I am lonesome for my mylot friend's responses

@winterose (39887)
Canada
September 8, 2012 12:16am CST
You see I am so behind reading the discussions on mylot that I am only reading what is happening on Sept 4 at this point. I started several discussions of my own but since they were started later than Sept4, I haven't read them yet. I am dying to read them and find out what you guys think of my move and so on, but it will take a day or two to get to them. Don't worry I haven't forgotten to answer my supporters, I answer every one. But I am still lonesome. Do you get lonesome when you don't here from you mylot friends? Do you read your notifications in the order of how they came in? any other thoughts on the subject?
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
8 Sep 12
iam the same way. i do it like that to but if i think of a discussion, i have to do it right away then , like you i have trouble getting back to it.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
10 Sep 12
wow I couldn't imagine responding to 500 discussions
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Sep 12
hi bunnybon i do not h ave the work and family excuses like the rest but somehow since I missed part of August I am still playing catch u p on 500 notifications.but I swear I will get to all my discussions and comment back on all your responses I swear I will.and part of t he time I will be responding to all my friends discussions too.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
9 Sep 12
i dont have that excuse any more. havent been to the hospital or without my pc for 8 months or more. just slow i guess. but im catching up slowly also.i promise.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
8 Sep 12
I find it hard to keep up with all of mine as well, so do not worry.I try to answer a few responses when i get on here, as well as reply to other peoples discussions, that way it is the best of both worlds. There are always great responses from people as well as great discussions being started, so trying to do both is really hard.I still am answering old and new responses from two years ago, so good luck.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
10 Sep 12
thanks ladies
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Sep 12
jugjugs to me you are a real model as youo have so many health issues and yet when y ou do mylot you really do go all out andrespond to us wonderfully., you still have the little cat avatar which I have always loved and when I see that I automatically'think Jugsjugs..mylot is indeed a great place and I have y ou and all my other friends its made me a very happy o lder'person.
@Eskimo (2315)
8 Sep 12
I try to read all the discussions started by my friends, but I'm busy writing and promoting my book at the moment, so time to reply is limited.I doesn't mean that I don't care about my friends here, and even if I don't manage to reply my thoughts are still with you.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
10 Sep 12
thanks hon, what kind of book are you writing, I published two books started a third and just left it.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 Sep 12
I always miss mylot when I am away for a day or two and cannot avoid thinking what's going on with mylot and mylot friends. Whenever I came back I need to scan through all friend's started since I lost mylot notification for almost 2 years now. Hope to see you active soon...
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
10 Sep 12
oh that is terrible that you are not getting notifications, are you sure they are not going into your trash?
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@much2say (53872)
• Los Angeles, California
8 Sep 12
I know I've gotten behind - so much that sometimes I may not be able to respond til a month later! But I will get back to everyone eventually . . . I just hope people see that I have indeed replied back. I don't read my emails/notifications here . . . I rely on the home page and my profile page - and I think I have it to a system where I mostly don't miss anything. Hee hee - I know it's nice to hear from our myLot friends . . . it's one of the reasons why I've gotten addicted to this fun place - hee hee!!
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
10 Sep 12
yeah it is so easy to get behind, but it is great that you can keep up.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 Sep 12
I am devoting my weekend in replying my friends responses over my discussions because this is the only day I could log in without hesitations. During weekdays I am doing some copy paste method. I am working offline using word and just log in during break time to start discussions. Everything will be back to normal once I get back to my old place.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
10 Sep 12
yep everything changes when you suddenly become busy.
@AmbiePam (85249)
• United States
9 Sep 12
I usually do read the discussion in order of how I get them, which means if I'm behind I answer the older ones first. That was I don't miss anything that's going on that might be referenced in a newer discussion. And I seem to be way behind in my discussion notifications right now.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
10 Sep 12
yep I hate reading a discussion which refers to something that was said in an older discussion that I never read, so I do it that way for the same reason as you.
@ElicBxn (63233)
• United States
8 Sep 12
Once I open up a discussion I started, I read through all the responses, then answer them as I feel I need to. That does sometimes mean that they all don't get answered, really depends on the time I have and the interest left in the discussion.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
10 Sep 12
well since I haven't been writing much I have more time for mylot than I did before.
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@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
9 Sep 12
I read my notification in the order of how much I know you then If you answer my discussion also . I also like hot topics so if I made reply to your topics and I though it was good I always like to see your respond to my comment also .
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
10 Sep 12
yes I do the same as you, some people never respond to my discussions so I don't bother with them anymore.
• United States
9 Sep 12
I know the feeling about unpacking and trying to get settled in a new place. randy and I are renting a trailer, but we do have the option of buying it in a couple of years which is good because it will give us time to save up so we do not have to pay a high mortgage rate. I am still unpacking and trying to find things. The boxes I packed are well labeled and the ones that Randy packed say "stuff" and "junk" so I have no idea what they contain. Just take your time unpacking and trying to find everything. I just found my kitchen an hour ago so tomorrow I can finally cook. I was lonesome without my mylot friends, but I am back on now and am slowly catching up. take care and I hope you are geting help with the unpacking.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
10 Sep 12
yes I did have help and I am all unpacked now, that God. What an ordeal, I hate moving. I don't know how some people can do it every year.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
8 Sep 12
As some of us has our full time jobs, we only get to come here every now and then. I think, it's understandable. As long as you get to answer them, even if they are delayed, then it's okay.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
10 Sep 12
yes that is true
• United States
8 Sep 12
Hey lady, we have both been busy with our homes. Miss our nightly chats but we will get back into the swing of things once you get a little more settled. I am still new here and time is limited. I answer as many as I can since I started back up again. Lately time seems to vanish before I even get started with the day. Poof it is gone and I don't get everything I planned to do, done. Once we take care of the other house and that is off my plate there will be more time for everything I want to do on the computer. I try and answer all the alerts I get in my inbox when possible. There have been a few that didn't make sense at all that I skipped or just couldn't get to. But I am trying to give feedback to everyone now. How can you be lonesome when you have a beautiful cat there to keep you company all hours of the day and night. Too bad they only talk when they want to and not when you need an ear to bend. Soon you will be going out again with friends and things will settle down. You just moved and there is a lot of work to do yet. Miss you too my friend!
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
10 Sep 12
I have two beautiful cats, one already fell over the balcony you read that discussion. No I won't be going out much the winter is coming that kills my bones. I got the body of an 80 year old
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
Hi Winterose , i am just new here but i have already come across with some of your topic. Looking forward to read more of your topics..have a beautiful Sunday !
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
10 Sep 12
thank you so much Angel, welcome to mylot
@cattibre (160)
• United States
8 Sep 12
I am new here, but have been going back and reading what others have said on the comments I have responded to or ones I have started. There are so many nice people on here. I am so glad I found this site.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
10 Sep 12
welcome to mylot yes there are a lot of nice people on this site. Some of us have made real friendships as well.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Sep 12
oh winterrose I am so behind and tryoing to catch up and respond to all of you my mylot fri ends. I get so discouraged . every since I was off line the first two weeks of Au gust I have been playing catch up with both responding to everyone and commenting back on responces I got on my last discussions .I think I responded to yours but am not sure. I have over 500 notifications in my inbox for Mylot and am still working on it. I am trying to do t he newest ones fir st.And really maybe I should do it the otherway round help.either way I am so behind.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
10 Sep 12
you are doing good hon and yes you have been responding to mine. I don't think I could answer 500 discussions, it would be just too overwhelming for me.