The act of sending out prayers through Facebook(?)

praying through facebook - prayers through facebook
@bounce58 (17387)
Canada
September 10, 2012 1:45pm CST
First off, I don’t have anything against people who pray, or who send out prayers through Facebook. In fact, I wish they get their prayers answered. I am just mystified by it! Maybe it’s the fact that when I do pray, I keep it to myself. I don’t like to share it with all of my friends. I’m just fascinated with the people who do. Is it their way of asking other people to join in their prayers? I dare not ask this question to them though, because like I said/wrote, prayers are a personal thing for me. Do you have people like these in your FB friends list? How do you feel about it? Not with the message of their prayers, but the way it’s broadcasted on Facebook. And I still wish/pray that they get their prayers answered.
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@Sandra1952 (6047)
• Spain
10 Sep 12
No, I don't get it either. Prayer is a personal thing to me as well, and although I'll ask good friends to 'say one' for another friend or family member - never for me - I just couldn't put it out there for the world to see, no matter how desperate I was. I think that probably these people think it's the last chance saloon, and because some of the special Facebook pages have seemingly worked miracles, they're hoping some of the magic will rub off. I don't condemn them for it, but I really don't understand it.
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
13 Sep 12
Exactly! I don't condemn them too. Maybe it is the 'last chance saloon', and it'll snowball into something where a lot of people would start praying for what you want. But I doubt it. Thanks Sandra!
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
When I pray, it is a matter between me and God. I don't need to publish my prayers in any social-media. If others do them then it's up to them but I don't really subscribe to that idea. Praying is a very personal things to me. I don't broadcast my prayers for the world to see. I whisper it to God and I let His Spirit touch me as I commune with Him.
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
17 Sep 12
I thought the same way salonga. I thought that there was no need to publish them in social media. It's just interesting that some people think it's fine to do it. Thanks for the response.
@Bionicman (3958)
• Czech Republic
10 Sep 12
I guess God has a Facebook now. Even he has to keep up with the technology
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
I do have friends like that on FB. Sometimes I can't help but wonder why they post so many "prayers", I get several in just a minute from one friend of mine and I think it's just "overdone" and gives me the tendency to just skip them all. However, there are those which are really meaningful without the need to be shared or liked, I like those. It somehow reminds me of my prayer time. But honestly, I never forward or share these stuff. Like you, I'd like to keep my prayer time and relationship with God private. But when I came about one of my aunts who became 'religious' just recently, I came to know her story. She was a victim of a very horrific calamity that swept their city (particularly their area). She lived in Cagayan de Oro and their streets were suddenly flooded and she and her family were really lucky they're alive. I guess this is the main reason why she's very grateful for her life and thus came about a lot of forwarded prayers and a 360 degree turn of her life. So I guess people have reasons for it. To each his/her own, as they say. It won't affect me at all. It's a social networking site, it's not a work-related site. So, I guess it's okay. Have a great mylot experience ahead!
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
17 Sep 12
Hello laydee. I guess when you know someone who's gone through something difficult, and just want to shout out his or her prayer to profess her faith, then I guess it's understandable to see a prayer or two, even on facebook. There are just some that I don't see the need to be made public. Thanks!
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
10 Sep 12
I think I get what you are saying but not sure at the same time. I know I see a lot of "pray for this person" requests and I do pray and hope that everyone's prayers are answered as well. Now I've not really come across a post where someone starts off, you know "My father in heaven" and is actually typing a prayer on facebook, I think that'd be too personal. I have typed the Serentity prayer as I don't find that too personal and it tells people you know, I'm having a rough time in life right now. I don't even ask people to pray for me via facebook, I use anonymous prayer sites. I am Christan but my best friends either don't believe in God or are Wiccan.
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
13 Sep 12
I think it's fine saying "pray for this person" on facebook. I think it's a great way to get the word out, and have a lot of people praying for one thing. I'm just amazed when I see some people have prayer/conversations on a social network site. I think it's amazing that one can have that broadcasted for everyone to see. Thanks SCG!
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
I agree that prayers should not be posted everywhere. Prayers done in silent are the most sincere ones. There's no need to post it anywhere, not on social sites as well. We may ask for a prayer but not to post it.
