Do you think divorce is good?

You must analyze first the situation before making a decision. Disagreements in marriage is a very usual thing. People differ in their opinions and that is normal. The problem arises when no one wants to admit the mistake that she/he committed. Being unhappy is a different thing. There are times that we feel unhappy because of certain things, but it will past. When you say you are unhappy being married to certain person I guess you need time and space to think and meditate. There are times that marriage encounter so many trials and you seem that you cannot hold on to it. But think twice because you might be mistaken of what you feel. maybe as of now you are unhappy because of marital problems and your thinking divorce as a solution. Think the other way around, if these problems are solved do you think you still feel unhappy? If ever that you are thinking of divorce, do you honestly say that you don't love your spouse anymore? Can you see yourself spending the rest of your life without your spouse? There is a saying that love conquers all. If you see yourself happier without your spouse, then maybe you don't really love the person at the truest meaning of it.

sometimes it is for the best because I've seen partners murdering them selves because they can no longer stand each other

Divorce is not good but if the situations arise such a man beating his wife, torture for dowry, torture for girl born etc. then divorce is the solution. But now this is fashion and both are educated they wants of live the life independently so take divorce immediate.

Hi, If it is difficult to spend the life with your partner, there is no chance of patch up r compromise and there are always quarrels and disputes between the partners then it would be better to have a divorce. But if they have kids then the divorce would be very troublesome for their kids. They would be in very sad situation. They can't get a happy family.

I don't think so. In our country, marriage is holy and cherish thing. I am unmarried, but I knew people always said that seven years can not pass, that's a important section. Why feel unappy and disagree? Can you truely willing to understand him and support him?

If you think there will be no other way to fix the problem in your relationship, then get yourself a divorce. But if there will be other way of fixing it, save the marriage specially if you have children. My mom experience such but they didn't get any divorce because we don't have one here in Philippines. But if only we have, she might get one, for real! My parents are not really shouting and arguing with things that they can't fix on. My father had a mistress and unfortunately, they had a kid. My mom accepted my dad at first, but after 7 martyr long years, my mom finally decided to be separated from my father. She can't stand on the situation that my father is still seeing his child with the mistress. I clapped my hands to that. My mother is braver now and there is no way we will leave her alone. btw. :) Divorce if it's not working out anymore. Your just wasting your time with that guy / woman. You might not know, after that, you'll be finding a much better person than your partner. :)

If the marriage is unhappy and by no means can be continued, it is wise to go for a divorce. It would save both the lives in the long run.