no the right time maybe.
By owntuilp
@owntuilp (422)
China
September 4, 2012 10:50am CST
i like a girl one of my officemates,she is so good and kind,i think she is my right person,but so bad who has boyfirend.now we are feel good talking and wokring together,but i want 2 her be my GF,and i will try my best to make her happy.3 mounths ago i told her i like her ,and wanted to we can get together,but she dont say yes and no ,will i keep like her?
7 responses
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
6 Sep 12
you can like her of course but in a friendly manner, i mean, to avoid too much expectations from her will be failed and that might hurt you at the end because uhmm, she was taken already by her boyfriend. you are right that it is not the right time yet. it is okay to befriended with her but not the extent lapse with the limit unless she likes you and she must break her relationship with his bf. for now do not interlude first because she's with others hand and that is her bf as you say it.
just a matter of sharing my thought and feeling upon the matter :) thanks for this
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
6 Sep 12
she shouldnt be texting you so much if she has a bf. bcs she knows you love her. thats why you feel hurt. cause she is giving you hope. if she is sweet to you and share things with you when she knows you love her she is acting wrong. she should be nice to you as you are her friend but not give you much intimacy. that way for sure you will like her more and more. please be only normal friends with her. you are getting hurt and you dont deserve it.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
7 Sep 12
hello guys
i hope she should not act like that. hate to say this, but she is playing around with you. as you texted her, what would be her answers? try to figure things out between you and her or else you will assumed of something that in the end will hurt you. ask intensely what you really want and converse with her. prepare yourself to her possible answers then accept the fact. after knowing then you can know what would be the next thing to do.
God bless with your decision... and thanks for responding back in your discussion :) i know your tough and that you can make it ;0)
@PhillyDreamer (3039)
• United States
4 Sep 12
I have to say you might be looking for love in the wrong place. Its never good to get involved with a co worker, and if she has a boyfriend already, thats even worse. Even if you managed to steal her from her boyfriend it would be hard to trust her in a relationship, because she could leave you just as easily.
@PhillyDreamer (3039)
• United States
5 Sep 12
She can't give you the answer you want. She is committed to her relationship. Even if she has feelings for you, she would be wrong to act on them. I live by the rule you never steal another mans woman, because you set yourself up for failure every time.
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
6 Sep 12
she has a bf so thats complicated. what you can do is to be friends with her. but try not to be too close to her. you were brave telling her how you feel^^ thats really sweet but if she loved you she would leave her. to be with you right? and she didnt do that. so the best for you not to get hurt is to talk to her as a friend. but dont be too close friends. dont hurt yourself. she knows how you feel for her. and she didnt leave her bf so. you should try to forget her.
@owntuilp (422)
• China
6 Sep 12
i m sure that she like me also,and she so care for me, such as buy the breakfirst for me before start working ,she konw that i always forget eat food at mornignt,and care about my life,many many,so that i dont want to give up,but i alos konw it is so hard to get together.thank u
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
hi owntuilp,
You can still admire this girl but you must respect the truth that she is in a relationship and you must remain friends only.
happy mylotting
@keichan1412 (247)
• United States
4 Sep 12
I think its better if you ask her again with answers for you to know which is which, and not to be on-hanged. Thru her answer, you'll know if you would still like her or just stay be friends...
@night01watcher (259)
• Italy
4 Sep 12
Be Patient, just don't push her. Because that will make her go away.
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
Oh, you fell in love with your colleague. Isn't it awkward? I guess, if her relationship with her bf is getting stronger then you can't keep her. She didn't say yes or no so she didnkt give you any idea. I guess you have to find another girl. She's already taken. Happy mylotting.