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
11 Sep 12
That's what I'm afraid of, when people take social networking sites to the extreme that even their own personal prayers get 'broadcasted' to the world. I also agree that for a prayer to be sincere, it has to be silent and private. Thanks jaiho!
• India
14 Sep 12
I seriously doubted if people are marketing prayers or what. these days so many religious posters and stuff are also seen in facebook. Most disgusting is putting up tragic image with a message,"please share it and save the soul". I just cant understand the thought process of these people. People just forget that this is just a social media and not some devotional place.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
18 Sep 12
I wouldn't go to the extreme, but I understand where you're coming from. And I also believe that there should be a separation between social media and devotional sites. Maybe we're wrong, and they are on to something by placing prayers in facebook, but I couldn't really myself doing the same. Thanks!
@katsmeow1213 (28717)
• United States
11 Sep 12
One of the prayers going around my circle of friends right now is for a local baby born just a couple of weeks ago named Easton Friedel. He was born with a rare skin disorder that is extremely painful. It's called epidermolysis bullosa. Basically his skin is extremely fragile and just touching him causes blisters, rashes, and open wounds. He was actually born without quite a bit of his skin, so he is in constant pain and needs a constant morphine drip. Last I heard he really wasn't doing well and we're not sure if he can pull through. I heard of this story before it was ever on the news. Because the family is local, the story was spreading through my circle of friends like wild fire. It started with one friend, then a couple, now all of my local friends are posting things daily about the baby and the family. Here's more stories on the baby. http://topics.syracuse.com/tag/Easton%20Friedel/index.html I think asking for prayers and broadcasting it on Facebook is just a way of getting the word out and hopefully getting more people to pray and take notice of an issue, especially an important one like baby Easton.
• United States
18 Sep 12
In some cases I think it's for attention and sympathy.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
17 Sep 12
I'm all for sending the word out in examples such as these. I'm sure there are kind-hearted souls out there that want to help, or just even say a prayer. I think Facebook is a great way to do this. Unfortunately, I've also seen personal prayers in facebook which I fail to see the relevance for others to see. Thanks kat? That's to sad about baby Easton.
@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
11 Sep 12
Hello bounce I think prayer is a personal thing. I wouldn´t post it on facebook. But facebook is the place where people shout, I mean always there´s an inner shout when writting on facebook. God says, if you are going to pray go to your room, close the door, and pray, and God will hear your prayer. Maybe people have they pc&facebook with them in their own room. You know I pray the daily rosary, but sometimes here at home(yours too) I get tired, or I need my family to keep in peace and silence, and to join me in a space of silence and confidence. I ask them to pray the rosary with me. Surely those people who write they prayers on facebook are feeling so lonely that use facebook to get out of their boredom and lonelyness. If they bother you, you just can pass them off ( as I do with my cousin). Blessings bounce... dainy
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
14 Sep 12
Hi dainy. I'm happy to know that you pray the rosary daily. My kids go to a Catholic school and they also pray the rosary regularly. I am hoping that they can find peace in their prayers, and that they don't have to go to Facebook to broadcast their intentions for everybody to see. Thanks!
@meticulo (1286)
• United States
11 Sep 12
For me there's no problem with me if my facebook friends post their prayers inviting me to join them. I guess a prayer is better off to be answered if one or two people say it together. Just as a saying in the bible that says, "when one or two are gathered together in my name I will be there.". But then God answers prayers accordingly. There are times when we don't get the answer to our prayers no matter how hard we talk to Him.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
17 Sep 12
It's made clear to me from the previous response that it is indeed a way for 'two or more' to gather and pray so the prayers could be heard. It just didn't occur to me to put out my own personal intentions as I deem it private. Thanks meticulo!
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
11 Sep 12
Prayer is very personal to me and altough I do pray throughout the day I prefer to pray privately or in a small group of persons who are like minded. I woud not do it publicly on any social site. However, when people on Mylot request prayer, I do pray for them but in private
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
17 Sep 12
I don't mind the prayer intentions running through mylot or even facebook. I think it's a great way to get the word out, and have "two or more gathered". I think it's a great way for a lot of people to pray for a single intentions. But like you, I think personal ones should be made private. Thanks cynthiann!
