Isn't it ironic? What do you think about this contemptuous situation?
By fatlex06
@fatlex06 (895)
Philippines
September 5, 2012 2:32am CST
Ok. I admit. My father had a mistress and a child with that woman. Before, when my mother still don't know about their relationship, they live in one home. But now that my mother knew all and my mother already let go of my father, they are not living together anymore??? Like, hello????? What's wrong? Why aren't they living together no more? Is it because the relationship won't be interesting anymore because all of us knew their relationship already? How funny. A slap to their faces!!!
5 responses
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
You mean your father and the mistress, don't live together anymore?
Well maybe there's no more excitement because the truth has been revealed. Forbidden fruit is more delicious as they say. And not that it's not forbidden, where's the excitement? None.
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@tanmay0428 (60)
• India
5 Sep 12
See this may seems funny to somebody and will be a great issue to somebody else. It definitely differs from person to person. We are sometimes treating a situation as funny because we are thinking like those suffered as it has not happened with us. They are living together anymore because your father has broken the trust of your mother. When a person loves him/her with full heart and full trust then he/she also expects the same from you and it's your father right to give the same heart and full trust. If something like that was happening between your father and mistress then he should have told your mother about it and answered to all the questions which would have asked by your mother. like why do you want a relationship with that mistress, what is the main problem in our relationship that you want like that and all.
But what your father did was wrong. If he was doing a right thing then he would have told your mom earlier. I know that your father was in love with that mistress, it can happen and I am not against it but this could have been done with less dent in your mother's heart if truth had been spoken by your father.
You can think keeping yourself in place of your mother then I think you will not find this situation funny anymore. Sorry if I hurt you, but this is truly my personal thinking about this.
@fatlex06 (895)
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
Thanks for this. Well, actually my mom is healing now. Actually, she also laughed in this idea. And she find it so absurd of my father not living with his mistress anymore. I think eve if my father told me mother personally or my mother just figured it out, same thing will happen. She will be hurt and unfortunately, they'll be separated. My mom suffered 7 years of being martyr with my father's dishonesty. But even that happened, I don't have any bad feelings towards my father. I just pity him now. Thanks for sharing.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
I honestly do not get what you mean with this... i mean i believe it was just about right for your mom to leave your father because he cheated on her. most women would be betrayed and won't sulk and wait for their cheating husbands to come to them. its just not right!!!
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
hi,
that is really horrible,but of course you are family so your parents should be open to there child to know what is real happening to them,a child of course will need an explanation why they have been separated.that is why sometimes the most who will suffer here is the child.
@Belle_of_the_Ball (896)
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
ironic,indeed. Sorry,if I sound nosey. So where does your father go home now?
