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I feel bad with your friends or some loved ones of yours. They should not tease you with such. Try to talk to them, not to brag about it. The good thing, you feel comfortable with your body.

Don't let them get you down. Get yourself where you want too be and get confidence tho know you are beautiful with out looking for anyone s opinion. Do it for you or it won't work. Good luck

There are times that I want to make rebuttal against them when somebody is criticizing me in wrong way. Time will tell but I am really going to do that. I already told my boyfriend that there will a time that whenever there is party gathering and they were the one who cooked it I will bring my own food there and I want them to see that I am not interested with the food they cook. How could I lose weight if I am going to eat their food that is full of cholesterol? did they helped me? Or they just intend to insult me? Isn't that calling you names is part of disrespecting you as well? I find it stupid for other people when they are criticizing your body they won't help you but let you eat what is not right for you.

Don't be sad. You are not alone. I AM FAT TOO. But I call myself "chubby". The greatest weapon for that feeling is confidence. Wear it everyday and you will feel different. Don't feel so down whenever they tease you. Instead, you go with the flow. Make the first move or tell it first to their face that you are fat. and they will become speechless. Admire yourself, as no one will admire you more but you. You are more beautiful when you yourself is admiring your own body. That is the time you will feel more confident. Trust me, I am fat and that's what I do. When my boyfriend's relatives tell me that I am getting bigger, I tell them, "It's so nice to eat, especially delicious foods." Then, they just ignore me being fat. Don't take it too hard on yourself. What you can do now is to be on a diet. At least, that's the least you can do aside from being confident. Goodluck!

That's good as you are determined to lose some weight. It's really heard to lose weight specially that we are used to eating great amount of food. Keep it up.

Don't listen to them, they are jealous because they can't make the same effort you made to lose weight Seriously, try not to care of what they say, I know it's very painful when they think it's funny to tease you about it, I wonder if you can let them know that you want them to be happy about it and don't need them to take your confidence away. This is so mean of them, everyone has weak points and they wouldn't appreciate it if you teased them about it the way they tease you. Congrats on losing weight, you did an amazing job, don't get discouraged.

joan a pox on those judgmental people.do not listen to them at all.You have faith and confidence in yourself and be happy with you ,throw back your shoulders, hold your head up and smile. you are somebody , you are unique and you are doing something for yourself so do celebrate yourself.

well, do not mind them as long as your happy person. do not let there teasing spoil your mood. you have more important things to do. getting conscious with your weight would only make you fl depress. just think positively and you starting to lose. just do not over do as you would might get the chance to get back to the same habit of your fast style. so changing your diet might help but be sure you still stay healthy.

Just continue with losing some weight joan. Do not be bothered by others' teasing. As of now, they will not be able to see that you have indeed lost some weight. But in due time , they will. So, keep up that spirit. Go girl!

Congratulations on losing some weight! Not everyone can do it. Many people don't have the willpower to stick with it. You have determination and self discipline. Those are qualities many people lack. Your detractors are losing the one thing they had to make fun of you about. So they continue anyway. Even if you are not a skinny beanpole they have no right to be hurtful. Maybe you should let them know that what they're doing is mean. You should ask them how can they say those things to you? Those are not the words of love and caring about someone. Encouragement and kindness are the things we give to our loved ones. Tell them that. Teasing has a place. When it is about something personal - your weight, looks, mannerisms - it is not teasing anymore. It is cruel and is a form of persecution. Tell them this. For yourself, continue to feel good about what you're doing. As I said, not everyone can do it. If you read something that you find inspirational or something that makes you feel good, cut it out and carry it with you. When the disparaging remarks start take it out and read it and smile. They will wonder what are you so happy about. Don't tell them. Smile and put it back in your pocket, knowing that you are a better person than they. Laugh at them because you know much more than they ever will. You know how to be good and kind. Anyone can be mean and hateful. It takes a special person to be like you. Good luck!

You're the one who knows if you've lost the weight or not. I'm sorry to hear though that you have no one to support you or recognize that you've lost weight. Don't let them discourage you from losing weight if that's what you want to do. Congratulations on losing weight!

Don't mind them. I have been on the South Beach Diet for eleven days now and I am feeling improvements. Other people don't though. But that's okay. I am perfectly happy with what I have achieved, even if they didn't notice it. Don't let their words make you feel bad and don't let their indifference make you go back to your bad eating habits. I can't understand why society is sooo mean to fat people. As early as grade school, kids get teased a lot. It brings one's self-esteem way below! I should know, I have been teased a lot before too and now one of my daughters is too.

I know exactly how you feel. After giving birth to my children it's really hard for me to loose weight. And to be honest I really don't mind if i'm curvy but it pisses me off when someone make a joke out of my figure. If slapping is legal maybe I'll slap every people I know. Lol Well I just ignore them.