I Were In Unconscious Mood...??

Hello Dassodils I remember when I was in college I also felt the same way. I'm afraid to loose my close friends and afraid to face the reality of life. Afraid of some responsibilities to come.. Then I realized that it's more fun to face life with all the challenges. Life must go on. Just keep your good attitude, be yourself and be optimistic. Have a great day..^_^

See everyone need to adept according to changes one faces. It really necessary to survive and one easily can do this by doing this only. If you will start thinking about great so days you have spent with your beloved friends you will be on a think lurch. And that makes the world horrible (only to us in our minds). But the real thing is that you need to adept and you have done so in your past life. There may be a lot many friends you have left past behind (out of any reason like they opted in any other courses or colleges). So you need to walk ahead boldly and this is the reason why we call life a journey unto the unknown. just keep yourself busy.

These all are just your thoughts and when it comes to reality, there is nothing. Everything has its own time and we are giving utmost importance to certain matters and that is why we are thinking about the extremes. I still remember my college days! I was the only one boy with 14 girls and we spend a wonderful 3 years for degree classes. When we all are about to complete our 3 year term, even I thought it is so painful to live away without them and as we all had a one-family atmosphere in the class room and I was the only boy, in the words of the professors, I was the 'Sree Krishna' and I never felt I was Sree Krishna, among the girls. Nothing to wonder, as I used to tell you in every discussion, please concentrate on studies. Friends and friendships should limit within the college and an exception few nice/good frienships should go upto the end of life. But for those selected friends, we need not spoil the stuidis. I don't know what is the 'present day college life in Kerla' but I can assume how good/bad it is. Good, you have nice friends and good atmosphere, but just remember, what it comes to the topic study and exams, there won't be any friends there for your adive and help. You are the only one to do everything. So keep a balancing of study and friendship, then you won't have any problems or head-aches or any unconscious situations in the class room. Do well and best of luck.

Dassodils: I can appreciate your thinking. it is human nature to be more attached with our present set up. But the same mind will learn to adjust with new environment also. Once you join a new company/orgnisation you will like it and the colleagues. this you will confirm after joining the new company. We have to be attached with the environment/people with detachment.

Hi friend, your topic shows your childishness, college life is just a part of life, it is not the entire life, as you are in the college days, so it seems hard to miss your college friends, after finishing your college and going for a job, your job seems to be your world and concentrate with it, so don't feel a lot and concentrate in your studies

Hi Dassodil, don't worry too much about spending time away from your friends after college. You have to move forward and meet the world. It's normal to feel that way especially if you have grown to be really fond of them. But you shouldn't limit yourself from the many opportunities and friends that you may meet along the way.