i think...

There is something to be said for unconditional love. The more we give the more we receive.

When we resort to emotional blackmail and force someone to give in to our wishes, then it is not about love. Its just lust. So, we need to be careful not to fool ourselves and those we think we are in love with. Keep emotions in check and not end up making our lives miserable. In reality love takes time to happen and it can only happen by free choice between consenting adults.

You cannot be loved back by your partner if you become too domineering on her. wr should allow our partners to have the freedom yo do what and enjoy. we should not hinder their growth as a petdon but rather support them to be the best that they can be.

Yes that is correct, we shouldn't force some one to love us, we have to create that feeling in her/him. I am experiencing this problem because I don't know my girl friend really loving me or not so I decided to know whether she is really loving or not, actually she is still studying and I am doing job, she is roaming with her friends and ignoring me, I felt very sad but sometimes she is like "she really loves me but in sometimes it is just attraction" so still I am trying to find whether is is real love or not but if it is not I won't force her to love me because it is her choice, I will try to attract her, create some feeling on me in her heart.

hi.!! you are right. we can't force people to love us. we have a freedom of choice and to be enjoy.

definitely true...but we can do things for the one we love to possibly love us back freely. But it requires a lot of sacrifices, more and more patience and so much time. It is possible but you should not expect in doing it.