Can you stand flirty friends of your partner?

Philippines
September 3, 2012 7:50am CST
I guess all of us have our Facebook Accounts. We add our partners to our friend's list. Can you stand flirty friends of your partner? Feel free to share your thoughts about flirty friends. Happy mylotting everyone.
7 responses
@Ladybugs (404)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
Hello Angel Karah. My boyfriend and I have our Facebook accounts too. I was the one who first had it then after some months, he was also able to create his. I was happy because he was able to have his Facebook too because he only had his Friendster before. I just convinced him to make his own account too. In our accounts, we have our relationship status. I'm in a relationship with him and he's in a relationship with me. When our friends see our accounts, we have each other's names when they would look at our relationship status. It's very clear that both of us are already taken. So, if some of his friends would flirt with him, I couldn't really stand that. I really love my boyfriend and I would be hurt knowing that there are some other girls who would send him some sweet messages. My boyfriend is just a guy. He might be tempted to fall with others if other girls would really do their best to be sweet with him. I think I wouldn't allow that to happen. I would really fight for our love. I would teach the other girls how to respect the relationship that we have. If I would catch them sending some sweet messages to my boyfriend like saying "I love you, I miss you, I wish I were there," and other messages similar to those I mentioned, I would really alarm them. Why should they say those things? Though they might love him as a friend, they just don't need to be very vocal about that. If they are just sweet, they should find their own partners so they could apply their sweetness. Their sweetness would really be appreciated and they would hurt another girl. I think I just hate flirty girls. I just want them to get lost. They should go away. Away from my boyfriend. Lol. :) There are still a lot of single guys out there. They should have their own boyfriends and flirt with them. They shouldn't do it with my boyfriend or else, they would regret doing it. I'm really bad when I'm angry. I would really feel sad too. I just hope his friends who are girls in Facebook would really use their common sense. They should also know how to keep their distance to my guy. It's okay for them to be friendly with him. They could talk casually but not so sweetly that would really hurt me if I would learn about it. My boyfriend should also know what to do when other girls would be sweet to him. He shouldn't fall for them. He shouldn't entertain them that much. He should already be contented with my sweetness. Nothing more, nothing less. I just love him so much that I wouldn't really allow other girls to flirt with him. Right now, I'm just putting my trust in him. Happy myLotting.:)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
Hi there Ladybugs. Yes, I do agree with you that's why I also hate girls flirting with my husband. I would also do my best to make them stay away from my husband. That's why Ineed to invade his privacy in Facebook. LOL. I can block them if I want too. If my husband is against it, he should give me a valid reason why shouldn't I invade his privacy and block his friends. Happy mylotting.
• Philippines
6 Sep 12
Oh, yeah. Don't you ever dare getting his password then if you don't like to get hurt. Just trust him. I hope he won't betray you. Thank you and happy mylotting.
@Ladybugs (404)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
Hello there. It's good you know your husband's password in Facebook. In my case, I don't know my boyfriend's and I think I wouldn't also want to have it. It's because I might read some things that might surprise and hurt me again. For now, I'm just holding on to his promise that he wouldn't talk to his friends who are girls so sweetly. I just want to trust him especially when he told me that he won't fall for any other girls in Facebook. Right now, I'm just letting him enjoy using Facebook. As long as I couldn't read some sweet comments on his wall written by some flirty and happy-go-lucky friends, I'm more than okay. It's just up to my guy if he would betray me or not. :)
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@jenny1015 (13359)
• Philippines
6 Sep 12
Oh my! I think world war 3 would start if ever I see those kinds of messages. hahaha! Good thing my hudband doesn't have a Facebook account coz he himself is sometimes flirty.
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• Philippines
6 Sep 12
World War 3? LOL. You're lucky. Don't mention anything about Facebook. I hope he won't have his account forever. LOL. Happy mylotting.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
4 Sep 12
We dont keep in touch with our flirty friends , those friends will jump in bed with you faster than anything . We also dont accept friends that want to flirt with our partner behind our back you have a lot of those . Well strangers online I dont normally worry about because we normally ignore them or delete them its that simple .
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• Philippines
4 Sep 12
Yes, strangers can easily be deleted. We can't avoid having flirty friends but we can avoid having communication with them. If we are loving and valuing our partners, we should avoid these kind of people. Happy mylotting.
@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
3 Sep 12
If the intentions are not for creating a scene of snatching your partner from you. Then, it is fine.
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
Yes, it's good if they don't have that intention. However, some guys tend to fall in love or get attracted to flirty women. I just can't the idea that someone is flirting with my man. I hope they won't allow them but sometimes they can't resist and fool around with them. Happy mylotting.
@iola2012 (172)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
If I can see it as a foul and malicious act, definitely I will confront the person without hesitation. I want somebody to be frank of what they need to express, but flirting thing, then that is not acceptable.
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
Yes, that's right. They shouldn't flirt in the first place. If they know that the man is already taken, then they should know their place. They don't make us happy. LOL. Happy mylotting.
@nupur123 (392)
• Hyderabad, India
4 Sep 12
Once we went out in a group for a party in which there where my friends and my husband friends . I found that one of my husband friend was troubling my friends girlfriend. First she ignored him but when he start toching her in a wrong way , she losed her temper and slapped him . We all where so shocked and even amberresed for this.
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@blinjk (617)
• United States
3 Sep 12
I really cannot stand my bf's friends most especially those who flirts him.I am also a jealous person most especially if he chats with them. Like my friend,whom had a crush on him but my bf always tells me if he is talking to her.I really do not know what my friend is up to maybe because they have a past(she is the ex of my bf).I was really angry when I saw their conversation but he said to me that he was only testing her just to confirm what she is up to and it is confirmed that she really wants him back.I felt really bad about that because she was my friend.
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• Philippines
3 Sep 12
Oh, that's awkward. Your boyfriend is your friend's ex. I hope your friend will stop chatting with your bf now. Their relationship was over. She doesn't have any reason to have any communication with him. She should respect you. Happy mylotting.