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
14 Sep 12
I am private with prayer too. I think that people who share think that the power of prayer is intensified by numbers. Like the more people they have doing it, the more chances there are to get them answered.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
18 Sep 12
I can see that happening. Like when there is a prayer intention for someone going through a rough patch, then the more people praying for that person, the more the prayer is going to get answered, I think. But what I don't understand are personal wants and needs, interlaced in a prayer and published on facebook. Thanks Jen.
@much2say (53958)
• Los Angeles, California
11 Sep 12
The power of a prayer chain comes to mind. The more people who do it together, the larger the prayer chain, the more powerful the prayer?? And what better way to find others who might join in on their prayer . . . by reaching out to the many folks on Facebook who are already listening (I guess?). As with any status report on Facebook, I assume people are looking for comments and feedback. How nice it is when you see a shower of supportive comments from your Facebook friends. Is it a way to make one feel better . . . knowing that there are people who will join in on your prayer or at least have positive thoughts for you at a time you really need it? I don't have anything against people who pray or send out prayers through Facebook either . . . and I hope their prayers get answered as well. I don't do it myself - simply because (if I may be the "different" one here) I am not one to pray. However, if appropriate, I will still show my support for any praying friends!
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
18 Sep 12
I think you've touched on something that I failed to recognize. Maybe when these people do pray, and see others comment or 'like' their prayers, it is their way of feeling better. Or their feeling of comfort that whatever they are praying for would be granted because of the show of support. Maybe it does work! Let me get on to facebook and start some prayers...
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
That's the problem with FB nowadays. Everything is publicized. I don't like asking for prayers publicly because not everyone in your list shares a deep friendship with me. I only share prayer requests with friends whom I have bonded with and trust deeply. It's like letting everyone know what's going on with your life and everything gets so hyped, so dramatic. I still believe in the solemnity of praying and most important of all, the sincerity.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
18 Sep 12
I think you've brought up an important point! I think that people tend to get lost in the number of friends in their friend-list. Some would have lots. And not all are close friends. Which of course loses sincerity when it comes to prayers online. Thanks gangnam stylist.
• United States
11 Sep 12
ok, i'm one of the guilty ones! i'll post a prayer due to a friend's request. i keep it real simple and allows others to join in, if they want too. i don't post my most sincere and private prayers. if one of my friend's post a prayer, i'll add to it. God said if two or more come together in My name, I will answer. today's technology allows us to come together even in different geographical locations.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
17 Sep 12
I guess I can see your point. If one does post a personal prayer, others can add to it to make it as a 'coming together'. I just couldn't see myself posting my own personal prayers. But thanks for enlightening me, and thanks for the response.
@marguicha (215506)
• Chile
11 Sep 12
I almost never use FB because I feel it has gone viral and there´s no intimacy there anymore. But I do get prayer chains from some of my friends and I DO NOT like them. I like them even if they have beautiful flowers or nicew sunsets. Some things are personal and each of us should learn how to handle their own spirituality. Certainly, neither facebook nor chains will help anyone.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
17 Sep 12
I think that it's great that people tend to reach out to everybody and try and spread spirtituality. But like you, I don't agree that facebook and prayer chains is the way to do it. I don't understand why people think they can. Thanks marguicha!
@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
I feel the same thing, it happens also in text messages. Even the context of asking to forward the messages to other friends. I do personal prayers but, I kept it for myself too.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
17 Sep 12
I have received a few texts which also has the same intentions of praying for someone or some worthwhile causes. But it being a text, I feel is so impersonal. Like you, I tend to disregard them and delete (rather than forward it). Thanks.
11 Sep 12
I do have many friends who shared their prayers through fb i go for it because God is a very understanding, forgiving and a loving God. God knows what is in the heart, mind and soul of an individual. Whatever forms of prayer or how you communicate to God it doesn't matter to Him. God knows all our needs so for me I pray for the gift of perseverance , patience and hope that He will soon grant my request or petitions according to His will..
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
17 Sep 12
That's great of you chuchaibugoy for thinking that. I don't doubt that there is logic to your intentions. I'm just in conflict at the idea that something personal should be sent out public through a social networking site. Thanks!
11 Sep 12
I agree, personal prayers should be done sincerely and silently. There are also prayers that are okay to be shared like the formula prayers or a group prayer but I don't think personal ones are appropriate.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
17 Sep 12
I guess some people still do send out group prayers online. If they think it works, then good for them. But for personal intentions, it should always remain private and silent to preserve sincerity. Thanks!