do u think someone is destined to be with you?^^

surprising lover - boy is closing his gfs eyes^^
Portugal
September 4, 2012 10:39am CST
hi guys do you think that we are meant to be with someone? or that we make our own destiny? about me i believe in destiny. i think we are meant to end with someone. bcs sometimes some funny things happen. like meet someone you didnt see in a long time and then you learn something with it. so i think that our relations fail cause its meant to be. even we get hurt sure. i just wish that in this lifetime im destined to be with a sweet guy that truly loves me^^ what about you guys? what are your opinions? please share
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
4 Sep 12
I believe in destiny. I also believe in serendipity. Like I said in a previous post of yours, I know the girl I am with years ago. For some reason we were not to be together then. But we did find each other again and we are together now. That is serendipity at work.
• Portugal
6 Sep 12
yes sure it doesnt mean anything^^ what matters is that you love each other. i just asked cause we usually dream about marry with the love of our life right?^^ anyway if that isnt important to you neither to her then dont marry^^ we should do what makes us happy. wish you get divorced soon. so then maybe if you want to marry again you can^^
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• Portugal
5 Sep 12
thats very romantic^^ she was really meant to be with you. its always nice to know that we are destined for that person. makes us feel like we were born to be loved by that special guy^^ i just wish it doesnt take a long time till i find my perfect match^^ i wish you the best with your gf^^ do you plan to marry soon? will you propose to her?^^
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
6 Sep 12
I will marry her is she wants to. I went through a bad marriage with someone else and we are not yet divorced. But it is getting to that point. So when thats final, I will ask her. But in reality, it does not matter. We love each other and want to be with each other. So a marriage license is not going to make that any better.
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4 Sep 12
I hope so ,but what a pity that I haven't met such a person.I love my gf very much but I think she doesn't care me at all.She only care her things as like I'm an insignificant role in her life.
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• Portugal
5 Sep 12
oh thats awful. if you feel that way you should tell her. you shouldnt be with someone that makes you feel unhappy. you should be with a girl that values you. if you feel she doesnt love you talk to her. if she really doesnt love you then move on. no one should be stuck in an unhappy relationship. we all someday find the right person you are not different. just dont waste your time with someone that doesnt value you.
5 Sep 12
There are many things about work bothering her.We are separated the two places now.It is quite a hard time to us now....
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• Portugal
5 Sep 12
she is working in a place far from you? i understand it must be really complicated^^ but i guess if you both like each other you can overcome all^^ just try to contact her everyday and show her how much you love her. you and her are living in different countries? or just in different cities?^^
@agent807 (751)
• United States
27 Sep 12
I guess there is someone for everyone, but myself, I kind of rejected love. For a long time, I didn't honestly think there was anyone out there for me. I always had a hard time asking a girl out, mostly because of the constant rejections, and criticisms. Even though I didn't completely give up on it, the thought of having someone by my side has been put on the back burner, though there have been times I wish someone was there to keep me from getting into half of the trouble I was getting into. In a way, it's sad because I am 32 and never had a relationship before. There probably is someone out there for me, but right now, I can't see her. I guess things will align and steer me in the direction of her, whoever she is. That's when I will probably know that she is for me.
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• Portugal
28 Sep 12
dont be sad. you are still young. for sure the right girl will come. sometimes it takes time till we find the right one. for me i also am waiting for the right guy that will make me happy^^ its taking some time too. but he will appear soon. and the girl for you will appear too. be patient and when you least expect she will appear.
• Mexico
10 Sep 12
Hi sweet love forever: I wish I could say yes but I have to be more realistic. I think there must be a way and that if I take the right decisions maybe I'll find a partner for my life but even if I don't my hapiness don't depend on having someone but on being loyal to my principles. ALVARO
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• Portugal
21 Sep 12
but alvaro we all need someone to share joys and sadness with. if we dont have someone besides us how can we survive? sure we can live. but we only can be happy if we feel loved. sure that principles are important but love is very important.
