wouldn't be right.... it is confusing. i am not saying this for all men or women but i have heard of situations like this.
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
2 Sep 12
Maybe it is the result of the society that we have. According sayings, Men are men even if they are inverted they will remain men. Not like women who when a mistake is made, such as having a paramour, a woman is not the same as she had not sinned. There is a sort of discrimination in our society. However, there are also men who can forgive their cheating wife but they are just very few.
@kaeirole (668)
• Philippines
2 Sep 12
sometimes it's because of the gender, that's why most men don't easily forgive his partner when caught cheating..their brains rule..women are known for being forgiving, understanding..and wants to save relationship, especially when it's years already..hearts rule on women..
• Indonesia
2 Sep 12
Hello Man easier to think. Woman have a better feeling. Woman can easily forgive that man. But, some man can easily forgive that woman.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
2 Sep 12
Well, a wife and husband's story. If a huband has another woman, it doesnt mean he doesnt love his wife, he just wants to have new things with that woman and most of them will be back to their families. But if a wife has another man, it means she doesnt love her husband anymore and she won't want to come back her family... It is a reason why a woman can do forgive and accept a husband going back. But a man may not forgive and accept his wife going back.
@elsino91 (440)
• Poland
1 Sep 12
I don't think its women necessarily being more forgiving but I think that society has shaped itself in such a way that people subconsciously think that men are more promiscuous than women, they go around with women a lot more. Therefore when they are caught out even though it is still a horrible thing they are forgiven more easily. Whereas with women the idea that is if she is found having an affair or just cheating on a guy she is an evil, backstabbing heartless person. This in itself is a form of sexism that I've seen a lot of in the past and still applies to today.