2 years of being tom and Jerry.

@Angelpink (4031)
Philippines
September 7, 2012 12:56pm CST
Hoorayyyy...I am happy these days ...We are two years in a relationship , but guess what we are like tom and jerry , we never forget to fight. But so amazing after each fight , the more we grave for each other , we maybe in height of anger but after few hours , all those being felt are forgotten , we then look for each other's presence.Our fights doesn't yield to break up , but even makes the relationship stronger and more beautiful. Fights makes us deeply attached to each other. How about you friends , is this also true to your relationship there ? Tell us about it , excited to listen and learn.
3 people like this
14 responses
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
8 Sep 12
Congratulations. Your relationship is two years, although filled with strife. One thing that is very difficult to maintain a relationship filled with strife. But, I applaud you. You are able to maintain your relationship.
1 person likes this
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
9 Sep 12
Yes. It's a very beautiful relationship. I really want to have a relationship like that.
@Angelpink (4031)
• Philippines
8 Sep 12
It is because of that unconditional love we have for each other. We fight hard , we forgive often , we forget , we don't harbor pains and we look for each other after each fight. It is a beautiful relationship.
@FHKHKO (49)
• China
8 Sep 12
I'm very admir your relationship.I have a frind,we had a so good relationship too.We fight,just like tom and terry too.I was very enjoy this feel.
1 person likes this
@Angelpink (4031)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
Friends fight not to hate each other but to love each other more.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Sep 12
hi angelpink as long as you are ha ppy and your love grows mor e deeper I guess thats okay but I hate fights and we always worked out our differences and helped one other and supported each other. he was my best friend and my lover and our love deepened more over the years.we had 33 years of a great marriage as I am now a widow.
@nupur123 (392)
• Hyderabad, India
8 Sep 12
Me too as i married to my best friend . Its been 10 yrs we know each other. Today also.we fight like we use to earlier and then solve it like before. But our luv never came to an end by these things.
@Angelpink (4031)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
Fights don't mean that relationship will end also , it simply mean that relationship is healthy because both are learning and growing .
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
7 Sep 12
definitely has a lot of connections like yours and that of Tom and Jerry. our relationship with my husband is not like that of Tom and Jerry, we always somehow manage to get along not saying that we have no quarrels but they are small. is having problems but accept them with a smile. thank you for this discussion. nice day!
1 person likes this
@Angelpink (4031)
• Philippines
8 Sep 12
So good of you ,knows so well maybe how to adjust to each other. relationship with no fights is one of a kind and very admiring , hope you both are learning from each other. Keep up the beautiful relationship Nez..
@liguoping (179)
8 Sep 12
I don't like fight between friends,especially between closest friends,i like communicate with patience,but i understand your situation,many friendship occured from quarrel,and if they stop fighting,their relationship will over,it is really wonderful,i envy these friends,Good wishes!
1 person likes this
@Angelpink (4031)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
True friend fights to the last energy that they have , but after that , all are forgotten , as if nothing happens, there is no need of saying sorry even. True friends don't understand but accept you.
@fatlex06 (895)
• Philippines
7 Sep 12
Hi. Congratulations on your relationship. Just keep the fire burning guys. :) Much love. Unlike you, my boyfriend and I don't really fight. Actually, for our 8 years in relationship, I can't remember any huge fight that we had. We are always calm and try to fix things by just giving time to each other. We had some misunderstanding sometimes but we don't fight. If we argue, the other one must be calm so he/she can conquer the anger of the partner. :) It works for us. So I think it depends upon the person who had the relationship. ;)
1 person likes this
@Angelpink (4031)
• Philippines
8 Sep 12
How compatible you are to each other , i admire you both , yes i agree it really depends upon the person involved. You both maybe are very matured . You're blessed. There are things which can be applied in one thing and not on the other. Maybe both of you are cool minded . Keep it up.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
7 Sep 12
there is some truth in the early tom and jerry situation that it is the best of the times. but for how long the relationship lasts if it goes on and on. because you still feel the heat of being together, it is still Ok to be together. but once it fades, the communication and conversation are what keeps the relationship to last a lifetime or longer.
@Angelpink (4031)
• Philippines
8 Sep 12
Communication is one thing that keeps the relationship alive and nurturing.
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Sep 12
Me and my wife also more than 2 years being married but we didn't come up of a big fight or misunderstanding. Normally, there where times, I felt guilty because I taking care of her as her husband but above all, she understand me all the way. That is the secret of our relationship.
@Metatronik (6198)
• Pasay, Philippines
8 Sep 12
It is really normal that couples fight but then if it is becoming routine then it is not already healthy in relationship. In fighting to each other at times you will realized your differences then you will find out on how to solve that problem to your differences and that is the time that give and take situation will occur. You will find out as well that if you can settle it to the extent that you are really for each other. Another reason why the couples break up it is because not with the routine fight per se but because of the attitude of one or the two persons involve. Aside from that it also depends on the case like if there is 3rd party involve or anything else.
@jenny1015 (13359)
• Philippines
8 Sep 12
Congratulations on your second year together! All those fighting and disagreements are just part of any relationship. It would be kibd of boring if there isn't any to spice up the relationship. just make sure that you get to have a real good conversation after you have disagreements.
@jricky1 (6797)
• China
9 Sep 12
There are many couples like this, so i really understand how you guys getting along. Do not upset coz saying out how you think and this definitely help two of you more getting to know each other. Isn't it? There is no perfect relationship.
• India
8 Sep 12
Hi friend, good to hear about your relationship, as you mentioned you finished 2 years of your relationship, that's great. I am married and living with my wife and kids, we finished 5 years of our married life and have some quarrels, but we don't give importance to little fights and live with great affection
• Indonesia
8 Sep 12
indeed, if the connection is normal if there is a problems even quarrel. If we can get past these obstacles, of course, our relationship will be stronger and more understanding if the same problem occurs again, it is the secret behind the love :) And one more thing, after the fight that happens to be more intimate if it was at peace.
@nupur123 (392)
• Hyderabad, India
8 Sep 12
U fight with the one whom u luv . Me and my husband fights a lot . But then after 1 or 2 days when our anger gets down then everythings comes the same way it was before . If everythings goes right everytime that means that something is wrong. There should be up.and downs in life for changes.