• India
6 Sep 12
Hi friend, i too have faith with destiny. God is the superior power who know about our fate and our life is going based on our fate, no one have the ability to predict the fate and we can assume it.
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• Portugal
6 Sep 12
im happy that you also believe in destiny^^ its beautiful to believe that we are meant to be with a special guy. im just waiting for that day to come. i think that we all need happiness^^ no one lives without it. we all need to be happy and everyone needs a special person in their lives^^
@Akaimiko (15)
• United States
5 Sep 12
I always wanted to believe in soulmates, and I even wrote down this list of things I wanted in a husband back when i was about 12 years old. For several years around college, I became such a bitter cynic because I was met with disappointment. Mind you, by college I had long forgotten that list. I was set on spending the rest of my life alone, but there was SOMETHING that was telling me inside to try at a relationship just one more time, and now I believe I have found the man God made just for me. It's absolutely freaky how he effortlessly knocked off every single item on that list from my childhood. And to think I almost never planned on giving him the time of day. With that, even though we are living across the country from each other, I am really positive that we'll be together soon (before the year is over) and that we will last. Dear, that perfect sort of love hits you when you least expect it to. It sucks that it doesn't always happen for people actively seeking it, and I hated when my friends would say love would come to me when I wasn't looking for it, but holy moly were they right. I think it has something to do with a person's sense of security just being on their own. That breeds a self-confidence that resonates with the right people and then those people approach us and turn our worlds upside down :-).
• Portugal
6 Sep 12
im happy that he is everything you dreamt of^^ you are right. if we are always looking for love we wont find it. we need to be detached from it and just wait. that it comes into our lives. im just sad that sometimes it takes a long time till appears. anyway i wish you and him be together soon^^ im sure of that bcs the way you talked about him he seems wonderful^^
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
I believe that someone has a match- or the right person destined to be with someone else's. I believe in destiny, it happens mysteriously and only those who have experienced it in real knows exactly how it happened and how it feels.
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• Portugal
5 Sep 12
i also believe in destiny^^ its just hard sometimes to find our match. we need to wait for some time till he appears^^ but as long as it is someone that loves us i think its worth the waiting^^ dont you think? you already found your perfect match right?^^ i really wish so. our life always becomes better when we have love in our lives.
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
i am a believer though in my present situation i get so lonely when i find myself alone. i think everyone should need to get expose or explore more areas of social life. get a lot of friends and involve in outdoor activities to get seen. in this way they could meet someone that they could start as friend as the relationship goes to another level when the two exhibit interest to know them deeply. this would result to courtship, ended in love and finally getting married when both becomes compatible with each other.
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• Portugal
6 Sep 12
yes sure^^ before develop to love you need to know the person well^^ or else how can you know for sure that he is the right one?^^ also sure is very important that we have an active social life. so we can meet a lot of people^^ everyone needs friends and mostly everyone needs love^^
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
I think it's destiny indeed. I met my husband and he was exactly the opposite of my ideal kind of guy. In fact I tried to ignore him before because he was only a kid then. Never did I imagine that I would end up marrying him.
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• Portugal
5 Sep 12
ahah thats cute toni^^ you say he was the opposite of what you like? so thats really cute that you ended up with him. for sure it was really destiny^^ but i think that also is good if we like someone that is completely different of us. that way we can share more things right?^^ anyway about ignoring him i guess that made him want you even more^^ usually guys like girls that ignore them ahah^^
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
4 Sep 12
I think we are responsible for our own life and own happiness. We have to develop ourselves, set our own goals. This doesn't mean there is no place for someone else (twin soul or soul mate). Might be we are more complete if that person is there, but fact is as long as we don't know and accept ourself nobody will know us or accept us the way we really are. Which is important. Most people think they found the missing link but fact is they don't. We are just looking for someone without knowing ourself and recognizing that only one. We are way too afraid to be left over, to get old without being married, to be left alone, to live alone... only if you can be with yourself, others are able to live with you as well.
