describe what you feel when you are having a heartache!

@missjahn (4572)
Philippines
September 9, 2012 8:44pm CST
when i had my heart broken because of some misunderstanding with my boyfriend, i want to state break-ups. but cannot put this thing into words for i know this would be nothing and he will just not paying attention to it. but i cannot refrained myself to get hurt because my boyfriend could not attained what he promised for some reasons. i hate things like that. because i am not that kind of person either or neither stated promises to him for most of the promises being made are bound to be broken and forgotten. unintentionally, some other reasons interfered why he cannot derived to put his promises to actions, and i hate it like that too. if you want to do it, just do it and do not utter it in my front and failed at the end. yikes, i hate to feel this way because it will just show my sensitiveness of my being as a girl. like a little kid when not being given a candy, will go into the corner and would have a bad temper. but how can i help myself, i am just in love and would emphasize the importance of accomplishing the thing as one had promised it and put it into completion. or yet, do no say anything so that in my presence, you free from the bond of doing the task. obviously, all of this things bound because of that promises being failed. i do not like to think about it for it will just make me tired. ahmmm... i know sooner, i will be okay, hope really am. how to put my emotion into words when having this kind of feeling?
1 response
Jenny1015
@jenny1015 (13359)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
When i love a person, i give my all. and so when heartaches come, i feel like my world will really fall apart. it would take me days, months or even years to get over it. but i try to be as sane as i can be. i sm so afraid of having a nervous breakdown. so evetytime i feel the pain all over again, i try to divert my mind and do things to keep me busy.
missjahn
@missjahn (4572)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
same here. that is why i cannot accept excuses because if you are willing to deal with things to have a smooth and refine relationship, well you can do it. try to understand what can make your partner happy and avoid things that can hurt him/her. having a relationship is not one way feeling only. each one must know how to give importance to each one. be sensitive enough and do not abuse that one is so in love with you that you can do what you want to do even one is getting hurt already. i hate inconsiderate person. it should be take it or leave it. afterall, we deserve to be happy in life. one can leave me or yet better to have life separately rather than living in pain and miseries. at least, you know where to stop and when to pursue. you might get hurt at the beginning but sooner or later you need to stand up and be brave and show to the world that it is should it be. well, learn and love again if that is what it all takes. i do not want to live in ghost in the past as it haunts you with regrets. i just want to have a simple happiness away from the people who hurt you. somehow you need to move on. thanks madam :)