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• Portugal
5 Sep 12
i understand what you mean^^ we need to like ourselves before someone else likes us. but we all need someone to feel happy. no one likes to go out and see happy lovers kissing or joking and he is alone. i feel happy for them but sad for myself. cause me too i would like to have a bf to do that with me. we all need someone. i think we all need someone else to feel happy. if we are alone for awhile is ok but after a long time it becomes lonely^^
@monkmano (585)
• Canada
4 Sep 12
sadly i dont agree, maybe im cynical or a little jaded. some people will find that person but some of us may just live out our lives bearing unrequited love never finding someone who would want to love us. i feel like this may be my fate. but when it happens i think its 'making our own destiny' again though sometimes you dont know how to! i wish you love :)
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• Portugal
5 Sep 12
i wish you love too^^ im sure you will find the right person. sometimes i also think i will never be happy. but then i think if other people can why cant i? im a good person, i deserve happiness^^ for sure you will fall for an amazing person^^ and that person will love you back^^ just dont think negative and keep your eyes open. she might appear when you less expect it^^
• India
5 Sep 12
Yes I think that we are meant to be with someone. I want to say I also believe in destiny. I believe that there will be one who will love me for what I am and she will be mine forever. No one can stop us from being together. I am waiting for someone who will come in to my life and will not go for whole of my life. may be that day will come late but will defiantly come.
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• Portugal
6 Sep 12
im happy you think like that^^ for sure you will meet the right girl^^ and she will love you very much for who you are. sometimes it takes some time till the right person appears but definitely she will^^ just wait patiently and when she comes dont let her go^^
• United States
4 Sep 12
Wow good for you :) I also have a loving boyfriend and I'm always praying him to the Lord
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• Portugal
5 Sep 12
i dont have a boyfriend yet^^ but i wish i can have. i just want to be happy with a guy that loves me so much and values me^^ im happy you have a good boyfriend thats so cute^^ bcs nowadays its super hard to find a guy that really likes us. honestly its almost impossible to find a good guy. but if we are lucky enough we will^^
5 Sep 12
i think its true.i bel;eive in destiny so i beleive that every person has a pertner by destiny and whatever he does he will have to share his life with the person.i perssonally think that couples are made in heavens that is it is all written.you cant change your fate and destiny.things happen when they have to.
• Portugal
6 Sep 12
its cute what you said^^ that couples are made in heaven^^ if that is true then thats so cute. to be destined to be with that person. but i truly believe in it. because sometimes we meet people that how come would we meet them there? its like strange^^ but bcs things are meant to be doesnt mean that we wont fight for the one we love. cause we never know who it might be.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
18 Oct 12
I also believe in destiny ,, I do think everyone have a soul mate , but sometimes they pass by or may live in another country so we never meet them . I second that , some relationship fail because it was meant to be and nothing we can do to stop it . Even if we find someone that can substitute we may feel like something is missing and that is how some people go out of a relationship and cheat in order to fulfill that gap. You sound genuine and open to finding that guy so I think he will find you also .
@narnia007 (1050)
• India
5 Sep 12
Even i think the same. Our destiny is framed in such a way that we some how end up setting up our lives with the one soul meant for us. May it be a relationship from childhood or caught up in between or chosen by parents or whatever. We will definitely end up nurturing a happy love nest with the sweet love of our life. sometimes we may miss someone who has been very close to us. It need not be a fight. It can just be the path of our lives which would have taken us away from each other.Still, i believe if we were meant to be together, we would somehow get connected and fall in love all over again. This even suits my experience where a girl, who was my best childhood friend went away to a different continent itself, totally left without a trace for six years and lo behold! Our destiny brought us together. Happy mylotting!
• Portugal
6 Sep 12
im happy that you met that girl again^^ even though she went to a different place later on you met again^^ thats cute. but did you meet again cause she went to your country. or did you meet her without expecting?^^ anyway is that girl your girlfriend now?^^ i wish so^^ you deserve to be happy.
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
17 Oct 12
I say YES :$ he'd find me soon lol! :D :*
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Apr 16
Yes, I believe, though we have to work for it to make what we believe would surely happen.